Do you have any times when you especially hate your parents?

Parents can't choose, and children can't choose.

They are also very helpless sometimes, carrying a lot of practical things.

You're young, and you may not really understand them.

But you have to understand that no parent doesn't want their children to be well, especially in China.

Mom and Dad are also very hard, adults look majestic, but in fact, life is very cumbersome and troublesome.

When I was a kid, I didn't understand my parents like you, and they didn't love me.

When I became older, I realized that it was actually just a difference in personality.

Some people are used to expressing intimacy with their children as if they were friends, but some people are shy or introverted.

It's all personality reasons, maybe you don't think she knows you well enough now, and you're disappointed, but remember that she definitely loves you.

I don't know your specific reason. It's hard to judge. I don't know if you are causing the current situation due to a lack of communication, but as the old saying goes, a tiger does not eat its children.

If you have what you have today and lose it tomorrow, you will definitely regret it. I miss my mother very much now, because we are farther than the sky, deeper than the sea, I wish her old man will always be happy in heaven, I will bless her in the world, she will definitely bless me with everything smooth and happy, friends cherish the present time, life for decades, just a blink of an eye, don't think too much. To be a child, you must know your family and everything will prosper.

The kindness is as great as the sky.

Yes. I just quarreled with her. Hate her

Menopausal women!!

It turns out that she is so old, ah......Menopause ......When was it? Always worrying about my business, even though I think it's messing around, always chirping about my schedule, although I admit it's a bad schedule (but I'm grown up!). Always scolding me while cleaning the room (just now) although I admit it's a mess (I don't mind!).

Always arguing about the big and the small, the new, the old, ......Who ever said they were going to cut ties with me? Who ever said that I would never be left alone?

It's really ......Isn't it just a trifle?!

Old guy, for the sake of raising me for so many years, for the sake of being so busy that I have a sore back and a bad mood. I'll be a little more wronged in the future, right?

The reason for hating is the contradiction, and resolving the contradiction is what you have to do, not to hate her.

Sometimes they use them as air.

Because the "hate" at different stages may reflect the interaction with our parents and parenting patterns in the process of growth and development, the "hate" of ordinary people will present the short-term and temporary "hate" of the development stage at that time, which may be the psychological process that each of us must go through in the process of growth and development, right?

But if your "hate" is still bothering you for a long time, and it can't get you out of the "hate" emotion. Is it necessary for us to discuss what is the reason why you "hate" your parents so much?

When and under what circumstances did you have a lingering psychological shadow of "hating"? If we think about it cognitively, psychologically and emotionally, most of our parents are not perfect parents.

It is possible to understand and appreciate the origin of "hating" parents and the causes of psychological stereotypes after we become parents, or after systematically studying psychology and related knowledge.

I hate it, and I like my in-laws relatively well.

Men usually want to marry someone they love in their hearts. Of course, some families are feudal, pay attention to the orders of their parents, and want to settle with people who can complement the family business, which leads to some marital tragedies. Although the twisted melon is not sweet, the strong parents also have to drive the duck to the shelf and force the cow's head to drink water.

This kind of marriage makes the husband and wife become strangers or quarrel for a long time. Even if it is a bitter fruit, you can only chew it alone.

My parents weren't bad people, and they were very talkative, but I still hated them, even though I was almost thirty years old now. Spending an hour with them would be very frustrating, and I'm a completely calm and gentle person outside.

Since junior high school, I have gradually found that I have fewer and fewer friends around me, and I have become more and more lonely. Later, after reflection and reminders from others, I found that I had a big problem with the way I communicated with others, and these problems were highly similar to the communication with my parents.

1.Doesn't perceive the occasion and the atmosphere of the speech.,Often interject nervous words in a relaxed environment.。 A lot of things are said to feel good about yourself, but they tend to make the scene very awkward.

For example, when a relative was driving during the Chinese New Year, I suddenly mentioned that a friend's relative died in a car accident, which was meant to remind you to be careful when driving, but it was obviously out of place. My parents had similar behaviors, especially my mother's way of communicating, like a hovering wasp, coldly pricking a needle, which was very uncomfortable.

2.Excessive preaching, dry, negative speech, and feeling good about yourself. This style of communication involves thinking patterns, and I didn't realize for a long time that my parents had such a profound influence on my thinking patterns.

In fact, those who can't speak, can't be human, you just go and look at their parents.

I don't hate it, every parent is great, but there are also incompetent parents, but they all love their children.