What should I do if my own children fight with my benefactor s children?

This should be two different things, it is one thing for a child to fight, and another thing for a grudge between a child's parents. Children must first explain the principle when they fight, the traditional concept of parents always control their children strictly, and always put the word "good" on their lips, which may have something to do with Confucius's benevolence and etiquette, but the children educated in this way must be very kind but lack competition when they grow up, they will always let others, giving people the feeling that they are weak, Ji Xianlin once said; For many years, I had a "good" wish: I was good to everyone, and I wanted everyone to be good to me.

I only hope for reputation, not destruction. Recently, it dawned on me that it was impossible. You can't be too kind, and if you are too generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you, but will become even worse.

People should have a temper, and being too kind will make them lose their worth and dignity. There is a saying: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden.

Everything is done in moderation, and if kindness is excessive, there is a lack of heart; Humility is too much, and it becomes weakness. Then, the problems between children personally think that it is necessary to distinguish between right and wrong, wrong is wrong, right is right, wrong requires an apology to others, and if it is right, it must be insisted on; As for whether the other party apologizes or not, it is a matter of his attitude, so that the child is physically and mentally healthy. As for the kindness with the parents of the other child, we should still be grateful, but gratitude should not be made by the principle of the child, otherwise, the child has been living in humiliation, which is not conducive to growth.

Enlighten each other, and finally ask the two children to shake hands and make peace.

Look at right and wrong first, educate your children.

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Do the following: 1. Resolutely stop the bullying behavior such as beating the child once it is discovered, and criticize it harshly, so that the child understands that there is no one to support his behavior. 2. Educate and cultivate children's compassion, so that children can learn to care for others and children.

3. Encourage in time, and praise children when they do something to care about others. In this case, "beating" is not so much a "discipline tool" as an "emotional venting tool". So our first solution is "how to control your emotions, express your true feelings, look your child in the eyes, and tell him."

Mom and Dad are in a bad mood and can't play with you right now. I need to be alone for a while. Having negative emotions is not a bad thing, there is no need to hold back your emotions and pretend that you have nothing to do to continue to play with your children, which will hold you out of internal injuries, and once it breaks out, it will be more difficult to end.

Remember what we said that children have a very strong ability to imitate, so they can also learn the same way they deal with your emotions.

How to deal with children hitting other people's children.

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Do the following: 1. Resolutely stop the bullying behavior such as beating the child once it is discovered, and criticize it harshly, so that the child understands that there is no one to support his behavior. 2. Educate and cultivate children's compassion, so that children can learn to care for others and children.

3. Encourage in time, and praise children when they do something to care about others. In this case, "beating" is not so much a "discipline tool" as an "emotional venting tool". So our first solution is "how to control your emotions, express your true feelings, look your child in the eyes, and tell him."

Mom and Dad are in a bad mood and can't play with you right now. I need to be alone for a while. Having negative emotions is not a bad thing, there is no need to hold back your emotions and pretend that you have nothing to do to continue to play with your children, which will hold you out of internal injuries, and once it breaks out, it will be more difficult to end.

Remember what we said that children have a very strong ability to imitate, so they can also learn the same way they deal with your emotions.

If the beating is illegal, the minor guardian shall bear the corresponding civil liability for compensation in addition to giving a certain administrative punishment. The scope of compensation includes medical expenses, nursing expenses, and lost work expenses. Article 20 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China: Minors under the age of eight are persons with no capacity for civil conduct, and their legally-prescribed persons are to carry out civil juristic acts.

Article 21: Adults who are unable to recognize their own conduct are persons with no capacity for civil conduct, and their legally-designated **persons are to carry out civil juristic acts. Where minors over the age of 8 are unable to recognize their own conduct, apply the provisions of the preceding paragraph.

Look at how old it is, like our family's small, one- and two-year-old children, when they go out, they will be beaten when they encounter naughty people, and some children will bite. I'm not sensible, so I have to be optimistic when I go out to play with adults. Parents on both sides should take good care of their children, and it is not good to beat others and be beaten.

If you are older in primary school, you can talk to the teacher and the other parent and let them educate. My own eldest child was bullied at school, and I went to the kid to warn him. Sometimes I send a message to the teacher to deal with.

<>1. Be sure to clarify the main reason for children fighting, many children fight mainly to win the attention of others, and we must pay attention to caring more about children.

2. Some children's fights may be caused by psychological problems, and when children fight, don't envy and scold children, and you should be careful to reason with your children.

