What causes children to develop bad habits?

Bad habits tend to be stubborn. Once formed, it is difficult to change. In my opinion, in addition to uncontrollable congenital factors, the main causes of bad habits in children are:

Imitation habits are imitation. Surveys show that most of the bad habits that children tend to develop are influenced by their parents and family members. For example, encouraging adults to sleep in, eat or watch TV from time to time during meals, clean up after eating, and learn how to let children have a shared stomach at home, but fighting for seats with the elderly and children on the bus, or having children on statues, etc., is a posture at the lower end of the "no entry" sign.

Repetitive habits are created by repetitive behaviors, according to the laws of nature.

Formation. One action, one action repeated n times to get used to it. The power of repetition is enormous.

Once you get into the habit, you will run through the track without even noticing. If it's a good habit, it will benefit you for life. On the contrary, without self-knowledge, it is possible to harm a child for the rest of his life.

Therefore, parents should pay close attention to their children's words and deeds, try to avoid bad habits caused by repetition, and strive to detect and stop them in time from the beginning. Many children's bad habits are formed with the tacit approval of their parents. When a child makes a mistake for the first time, parents must make it clear and stop it.

Otherwise, once a bad habit is formed, it will be difficult to change. Therefore, if you get rid of bad habits and develop good habits that can be used for a lifetime, homeschooling.

The child is a blank slate, and the parent is a painter. It depends on the parents, what kind of work will be presented in the world. More precisely, it depends on whether the parents have a good habit of raising their children, or a bad habit of spoiling them.

Unfortunately, many parents fall into educational misunderstandings, believing that being good for their children, allowing them to suffer less and enjoy a lot of happiness, and pampering their children means loving and loving their children. However, in the long run, this pain, love, and tolerance has become a real hurt.

The reason is that this excessive love deprives the children of the opportunity to acquire some kind of ability through their exercise and disguise. When this ability is needed in the future, the love of parents will not be wrong. The mistake is that the wrong method was chosen and the scale was not mastered well.

Many parents think that their children are weak and need themselves, because children are small, so everything is for themselves. As a result, the children naturally enjoy the services of the family and are completely unaware that their good opportunities have disappeared. In fact, all abilities and habits are cultivated from an early age.

It is all because parents are used to it, or parents do not accept some habits of their children, the living environment and some human factors around them.

When the child is young, the parents do not do a good role model, the parents are very spoiled to the child, and the parents will not care what the child does, and will not make some rules for the child, and the child's bad habits will be formed after a long time.

It's all the result of the parent's education. If parents are strict with their children, then it is impossible for children to develop these bad habits.

Habits affect people's lives, especially when children are young, parents should pay more attention to the physical and mental health growth of their children, because once habits are formed, it is difficult to correct. Just like if a child is full of lies when he is a child, he will definitely be full of lies when he grows up. There are many factors that affect children's bad habits, what kind of environment creates what kind of person, and it is also the responsibility and obligation of parents to create a good environment for children.

One: Adults set a bad example for children. Children are the shadow of their parents, as parents, if they do not develop a good habit in daily life, then how can they ask their children to do it, before asking others, they must first do it, otherwise how to convince the other party.

It's like if you teach your child to be polite, but you are full of swear words, can your child be a good child in such an environment? <>

Two: the doting of parents. In real life, many parents are very fond of their children, even to the point of doting, knowing that what their children are doing is wrong, but they feel that their children are still young and not sensible, as long as they grow up, they will know and be sensible.

But they forget one thing, no one is born sensible, this is all that needs to be cultivated from an early age. When you are young, you are not sensible, but when you grow up, you are even more ignorant, and you may make bigger mistakes. <>

Three: various social factors. There are many factors that affect children to have bad habits, and in addition to the factors of parents and teachers' environment, there are many social factors.

As a parent, I can only say that I try to educate my children well and create a clean environment. <>

Habits should be formed from an early age, what is a habit, a habit is something that you have repeated many times, it is difficult to change, the sooner you correct it, the better, otherwise you will not be able to change it when you grow up.

There are three reasons, the first is that his parents are too spoiled, the second is not to discipline him strictly, and the third is that he has no self-control, so he has developed bad habits.

First of all, it is because of home education, secondly, because of the living environment and educational environment, or because the child's self-control is very poor, or because the child does not have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

The spoiling of parents, the habit of learning badly, the lack of guidance from parents, the frequent imitation of others, and the lack of knowledge and education may make children develop bad habits.

Parents usually have bad habits, grow up in a bad environment, do not correct bad habits in time, teachers are not rigorous in education, imitate peers of the same age.

Because of the doting of parents, children will learn from others to do that, children are very willful, children are very domineering, and so on.

Habits endanger our lives, especially when children are young, parents should pay more attention to the healthy development of children, because once habits are generated, it is difficult to correct. Just as a child has been full of lies since he was a child, he will be full of lies when he grows up. There are many factors that endanger children to develop bad habits, what kind of natural environment creates what kind of person, and it is also the obligation and responsibility of parents to create a good natural environment for children.

