How parents beat their children in ancient times, and how fathers in ancient times educated their ch

The ancients used family precepts to admonish their children and grandchildren, regulate the behavior of family members, and handle family affairs. Since ancient times, family mottos have been passed down from generation to generation in the form of father and son, and from person to person. Ancient parents must have their own tricks for educating their children, and many parents in ancient times also set an example, in fact, parents are the best teachers for their children.

Good parents can educate good children.

In ancient times, the teacher in the private school punished the naughty children by beating the palm board, and there was a "clear mind acupoint" called Lao Gong acupoint in the palm of the hand, and the palm of the hand with a ring ruler could not only warn but also clear the mind. And the ruler is also exquisite, the ruler is eight points wide means that there should be eight points of tolerance and patience for the mistakes of students, and one foot two inches long means that there should be 120 points of prevention and vigilance for angry teachers. There is also confinement, punishment of kneeling, copying of books, and so on.

Give birth at home, find a midwife, and boil a large pot of water. Prepare the sorghum stalk and peel off the skin of the sorghum stalk, which is very sharp, and use it to cut the umbilical cord. The reason why you don't use scissors is because the disinfection conditions are not good, and you are prone to tetanus.

In addition, the family burned incense on the side to pray for the Buddha and pray for the safety of the mother and child. In ancient times, giving birth to a child was a big hurdle for women, because there was no ultrasound, and it was impossible to know the fetal position, all depending on the experience of the midwife.

In ancient times, every family had family rules and family laws, and children were generally beaten with a ring ruler or rattan.

Children can't fight with the concept of convincing people to penetrate into the hearts of the people, but as the old saying goes, filial piety comes out under the stick. Not only in China, but also in the United Kingdom, there is an old proverb: spare the rod spoil the child

Translated into a similar meaning, it is also similar to the meaning of filial piety under the stick. Let's not talk about whether we can educate children today, let's talk about why China and the West can't get along with this stick when it comes to educating children?

Ancient parents are not responsible for their children's "seven non-responsibilities" 1. Do not blame the public: In public, do not blame the child, but give the child dignity in front of everyone. 2. Remorse: If the child is already ashamed and regretful of his mistakes, great.

1. Don't be responsible for the public In front of the public, don't blame the child, but give the child dignity in front of everyone.

Autumn is a season of silence and bleakness. At least that's what I think. Because the cool crops of autumn have left Mother Earth, because the cool leaves of autumn are tightly nestled beside the roots, because the cool geese of autumn have left the north they love, and it is precisely because of the coolness of autumn that you have left my favorite side.

In the past, children treated their parents as babies, and now parents treat their children as babies, so the children in the past could be beaten casually, and parents could be angry with their children when they were unhappy, and children could beat and scold them if they did anything wrong. But today's children are the pearl of the palm, parents must follow them, education can only use words to educate people to convince people, and cannot solve problems with violence.

In ancient times, it was mainly the sovereignty of the elders, and the children did not have their own initiative, and the future planning of life routes was planned by the elders, and you were responsible for the walk, and now our children have the right to personal freedom according to laws and regulations, and we must not harm our own health interests, and domestic violence is not conducive to our own healthy growth.

The main reason is that it is now a society with a legal system, although parents have the right to educate their children in a compulsory manner, they still cannot beat their children, and if they beat their children, they may be held legally responsible.

I think that this kind of change is very large, partly because of the change in ideology and culture, and also because it is necessary to adapt to the changes in the living environment of the current society. It is necessary to educate children with better educational ideas.

Human beings are evolving, ancient times to the present, and all behavioral habits, including eating patterns, will improve in all aspects. Nowadays, people are more particular about being friends with their children.

Because in ancient times, filial piety was very scrupulous, and it was impossible to contradict parents, but now everyone is equal, and there is something to discuss with parents, and China has also formulated relevant laws on the protection of children.

Everything is foreseen, and if it is not prepared, it will be wasted", we must develop a good habit of planning in advance, so that we can calmly deal with all kinds of changes. If your child likes to crammed when he or she takes the exam, parents can use this sentence to educate them.

Parents' words and deeds are too important for children. Like the fathers above, the precious proverbs they left behind will be the guiding light for their children's lives.

The life cultivation and quality of life that ancient fathers valued are still very valuable today. Learn to talk to your child and be a good father to guide his growth!

Are you asking how to kill children in ancient times? . .

1. Medical abortion (**).

After a long period of exploration, the ancients found some plants or animals, which would cause miscarriage after consumption. Zhang Zhongjing's "Treatise on Typhoid Fever and Miscellaneous Diseases" in the Han Dynasty recorded these medicines, "Aconite: pungent and sweet, hot, and poisonous."

Abortion is long for white medicine. Tao Hongjing's "Commentary on the Materia Medica" of the Liang Dynasty of the Southern Dynasty has a special abortion (**) medicine, which includes more than 40 kinds of abortion (**) prescriptions. In addition to internal abortion (**) drugs, there are also external drugs such as "soaking feet in wine with aconite powder" (**).

2. Abortion by external force (**).

It is to use external force to hit, squeeze, and shake the abdomen to promote fetal miscarriage. This method is well documented in the history books. At the same time, external abortion has gradually formed a folk abortion method of massage or massage in people's long-term practice, which was widely used in Jiangnan in the Qing Dynasty.

According to Zhu Yiqing's "Collection of Buried Worries", Volume 4, "Abortion", every time a midwife in the rural area of Nu'an County, Huzhou had an abortion, she charged "five coins", and the method was "staining straw shoes with boiling soup", and then massaging the pregnant woman's abdomen vigorously to cause the fetus to abort. This method is simple and easy to do, but it often causes harm to the mother's body and even endangers her life.

3. Acupuncture abortion (**).

The "Book of Fetal Birth" unearthed in Mawangdui has warned pregnant women not to needle a certain acupoint in a certain month of pregnancy, indicating that as early as the pre-Qin period, doctors already knew that needles and certain acupuncture points could cause miscarriage. In the Southern Dynasties, there are records that show that the doctors at that time had mastered the method of acupuncture and moxibustion to inflict stillbirth, for example, according to "Acupuncture and Moxibustion Dacheng", "(Xu) Wenbo saw that a woman was in critical labor, and regarded it as Naizi died in the abdomen, stabbing the feet of the three yin and the two acupoints, and the two acupoints of the Taichong, and her son went down with his hand." In fact, as long as some manual adjustments are made, this method can also be used to induce labor, because the common prescriptions of both are based on Hegu and Sanyinjiao.

This type of acupuncture abortion has been used since the Song Dynasty, and the success rate is about two-thirds.

4. Surgical abortion (**).

Surgical birth control is the surgical abortion or the destruction of the reproductive function of men and women through surgery to achieve the purpose of sterilization.

Records of surgical abortion began in the Qing Dynasty. Wang Mengying, a physician in Jiangsu Province in the Qing Dynasty, said in his case of "Shen's Female Science Collection": "Today, there is a cunning and stable woman, so in order to intimidate, he wants to take a heavy price, and he will go away with his stomach and ask for thanks."

His own "Wang's Medical Deposit" also said: "Wen Po saw that the woman's pain was reduced, and said that she was stillborn early, but she used Hook Daer's hands and feet, cut them zero, and thanked her." Wang Shangda, a Zhejiang physician in the Qing Dynasty, also pointed out the "harm of stabilizing the woman" in the "Jisheng Collection".

Although there was a lot of criticism of the indiscriminate use of fetal destruction by many women in order to make money, these criticisms also reflected the fact that this primitive abortion procedure has been used not only in clinical practice, but also in quite common use.