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1. There are few words in the mouth, and there are few natural disasters; Less food in the abdomen, less natural diseases; If there is less desire in the heart, there will be less natural sorrow; There are few things to do, and there is naturally less suffering when you lack the right thoughts; Great compassion has no tears, and great enlightenment has no words. It is a pity to come to the fate, and the fate is exhausted, and it is round with the square, and you are comfortable everywhere

2. Kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little sharp; Your love needs to be intellectual; After all, not everyone deserves to have them.

3. The best state of being a man is to know how to respect, regardless of other people's affairs, not to show their superiority, and not to show affection. The more you grow, the more you know how to be introverted and self-controlled. You are not alone in this world.

Be silent, don't speak ill of others, and be yourself. Don't seek profundity, just simplicity. You don't live just to please others, or to show off what you have, no one cares, more people are watching jokes.

You become excellent, and the environment around you will improve.

4. There are some things that you don't need to put yourself too low. What belongs to you must strive for it. In front of some people, you don't have to tolerate it again and again, and you can't let others trample on your bottom line.

5. If a person can't even control his emotions, even if he gives you the whole world, you will ruin everything sooner or later. If you can't become the master of your mentality, you will inevitably become a slave to your emotions. Remember: temper should never be greater than competence.

6. If you don't work hard, no one will ever be fair to you, only if you work hard, have resources, and have the right to speak, you can fight for a fair opportunity for yourself.

7. Seventy percent of the communication between two people is emotion, 30% is content, if the communication emotion is not right, the content will be distorted, so before communicating the content, the emotional level must be sorted out, otherwise the misunderstanding will only get deeper and deeper.

8. Do not discriminate against others' attitudes, do not interfere with others' living conditions, give each other independent personal space, and understand each other's existence in this society in any form, and accept the existence of all seemingly "incredible" things with a peaceful mind. This is the true nobility of life and the elegance of the soul.

9. When talking to people, learn to be calm. Don't shout, even if you are angry, because your loudness, in addition to disturbing your mind, will not make things better. Hysterical yelling won't conquer others, but it will only make you lose your mind in madness.

10. [The Four Enlightenments of Life] 1. Sometimes think about it: people are tired because they can't put down the shelf, can't save face, and can't take out their hearts; 2. Sometimes look at it: the most wonderful thing in life is not the moment of realizing your dreams, but the process of sticking to your dreams; 3. Sometimes measured:

The warmth and coldness of the world do not depend on the weather, but on the temperature of the soul; 4. Sometimes calculate: the breadth of friendship is not how many people you remember, but how many people remember you.