One: Adults are not very good role models for children.

Children are parents, if parents do not cultivate a good habit in daily life, then how can they stipulate their own children to also guarantee, before stipulating others, they must first ensure it, otherwise how to persuade others. Just as you educate your children to be polite, but you are full of foul language, will the child become a good child under such conditions?

Two: the pampering of parents.

In real life, many parents are particularly spoiled their children, even to the level of pampering, originally knew that what their children did was not right, but they wanted to feel that their children were still young and disobedient, as long as they grew up, they knew and would be obedient. But they forgot one thing, no one is born obedient, and all of them must be cultivated from childhood. If you are disobedient when you are young, you will be even more disobedient when you grow up, and you may also commit higher inaccuracies.

Three: a variety of social cognitive factors.

There are many factors that endanger children to have bad habits, and in addition to the factors of the natural environment of parents and teachers, there are many social development factors. As parents, we can only teach our children as well as possible to create a clean and tidy natural environment.

Habits should be cultivated from a young age, what is a habit, a habit is a habit that you have repeatedly done very repeatedly, it is not easy to change, the sooner you correct the better, otherwise you can't change it until you grow up.

I think it may be because of the connivance of parents, it may be because there is a problem with the parent's education, and it may also be because the parents are very accustomed to their children, and it may also be because the elders are very fond of their grandchildren, or even because the children have not developed a good habit, so I think there are many reasons for children to develop bad habits.

Parents do not strengthen guidance and management, and then parents set a bad example for their children, after seeing their children have bad habits, they do not choose to help their children change, but blindly cover up and spoil their children, or there is a problem in the environment of family education.

Easily satisfied. Children give whatever they want. Some parents also give a lot of pocket money to young children and elementary school students, and the satisfaction of their children is easier.

Such children will inevitably develop a bad character of not valuing things, paying attention to material comforts, wasting money, and being inconsiderate of others, and will have no patience and the spirit of enduring hardship.

Life is lazy. Children are allowed to eat, live, play, and study irregularly, do whatever they want, sleep lazy, skip meals, wander during the day, and watch TV late at night.

1 A child's bad habits may be the bad habits of their parents. Therefore, parents should lead by example and get rid of their own bad habits.

2 A child's bad habits may be learned from other children. Parents should tell him about the dangers of this bad habit and help him break it.

These reasons are that the education of children is not in place, the wrong behavior of children is not corrected, the restraint of children is not in place, the control of children is not in place, and the education of children is not comprehensive enough.

Habits come from imitation. The survey found that most of the bad habits that children are prone to are influenced by their parents and family members, such as adults sleeping late, eating at irregular times, or watching TV while eating, so parents should teach by example.

Sometimes, it is not right for parents to take a silent attitude towards their children's occasional bad behavior. It is important to know that silence is also a kind of indulgence, a kind of psychological suggestion. It will make the child feel that there is nothing wrong with doing this, so he will let it go, and it will eventually become a bad habit and harm for life.

Generally, parents are used to making children lawless, and secondly, children can get what they want when they cry, and parents think that children are young and ignorant, so they will let children do something that should not be done.

When educating children, parents should also be conscientious, in a good educational environment, plays a pivotal role in the growth of children, can also be said to determine the future direction of children, so many families attach great importance to the education of children, I hope that children can win at the starting line, in the children are sent to various training courses when they are young, but parents must not be in a hurry, to learn the correct way of education, so as to be more conducive to the growth of children.

When parents educate their children, they must not choose to indulge. Because many families are only children, resulting in parents to the child too much, no matter what the child asks, the parent will unconditionally to meet, so that the child can easily get what he wants, if the parents do not meet the child's expectations in the later life, the child will lose his temper, when the child alone to face life in the future, it is also easy to be hit and frustrated, educate the child to learn to have relaxation, and can not be pampered.

When educating children, parents should not adopt a high-minded attitude. Every child wants to be understood and respected, and also wants to be more cared for and cared for by their parents, so parents must not use a commanding way to educate their children, which will cause some resistance to children, and learn to treat their children as good friends, communicate and interact more in daily life, and pass on more love to children, so that the feelings between parents and children will become more intimate.

When educating children, parents should not let their children develop some bad habits of greedy for pleasure. Many children do not go to do homework when they return home, but turn on their own TV, and often do not seriously complete the homework assigned by the teacher, which makes it easy for children to keep up with the progress of learning, and school grades have plummeted, so parents should give their children a good concept of learning, put an end to children's greed for fun and pleasure, and cultivate their positive and enterprising spirit.

For example, the causes of bad habits in children are caused by parents. Because parents have this bad habit, it is a bad habit that children will also have.

Habits come from imitation. The survey found that most of the bad habits that children are prone to are influenced by their parents and family members, such as adults sleeping late, eating at irregular times or watching TV while eating, placing things at hand, encouraging children to learn Kong Rong Rang pears at home, but grabbing seats with the elderly and children on the bus, or letting children climb on the sculpture to pose under the "no entry" sign, etc.