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Anonymous users2024-02-13Halo, you are all highly educated people, now it's the 21st century, big brother, marriage is free, love is love, if you don't love is not love, if you don't want to talk to others, you should let others know what you think, tell your family what you think, tell them you don't want to talk about it now.
You yourself also know that love is something that can't be forced, so you should have a good talk with your parents, both sides are always dragging on like this, you are not good to her or her.
Didn't your parents ask you why? You can tell them what you think in your heart. I don't think it's going to be that hard. Adults are very open, and they should also understand that twisted melons are not sweet.
Love can't be delayed, the more it drags on, the more things happen, if you really don't want to fall in love, just make it clear.
Good luck!!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Hey, now there is a generation gap between the previous generation and our generation, sometimes they think about the thoughts of his time, so there is today's thing, I think you can tell your family like this, say that you have a favorite girl in Beijing, I hope my parents can understand me, my wife I can find myself, you have to believe in my son's ability, you help me find it, I feel very useless, not to mention that I have an object now, I didn't want to come back, but I don't want my parents to be difficult, Do you hope that parents can choose for their sons? I hope what I said is useful to you, and good luck!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11It's hard to describe feelings, try to get along, and if you really can't accept it, confess your thoughts. You can't be a couple, but you can be friends!
Good luck!!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It's not like graduating from a prestigious university to find a good job, and there's a long way to go. Your parents thought about it too soon... However, it is recommended that you do not resist them. Don't be resistant. It's going to backfire.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I hate it when my parents impose their ideas on us.
How can they feel if they are not themselves?
Tell them that the twisted melon is not sweet, and you have your own thoughts and feelings. It's not that they say it's good for them.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Try to touch it, maybe you can feel it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07I can't believe this kind of thing is still happening in this era.
Sympathize with you. But parents have done something similar.
I don't think it's good to be reluctant.,You're still young.,It's too hard to force yourself to like people who don't like it.。。。
It's not like graduating from a prestigious university to find a good job, and there's a long way to go. Your parents thought about it too soon... However, it is recommended that you do not resist them. Don't be resistant. It's going to backfire.
Talk calmly with them while eating. Ask them what's so hard to say, maybe they don't want to force you. Communication is the most important pull.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Failure is a test, and success is also a test. You're on target. Persistence is victory, and time will prove you.
Turn your feelings into motivation. Turn helplessness into potential. Different environments can train different talents.
Different lives can change different lives. I believe that helplessness is only for a moment. When people are helpless, they will think about everything, but they don't have an answer, and they can't help but think about it even if they know that there is no answer, so they will be more troubled and depressed later, because we are more worried about negative feelings than positive, so we often encounter helplessness, pain and the like, and we will be especially hesitant.
Don't be afraid, don't panic. There are countless people wandering together every minute, but the content of the hesitation is different, each of us lives in this world, and there are many things that we can't control. It's not that God is joking with you, it's just that you yourself are too dependent on God, you know, if God makes everyone smooth for a lifetime, then nothing shocking will happen.
There is a lot of helplessness and unfairness in this world, and your mentality is very important. Be optimistic, be strong. Be rational and brave to face problems, everyone has helpless times, and everyone has difficult times.
Everyone has a happy time.
There is a saying: God created you, and there will be His arrangement.
There is also a saying: I reject God's arrangement, and I want to create my destiny by myself.
Believe in yourself! Don't give up!
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