How do you think that husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when d

On the one hand, it does reflect the true features of couples who cannot share weal and woe and overcome hardships together and have shallow feelings in real life, but on the other hand, this sentence is also misleading people, and it gives the impression that parents and children, husbands and wives think that people think and do this way when they encounter major or not-so-major life changes, and such an experience may be reasonable, so that they are "forced to do so." Or the irresponsible "fly separately" to find a "theoretical basis" and feel at ease that they choose to "fly separately" when "great disaster is coming". ‍‍

This is an old folk saying: "Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes." But in real life, when the husband and wife are in trouble, some "fly separately", but there are more couples who do not "fly separately", when married life is faced with possible major changes, whether it is political, economic, emotional, natural disasters and other reasons, the real grasp of family relations and marriage destiny depends on the will of both parties. I think couples should work together to be successful. ‍

Feng Menglong's "Warning to the World" husband and wife were originally birds in the same forest, and they flew separately in the morning "Zengguang Xianwen" Life is like a bird in the same forest, and they fly separately when the limit comesNow I can't say that, now people are true and false, false and real, even between husband and wife, many times are the opposite, as used to say, can share hardships, can not be rich and noble, this sentence is the most appropriate to describe the people in the city now, and some are even husband and wife. ‍‍

Husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and they flew separately when disaster came"Yes"Husbands and wives can enjoy wealth together, but they cannot share hardships and hardships. "When the time comes for common tribulation, when the great tribulation comes, everyone has something in their hearts; How did he escape from this catastrophe; I don't care if my husband is okay or not. ‍‍

The metaphor of husband and wife is like the birds in a forest, but the birds will fly in different directions except when there are things in the forest. To put it bluntly, it is blessed to share, and there are difficulties to share! ‍‍

The reality of society and everything must be opened, be a human being, and look at the essence ...... peopleI think I understand the same as you, but it's not as serious as you say, and couples who can share hardships are in the majority.

Husbands and wives originally lived together, and when they encountered difficulties, they abandoned each other, which means that, but I don't agree with this view. ‍‍

For example, I love my husband very much, but people are selfish, I will definitely not treat him badly when I am rich, but I will never share it with him equally, if we don't have any, I will fight with him.

The husband and wife were originally a pair of enviable mandarin ducks, but when they were in danger, they left each other and ran away.

Answer: Husband and wife can enjoy wealth together, but they cannot share hardships, and when it comes to sharing hardships, each of them has a thought in their hearts about how to escape this calamity. It is used to describe some selfish people who abandon their husbands (or wives) at critical moments, emphasizing personal selfishness.

But on the other hand, this sentence is also misleading, and it will give the impression that parents and children, husbands and wives may think that this is the way people think and act when they encounter major or not-so-major life changes, and such experiences may be reasonable, so as to find a theoretical basis for their own forced or irresponsible flight and peace of mind for their choice to fly separately when disaster strikes.

The most primitive meaning:

The meaning of the "old folk saying" that people say in daily life that "husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes" should deviate from the original intention of the ancient sages. Life is like a bird in the same forest, and when the limit comes, they fly separately" In such a sentence, on page 257 of the Modern Chinese Dictionary, "the big limit" means the period when the number of life expectancy has expired and death is doomed.

Therefore, the above statement can be understood as: no matter how deep the affection of parents is, no matter how heavy the love between husband and wife, life is like a bird in the same forest, and it will naturally separate at the end of life. In this way, this should also be the original meaning of this sentence, because the sages who persuade people to be good will never teach husbands and wives to leave behind their husbands and wives who share weal and woe, are gracious and righteous, and walk hand in hand all the way when "great calamity is coming".

Birds belong to the bird class, such as seagulls are very infatuated, from the beginning, as long as the spouse is dead, immediately do not eat or drink directly martyred, than we all know the mandarin duck is more infatuated. If we human beings, in terms of love, marriage and family, believe that "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes", then it is really inferior to beasts!