Graduated, about ideals and reality...

People say that "the ideal is plump, and the reality is skinny", and there is always a gap between the ideal and the reality. We all understand the truth, but every time we see the huge gap between the ideal and the reality, we can't help but be disappointed.

Dreams are easy to draw, and the process is full of thorns. Ideals and reality never overlap perfectly. Only by walking the path that must be taken can you live the life you want to live.

Make sure you live every day to the fullest. Facing the reality, finally ideal, persistent. Always strive to grow into the best version of yourself.

Life is like a Korean drama, and every day is live. There is always a gap between reality and ideals, not all wishes can be realized, when we were children, we saw the beauty of the ideal flower, and when we grew up, we would feel the determination of the thorn of reality.

Ideal and reality, in fact, to put it bluntly, is the boundary between spirit and reality!

I am afraid that there are very few ideals and realities that can be taken care of at the same timeOnly reality without ideals, just like a person only has a shell and loses that "heart"?Only "ideals" and "reality"?

That is also a kind of eternal "childishness"?Even "survival" has become a problemThat kind of result, or become a big thing?

Or destruction?Just like Van Gogh, he starved to death on the streets for painting, but he created an immortal legend, and his paintings have become priceless treasures today!It should be said that in the end, he was still successful!

And the hazy poet Gu Cheng was finally destroyed in his "hazy poetry", because the "hazy poetry" limited his life, and finally created the tragedy of his life!

I'm not Van Gogh, I'm not Gu Cheng, I'm just an ordinary layman!So, the first thing I have to face is my reality, which is life. Although I also have my own ideals in life, I can only secretly "idealize" ...... in the "cracks" of life

The ideal world is a perfect and beautiful world, but the real world is indeed a real and cruel world. When the ideal and the reality are infinitely close, a beautiful and real world will slowly emerge. On the contrary, people's hearts will be broken, and sweet dreams will become bad news in life, and they will become the weight of life that we cannot bear.

Regarding ideals and reality, the philosopher Feng Youlan summarized a few points, let's listen to them and see what the advantages or disadvantages are.

1, Shakyamuni cut his own flesh to feed the eagle, which is a benevolent act, but using the blood and sweat of the Indians to maintain the prosperity of the British, not only Gandhi opposed, even if Shakyamuni was resurrected, he would not agree. The ideals of the British are not only interests, but also interests.

2. There is no law between countries, and there is not much morality between countries, and there are no eternal enemies between countries, only eternal interests. It is better to talk about reality not among countries.

3. Ideals and reality are not opposites, but depend on each other. Reality is inseparable from ideals, and ideals are inseparable from reality.

Ideals and reality always seem to exist in opposite or opposite directions. Isn't there something to say: the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny!

It is as if the ideal is the moon and the reality is sixpence. One in heaven and one on earth. The two ends that are out of reach will always cause endless contradictions and entanglements.

Just like in the real society, many people do things that are not related to their ideals, earning money that needs to support their families and fill their stomachs. The importance of acquiring realistic survival skills is much more important than ideal under many conditions.

Therefore, we will find that ideals and reality are not opposites, but remind those who pursue ideals to be realistic and not too ambitious. You can concentrate on studying, and gradually get closer to your ideals under the premise of combining it with real life.

I'm really not looking for a job right now.

I think it's better to do it first. Because you've just graduated, probably not.

Adapting to society, speaking of rip-off. Don't you need to change jobs?

Rip-off? This society is too realistic, and I suggest you do your job first.

Exercise the experience, because the society attaches great importance to the work experience.

Examine. When you really make a small achievement, it's not too late to think about changing jobs. Yes.

Sometimes you need to fold another price to do the job you like, depending on what you value, do what you like, if you like money.

Ideals are generally unrealistic, so let's do our job well!

I'm still young, so let's do a good job. The initial dream is very important, very important.

The first 3 years (4 years) or the first 4 years (if it is a 5-year system) are all course learning stages, and students at this stage are polarized, some of them have strong self-control ability and a strong sense of worry, so they can often be seen in classrooms and libraries, and of course, the final exam results are far ahead; Some students have weak self-control and do not have a long-term plan for their lives, so they fall into online games or are emotionally injured and depressed, resulting in a sharp drop in grades! If you still can't stop the precipice, you will be forced to withdraw from the school when the accumulated credits of the final failure exceed a certain limit, and there will be no way to talk about the question of graduation belonging.

In the first year of graduation, students begin to plan their whereabouts after one year, and their destinations after graduation are divided into the following types: 1. Work and employment, and there are several situations here: first, find your ideal job; The second is the general work, which is not ideal, unhappy but there is no way; The third is that there is no way out, so I have to find a random unit to make a living.

2. Graduate students are highly educated. 3. Study abroad. 4. Be unemployed at home and be an old man.

At this moment, some students will be very confused, because they have a lot of problems to think about and don't know how to choose? For example, A said that he really wants to be admitted to graduate school, and he has the strength, but the economic conditions of his family are not good, and his parents hope that he will work as soon as possible to support his family; My advice to him is to make a choice according to your actual situation and personal interests, if you feel that you are very interested in developing into a deeper field, don't lose your nature, as for the family's financial situation, you can do the work of your parents, you can apply for relevant student loans at school, to reduce their burden, don't force yourself to do things you don't like. There are also some such students:

I think that since you are looking for a job, you have to find an ideal, and if you don't have an ideal, you would rather not go to work and wait at home and other opportunities, my suggestion is: the first job of college students just graduated is an attempt at social practice, a challenge to their own life, and an accumulation of experience. Like it, love it, blend in with it, and there will definitely be a surprise for you!

There are many other situations, depending on the person, and in the end, it comes down to a sentence: no matter what you do, as long as you are happy and happy, integrate into it, and feel the process is the best!

You can choose a job, civil service, graduate school entrance examination, entrepreneurship, etc.

1. The principle of "unified enrollment and unified distribution". This is the basic principle of the system of distribution of graduates of higher education institutions. Students are recruited by the state, and they enter the university according to their grades and wishes, and after the students graduate, the state will issue a distribution plan to the school and arrange for the students to find employment.

2. The principle of "taking into account the overall plan and strengthening the key points". It is required that when formulating the graduate distribution plan, the departments and key units that are in urgent need or special need should be given key allocation. At the same time, the talents urgently needed and specially needed by general enterprises and institutions are also appropriately allocated, which not only ensures the key points, but also takes into account the needs of all aspects.

3. The principle of "production-oriented, grassroots-oriented". According to this principle, when distributing graduates, it is necessary to insist on facing factories, rural areas, grassroots units, and frontiers, and strengthen the front line of production. For a small number of graduates who really need to be supplemented by state organs, it is required to strictly control them, go through certain approval procedures, and arrange for internship and training at the grassroots level.

4. The principle of "professional counterpart, consistent learning and application". It is the distribution and use of graduates, emphasizing the consistency between what they have learned and what they use, the matching of majors and jobs, the rational use, and the reduction of talent waste.

5. The principle of "merit-based distribution, excellent use of talents". This principle includes two aspects: first, graduates of key universities affiliated to the state and ministries need to focus on use; Second, graduates with particularly excellent conduct and academics should be emphasized.

Everyone has different requirements for their own life, and everyone's pursuit of ideals is different.

The so-called ideal destination is also different from person to person, I personally think that the job I like is the ideal, the formal job of the professional counterpart is also the ideal, and the success of some people's own entrepreneurship is even more ideal, so be brave to do what you want to do, that is the most ideal place for college students after graduation.

Preferably professionally counterpart.