Is it necessary to divorce after a lifetime of noisy and noisy until the child finishes school?

Even after the children finish school, it is still very necessary to divorce if they want to divorce. After the child finishes school, his age is actually not very old, and there is a very wonderful second half of his life to enjoy. No matter how old a person is, if they are not satisfied with their life, they can choose to divorce.

Many couples have been arguing all their lives, and they want to divorce when they are young, but they do not choose to divorce because of their children. Is it necessary to divorce after a lifetime of noisy and noisy until the child finishes school?Here's what I think:

1. If you want to get a divorce, it is still necessary to get a divorce.

The relationship between myself and my other half is not good and I have survived until the children finish school, if I still want to divorce my other half at this time, it is still very necessary to go through the divorce. Because if we don't divorce our partner who is not in a good relationship, even if our children finish school, our lives will still be very painful.

Second, even if the child is not old after school, there is still a wonderful second half of life to enjoy.

According to the current social situation, many children have parents who are only forty or fifty years old even after finishing school. Forty or fifty years old is actually still in the prime of life, and people in their forties and fifties still have unlimited possibilities. If you don't choose to divorce at the age of forty or fifty, you choose to continue to endure married life.

Then the rest of your life may be very unfortunate. Therefore, even if the children finish school, they can choose to divorce, so that the second half of their lives may become more exciting.

3. No matter how old you are, you can get a divorce.

Many couples have been arguing all their lives, and they have always wanted to divorce but have not left, and when they make up their minds to divorce, they find that they are already very old. In fact, no matter how old you are, as long as you want to get a divorce, it is necessary to get a divorce.

Personally, I think that a lifetime of noisy and noisy has been boiled until the child finishes school, there is no need to divorce at this time, because they have lived for most of their lives, and they know each other's temperament, there is no need to divorce again, or bear with it!

If you stay up all your life until your children finish school, there is no need to divorce. I've been like this all my life, and I still care about the next few years!So there's no need for a divorce, so why bother?

It's normal to be noisy and it's a way of communicating.

There is no need for divorce anymore, because you have been noisy all your life, and you have persisted for a lifetime, I don't think you need to divorce anymore, you can live forever.

I don't think there's any need for divorce, it's up to you whether you want to live with him anymore, and if you don't get along, you often quarrel. If you still love each other, you must reflect on yourself, be aware of your marriage, and consider it calmly

It is necessary to get a divorce. If you don't get divorced, you will feel very wronged, and you will also feel very uncomfortable in your life and have no common language with the other party.

It depends on your own inner thoughts, if there is no comfort now, you still decide to divorce, feel that there is no need to continue this relationship, and do it with your own inner thoughts.

It is necessary, because the relationship between two people is not suitable, and there are often contradictions and quarrels over some small things, which affects the relationship between two people.

You should have gotten used to being noisy all your life, and your son is already an adult. What's the point of divorce between husband and wife, just continue to quarrel at this time, because this is how your life ends.

You've been through it for so many years, why don't you stay up for a few more years? People always say that when the child finishes school, the child will get married, and when the child gets married, it will be nice to talk about personal issues, but in fact, this life is over, isn't it?

Some couples have a long-term relationship with each other, but for the sake of the children, they will make do with each other, and some will focus on their own feelings, how comfortable their lives are, and the husband and wife will leave if they are not compatible. If there are children at home, should you wait for the children to take the college entrance examination before divorcing? I think it depends.

1. If the child is still in elementary school or junior high school, there is no need to wait.

If the child is still young and there are still many years before the college entrance examination, if the husband and wife are not in agreement at this time, then there is no need to wait for the child to leave when the college entrance examination is due.

If the husband and wife are noisy at home for a long time, it will have a bad impact on the children's learning and life.

Instead of this, it is better to separate early, and the couple can live the life they want to live as soon as possible, and the children do not have to watch their parents make noise every day. And at this time, divorce may be better for the child, and the child can accept it early and adjust his emotions.

2. If the child is now in high school, it is better to wait for the child to take the college entrance examination before divorcing.

If the child is now in high school, then as a parent, you should wait for the child to take the college entrance examination before divorcing, after all, the study pressure in high school is very high, if the parents divorce at this time, it will inevitably affect the child's mood, will make the child unable to concentrate on studying, thus affecting the performance of the college entrance examination.

Besides, the problems in the relationship between the parents did not appear for a while, it must be a contradiction that has accumulated over time, and they have endured it for so many years before, so they don't care about waiting for another year and a half. After all, the child's college entrance examination will still have a greater impact on him in the future, and parents should still think more about their children for the sake of their children, and leave after the children's college entrance examinations.

If the parents have big conflicts and deep grievances, they can live separately for a while, and the parents are not divorced and will not cause so much fluctuation in the children's emotions.

If it were you, would you choose to divorce after your child's college entrance exam?

I feel the need to hear from me:

The vast majority of couples who choose to divorce after the college entrance examination are thinking about their children, hoping that their children can study with peace of mind and not worry about conflicts between their parents.

So, is this sacrifice worth it?

Surveys have shown that in families where parents always quarrel, the proportion of children with psychological problems is close to 32%, the proportion of divorced families is 30%, and less than 20% of children who grow up in a harmonious family atmosphere have psychological problems.

It can be seen that divorce does have an impact on children, but what has a greater impact is the atmosphere full of quarrels, accusations, and fights. Even if the parents are not divorced, if they do not get along peacefully, the damage to the children will only be greater.