3. When the child's fight is very serious, the brother must discipline the child strictly, otherwise the child will be allowed to gain an inch.

Summary. It's normal for children to fight, first of all, to understand the reason for the incident, and then let the wrong child apologize to the other party. How old is the child?

It's normal for children to fight, first of all, to understand the reason for the incident, and then let the wrong child apologize to the other party. How old is the child?

At the age of 10, teachers often report that the child is not concentrating in class, loves to make small movements, is irritable and loves to lose his temper.

How can I resolve this situation?

First of all, you must protect your own children, you are the most important person for your children, your decision to dig up the void will affect his life, no matter who is right or wrong, you must comfort your children first.

Then, hold your child's hand and answer calmly, and calmly ask your child what happened. If it is your child's fault, then Xinhuimo will let her child find the other child's child to apologize to the other party, and tell her that her child will still be a good friend in the future. If the other party is wrong, then you must also ask the other party to apologize to your child, even if your child is particularly naughty.

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We are happy to answer your questions: first, the injured person should be given the necessary first aid**; Second, in accordance with article 15 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China", whoever intentionally injures others shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release; if serious injury is caused, the sentence shall be fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than seven years; If death is caused, the sentence shall be fixed-term imprisonment of not less than seven years and a concurrent fine. Therefore, those responsible can be transferred to the judicial authorities to investigate their legal responsibility.

Other people's children ask their children to go out to fight, and then their own children are injured, how to deal with them.

Dear <> will be happy to answer your questions: first, the injured should be given the necessary first aid**; Secondly, according to Article 15 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law of the People's Republic of China", whoever intentionally injures others shall be sentenced to imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention or controlled release; if serious injury is caused, the sentence shall be fixed-term imprisonment of not less than three years but not more than seven years; If the person dies as a result of the quarrel, he shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not less than seven years and shall also be fined. Therefore, those responsible can be transferred to the judicial authorities to investigate their legal responsibility.

Extension and supplement: 1. The case should be reported to the public security department in a timely manner so that the facts of the crime can be ascertained; 2. If the injured person needs to be followed up, he should seek medical treatment in time, and Sun Qibu can file a claim for reimbursement of medical expenses; 3. If the responsible party refuses to compensate, it shall file a civil lawsuit with the people's court to protect its legitimate rights and interests. <>

If my own child is injured, the other party is not responsible, what the other party said is that my child has gone to find someone else's child.

Is there monitoring. No.

Then the other party's argument is not valid.

Let me elaborate on it for you.

Good. My children are sleeping at home, other people's children come to my door, call my child out, let my child go to talk about other people's children, don't bully this child's sister anymore, and then my child went, at that time not out of school, waiting at the school gate, to go to school My child went, maybe went to hit someone, I don't know if it was pushed, let the bureau and then this child with a table tennis racket in his hand to the forehead of my child, resulting in stitches, stitches with ten stitches.

See if you can understand it.

I see. It's other children who let your children educate others.

Is it. Yes.

Understood, in this case, you need to negotiate with the parents who beat your child.

Several others who instigated it were also responsible.

1. Understand the reason: their children fight, whether it is the beaten or beaten party, the first thing parents need to do is to understand the reason, understand why the child fights, whether it is their own child's problem or the other party's child's problem, wait to figure out the truth, we need to carry out the next step of processing, first of all, we must be clear about a problem as parents, that is, whether there is a school bullying incident involving children, if not, It's a simple fight, so it's relatively simple to deal with, whether it's for your own children or for other people's children, you need to laugh and deal with it fairly.

2. Contact the school: The first thing to do after figuring out the truth is to contact the school or contact the class teacher, which is an attitude that is responsible for their own children and other people's children, only after they contact their parents, can they carry out a better treatment, which is a point that should be done for their own children or for other people's children, after all, the fight needs to let the school know, wait for the school to know about it, The next way to do some solutions is relatively simple.

3. Interview with the parents of both sides: After the school knows, you can let the school or the head teacher be a middleman, and the parents of both sides of the fight are best to meet, whether the child is injured or not injured in the fight, it is best to meet each other, and make the matter clear, everyone should pay attention to the situation that the meeting must be made an intermediary in the school or the class teacher, if it is another child who has done wrong, you can ask the other party to apologize, if it is your own child who has done something wrong, let go a little, and say sorry to others, After all, there are no serious consequences, and it is quite normal for children to fight with each other. So this point needs to be injected with nothingness!