My girlfriend is more cheerful and can talk to anyone of the opposite sex, how should I solve it?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-03
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are two ways to solve it.

    First, trust and correct your mentality. Of course, if you had enough trust, you wouldn't ask that. But they don't believe in each other in the early stages of their relationship, let alone get married later.

    The girlfriend is cheerful and can talk to the opposite sex, which on the contrary has accumulated contacts for her and you, and also highlights her feminine charm. Contemporary women are not like women in the old society, they are more independent and self-reliant, and their social skills are indispensable. Once there is suspicion in love, it is bound to quarrel, and if it is not solved properly, it may also break off the friendship, and the gains outweigh the losses.

    Second, talk to her. Of course, you can't use a commanding tone, after all, it's your girlfriend, and she is a domineering president at the moment.

    It will only make your girlfriend feel that she has lost her freedom to associate with you. You can hint at her by making appropriate jokes, or just say something more peaceful like "I'm jealous". Don't blame it.

    Of course, for the sake of each other's goodness, it is also necessary for you to get to know these people of the opposite sex, and maybe they can make friends with you, and by the way, prove your territorial sovereignty. Another point that needs to be explained is that boyfriend and girlfriend must have each other's personal space before, and they must be very comfortable with each other in order to last a long time.

    This kind of psychology is actually very normal, which means that you cherish your girlfriend very much, and you are possessive. But don't let machismo go.

    Once you have defeated the possessiveness of measure, compare your heart to your heart. In work and life, it is inevitable to encounter getting along with the opposite sex, and the combination of men and women is often unavoidable. I have a female friend who works in the same place as her roommate's boyfriend, and it is inevitable that there will be chatting and laughing at work, and the roommate will be jealous, and even start to exclude her, saying that she is not a good thing, and then the young man also broke up with her, and there must be quarrels and blame for lack of trust in the middle.

    So, don't blame each other in the relationship, have enough trust and communication, and finally wish you and your girlfriend 99!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't pay too much attention to such things, because your girlfriend has a more cheerful and better personality, so you can talk to anyone, and you have to be calm.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should look at this matter rationally, which means that you have found a very good girlfriend, especially good at interpersonal communication.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can tell each other that since you are with yourself, you should keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, which is respect for yourself and the feelings of two people.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the face of such behavior of girlfriend, we should talk to our girlfriend well, because such behavior of girlfriend will make you feel particularly jealous, and you will also feel that you are cuckold.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It shows that your girlfriend has a very good personality, and you can have a good talk with your girlfriend, so that your girlfriend can keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, and give you enough security.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should be happy, your other half is so socially capable of you, you will definitely be able to assist you in your work in the future, as long as you master the degree, you have to believe in her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This proves that your girlfriend is very popular, so you have to be very good to him so that he can stay by your side and not be snatched away by other members of the opposite sex.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should also be proud, because having such a character is actually very conducive to communication between the two parties, and it is also conducive to the cultivation of feelings between the two.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Tell your girlfriend that you shouldn't do this, you will be jealous of yourself, and you will lose control of your emotions and lose your temper with you after a long time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should consider this issue with your girlfriend to show that you still mind this matter very much, and I hope she can correct it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should calm your mind, because your girlfriend is such a character, and there is no need to worry too much.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should change yourself, be confident in yourself and don't care so much about these things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can give her a piece of advice, it's okay to chat, but you have a sense of proportion, there are boundaries, don't talk nonsense with other boys, and think about your feelings first.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can tell your girlfriend to pay attention to the scale, doing so will cause you to be unhappy, and you can pay more attention to it in your usual communication.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's okay if she loves you, but if you care, you have to bring it up with your girlfriend, don't hold it in your heart, and cause greater conflicts in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, I told her that it was okay to chat, but she should pay attention to the frequency and content of the chat, and she couldn't have any thoughts about boys other than herself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't take it personally. I think it's good to have such a girlfriend, a cheerful person won't hide things in his heart, and he won't play any tricks on you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let her go, it's a good thing to be cheerful, and as long as it's not about explicit topics, there's no fuss.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At this time, you should find a suitable time and place, ask her out to talk, and tell her that you care about her and don't want her to have too much contact with other boys.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You find an opportunity to talk to her seriously, and directly find out that her behavior makes you very unhappy and will have a bad impact on your relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should make it clear to your girlfriend directly in this situation, tell her that you don't like her behavior very much, and if she cares, you will definitely change.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Tell her solemnly, and talk about it well, and express your dissatisfaction and opinions. If this is still the case even when you have clearly expressed your thoughts, then this kind of girlfriend should carefully observe whether it is worth continuing.

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