Before I got engaged, I began to remind me to calculate my bride price, should such a man marry?

Looks like you're looking for a boyfriend. You've been together for a while, and then. You are not engaged though.

But this man. Before you got engaged, now you have begun to remind you to calculate your bride price. That is to say, it is testing your mouth.

Ask you. How much does it cost? Actually, I think.

What you want to marry is a man, and it is also a relationship to marry. This man is going to marry and he is also marrying. Women also get a relationship.

Start a family in the future. You are going to live together. These include that the economy is also co-owned.

Therefore. I think the man was before he got engaged. began to remind the calculation.

Your bride price money is actually just. Understand. And the reminder is not to count your bride price money.

This can be said. This man. The money in hand and the financial situation of their family should be said.

It's very limited. So he thinks about the bride price. He was also afraid.

The bride price is too much, and he won't be able to take it out in the future, so he sees this matter as a big thing. to treat. This has nothing to do with the love for you, how deep it is, whether it likes you or not.

And the first thing to say is that you want a relationship. I want bride price money, you will also be accommodating, if this man bride price money. If you can't make it up, I think you can help him?

Take out the bride price money together. Because the future life will also be lived by the two of you together. I can't say anything.

As a female. Person. Driving a bride price is equivalent to selling a woman, which I don't think is right or worth it.

Therefore. The woman should also be serious about the bride price. Empathy considers the other party's situation.

Otherwise. To you in the future. It's not very easy to really find someone who can afford the bride price and like you and love you, I think you still have to consider this man, other aspects.

What do you think? For example? The character of this man.

Character. As well as to you. What's the attitude?

I think that's what's more important. If it is said. Except for the bride price, if you are satisfied with everything else, I think you still have to marry.

Don't marry, such a man not only doesn't think of your situation, but just blindly fancy money, material, too selfish, no matter what the result of marriage in the future, it will become a contradiction that two people can't solve, and marriage is a lifelong thing, two people live a life, live with firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you have a heart knot, you will only not go far, don't let yourself regret it.

In fact, I think that if both men and women are willing to be together, there is no need to worry about it, although as a man, he gave the woman some bride price, but these are very normal things, there is no need to worry about these things, and it will affect the relationship between you.

Marriage is a major event in a person's life. Marriage events cannot be child's play. First of all, when two people are together, their personalities can be compatible, and their tempers should be the same.

Interests and hobbies should be more similar. You also need to know how to love each other. However, a person's feelings are more complicated, and sometimes, they may be involved in a little bit of trivial things.

It can only be said that as long as you are satisfied, as long as you are willing. Things in the world can't all be perfect. It can't be, it's all going to follow your heart's desire.

Things like marriage have to be fateful. As long as there is fate, even if a person has some problems, the other party can forgive them, and the other party will turn a blind eye.

It's best for such a man to think about it, he is very stingy, and he calculates that when others get married in the future, he will also calculate like this, and maybe his salary key will be given to you and you will have to be careful, settle accounts every day, and record everything you buy and report to him, so such a man is too stingy and not easy to get along with.

If you have already calculated about the issue of bride price.

I'm sure there will be a certain amount of shadow in both of you's hearts.

After all, it was unpleasant at this time, and both sides definitely didn't have a good face.

Of course, in the end, it depends on how much you love each other, and if you really love each other, I think you will make some concessions to each other.

It is important for love to understand each other.

Before I got engaged, I began to remind me to calculate my bride price, and I think such a man has no feelings for you? It's more for the sake of your own life, if you get married, you won't be happy, such a man can't marry, and in the end, it may have a big impact on your happiness in the future.

Just because you were introduced by someone else. He doesn't really believe that your mother's family will be able to do it, he is just afraid that his mother's family will swallow this money. You're both wary of each other, so you should. Communicate well and don't rush to get married.

Seeing such a situation, it shows that the families of both parties, at least the man's family are not rich, and the parents also attach great importance to money.

Before I got engaged, I began to remind me to calculate my bride price, should such a man marry? Such a man cannot marry, otherwise he will not be happy after marriage.