This is because, for the child, there is an irreconcilable contradiction between the two closest people around him, and he is in the middle of the situation, he does not know how to judge right and wrong, and he is not yet independent, and he is unable to make a ruling or pick a position. This can put children under a lot of stress, and it is easy for them to develop emotional instability and even depression tendencies.

Hello, friend, if you can pass the college entrance examination for your children, it proves that you still have feelings between husband and wife.

The marriage is still good with the original match, and the chicken feathers in life will always make people upset and want to escape from this environment.

So can we change the way of life, don't care if the man is good to us, and love ourselves well.

Only when you love yourself can you have the ability to love the people around you.

First of all, adjust your emotions, face each day positively and optimistically, do what you like to do, manage your body, running, dancing, and other activities can make yourself happy and beautiful.

Secondly, you should have time to travel, relax, see the outside world, open your mind, and let go of the trivial things in life.

Finally, read a book, untie the knot of your psychology, let yourself understand the people around you, accept the people around you, accept yourself, believe that you are worthy of love, and believe in the existence of love.

If it is close to the college entrance examination, then it is best to wait for the child to take the college entrance examination before divorcing, if there is still a long period of time before the college entrance examination can be told to the child.

If the child is now facing the college entrance examination, then I still recommend waiting for him to finish the college entrance examination before divorcing, if the child is still young now, then there is no need to wait until he finishes the college entrance examination, which will not only torture yourself, but also cannot give the child happiness.

In fact, there are many families who have such thoughts, but I don't think it's right, as parents are the best teachers for their children, and when they encounter problems, they shouldn't want to escape at first or talk about it after a while. To learn to guide, let the child know the truth of time, so as to channel his correct values, sometimes this is his valuable experience. If he encounters such problems again after he has gone into society, the injury will be even more serious.

This should be done, you need to take care of the child's feelings, otherwise it is really not worth it to affect the child's college entrance examination and the child's life because of the things of two adults.

If the relationship between the two parties is completely gone, there is no need to wait until the children go to college to divorce, because young people nowadays can also understand the true meaning of marriage.

I think it depends on the situation, if there is a big contradiction, I really can't bear the other half and divorce, if it's just a small contradiction, then don't affect the child.

If two people have no feelings, then divorce as soon as possible, don't wait until the child's college entrance examination, in that case, waiting for the child to go to college, it is even more impossible to pay attention to the child's psychological changes.

I don't think it's necessary, a healthy family is far more important than a complete family, and I'm sure the child will understand.

Personally, I think this decision depends on how the child and his father are on track.

If the father is the kind of person who beats the child and makes trouble without reason, and the child is also disgusted with him, then there is no need to pretend, divorce immediately, but make the child happier.

If the child is very attached to his father and has a good relationship with him from an early age, the father has always been a mentor and friend in the child's growth. In this case, you must wait until the child is admitted to college before the adult can divorce, otherwise things between adults will distract the child and lead to the failure of the college entrance examination. The overall situation of the child should be the priority, patience must be made, and acting in front of the child must be carried out.

Hello, many families with discordant relationships choose to tolerate each other for the sake of their children's future. Wait until the child's college entrance examination is over, and then go through the divorce procedures. In fact, for the sake of the child's future, it is completely unnecessary to endure for a few years or more than ten years, as long as it is not a particularly serious problem, both parties can sit down and talk.

In this life, people must learn to be content, and contentment can always be happy. Even if the two of them divorce after the child's college entrance examination, the parents feel that it will not affect the child's future. In fact, in the child's psychology, he has been hurt by family discord early.

If you really can't get by, then divorce, and after the children's college entrance examination, your life will be almost over.

Being able to give a complete home to a child is an obligation that parents should fulfill. I think it's also a great reason not to divorce for the sake of the child, from the child's point of view, the parents are at home, and they can provide him with a complete home, which is what he wants and needs.

1. Children long for a complete home

No matter what kind of personality your child is, I believe he is especially eager for a home with both parents in his heart. Although each pair of parents gets along differently, from the child's heart, he still hopes to return home and see his parents still in this room, from this point of view, this is a complete family. When I was a child, my parents had a very tense relationship, especially after my father drank too much, there would be a fierce fight, and then there would be a big fight, but after the fight, they would go back to a quiet life.

Although I resented the two of them from the bottom of my heart, I knew that the two of them were closer than anyone else when they were good, so much so that when my father died suddenly when I was 13 years old, I felt like I was in a dream.

2. The home where both parents are is the home of the child

Although many children don't want to see their parents get along, they always quarrel, and then they have no expression on their faces, but they also know in their hearts that as long as their parents don't divorce in this family, they can be happy and free at home. There is an old Chinese saying that the belly of the interlayer is not born by oneself, not raised by oneself, and there is still a layer of relationship. No matter who comes to this home, or whose house they go to, it will make the child feel a sense of embarrassment, a strangeness, and a sense of unsteadiness.

My peace of mind is at home where both parents are, and because my father died when I was very young, my mother took us alone, and then my stepfather came to the house, I always felt a lack of security in my heart.

As a person who has come over, I would like to say to those parents, if possible, please try to be yourself, do not divorce, and give your children a safe place. Children are already suffering from not being able to choose their own parents and families, so please don't pour another basin of cold water on their young hearts.