What happened to the landlord in the end? I'm also encountering such a problem now, not long after I got engaged, I didn't even finish the engagement money, and my partner thought about the bride price and the engagement money he gave me 40,000 yuan to buy a house, and didn't give it to me. The total house is only more than 600,000 yuan, and now it is in his father's name, I proposed to change it to my name, he said that he would definitely write our names at that time, and then changed his words and said that even if he didn't change it, his father would not do anything.

In addition, birthday and holiday gifts were only bought in the first year, and they were not bought since. Like going to the doctor or something, he won't be stingy. I don't see each other a few times a year.

Marriage is a big deal, think clearly, be responsible for both parties, it's still too late to divide it, and if you want to get married, deal with the problem in advance, and drag it out until after marriage is a thorn.

No, no, absolutely not, I asked you for money before I got married, and I can't be a mountain king when I get married.

Therefore, it is very important to be a family member, including family background and economic strength.

Ay! This kind of thing can only be judged by the parties concerned.

Combine your overall feeling and follow your heart!

Bless you!

Legal analysis: The money given for engagement is also a bride price, and the legal conditions for the bride price to be returned are the following three types: 1. Both parties have not received a marriage certificate; 2. Although both parties have obtained a marriage certificate, they do not live together; 3. One party has difficulties in life due to the payment of the bride price.

If the above three circumstances are met, it is possible to obtain the support of the court when claiming the return of the bride price. If the above circumstances are not met, the court will generally not award the return of the bride price.

Legal basis: "Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Marriage and Family Section (1)" Article 5: Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Premarital payments that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

Giving money for an engagement and a bride price are not the same thing.

The money for the engagement and the money for the bride price are not the same thing, the betrothal is the money for the engagement, the bride price is the bride price, and the money is separate. The bride price generally refers to the property paid by the man to the woman as a condition for the establishment of the marriage relationship before the marriage is completed. After the bride price is accepted, the marriage is closed to filial piety, and the marriage thus formed by ancient Chinese law is called a dowry.

The amount of the bride price varies from place to place, and generally depends on the wealth of the family. The dowry is the sum of the money and goods that the bride brings to her in-laws, which is paid by the woman's family. Generally speaking, it is for the groom and the groom's family, and some or some are specially for the daughter after marriage, and the amount of the dowry varies according to the region and the family's financial resources.

The origin of the bride price

The ancient book "The Book of Rites: The Book of Rites" is uploaded: Those who faint will be good with the two surnames, go up to the temple, and go down to the future generations, so the gentleman is important. It is to dusk Nacai, ask the name, Najib, Nazheng, please period, all the master feasts a few in the temple, and greet outside the door, enter, is cautious and let the mountain rise, obey the temple orders, so respect and prudence is faint also.

In addition, the "Etiquette" says: There are six rites in the evening, Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Nazheng, inviting dates, and greeting in person. This is the traditional custom of six ceremonies for marriage that was created in the Western Zhou Dynasty and then followed by previous dynasties, and it is also the ** of the bride price custom.

In the common understanding, the bride price refers to the bride price or gift money given by the man to the woman in marriage.

When the marriage agreement is preliminarily reached, the male Wang party presents the bride price, commonly known as the bride price, to the woman. Therefore, money for the woman's banquet or recognition of relatives should not be counted as a bride price. Bride price is one of the ancient Chinese wedding customs, also known as betrothal gifts, dowry gifts, dowry gifts, etc.

In the old days of marriage in China, there was a custom of giving each other a bride price and a bride price when the marriage agreement was initially reached, and this kind of bride price and bride price was commonly known as "bride price". In the common understanding, the bride price refers to the dowry or gift money given to the other party in marriage and love.

The current laws and regulations do not stipulate that the bride price must be given for betrothals, and it is a traditional Chinese custom to give a bride price for betrothals, but according to the Civil Code and relevant documents of the Ministry of Civil Affairs, the reform of marriage customs is carried out, and it is forbidden to ask for property on the grounds of marriage. The basis is Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, which prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage.

It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage. The "Reply of the Ministry of Civil Affairs on Agreeing to Confirm Hejian City and Other Units in Hebei Province as National Experimental Areas for the Reform of Marriage Customs" has piloted the reform of marriage customs in many provinces and cities, actively cultivating and practicing the core values of socialism, and vigorously promoting the change of customs in the field of marriage.

Legal basisArticle 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.