What do you think of the bride price that many people are talking about now?

If a man is a sycamore tree, no bride price will also attract a golden phoenix.

The bride price can be collected, which is auspicious, but it should be moderate, and blindly pursuing a higher amount will only make it difficult for both parties.

The ancients gave a bride price, followed the husband's surname after marriage, and lived in the in-law's house to serve the in-laws. If modern women can't do this, don't ask for a bride price, don't always go to the side that is beneficial to themselves.

No bride price, only congratulatory gifts. When a husband and wife get married, the man's parents give the husband and wife as much as the woman's parents.

Before liberation, the bride price was collected to marry a daughter, which was the water spilled by the girl who got married, and when she went to her mother-in-law's house, she had to change her husband's surname to serve her husband's in-laws, and if you wanted to go back to her parents' house, she had to get the consent of her husband and her in-laws, so that you could only live for a few days when you went back to your parents' house for a few days. Now only inherit the bride price to marry the daughter, all the others are abandoned, the daughter-in-law is more like a grandmother, the mother-in-law is more like a daughter-in-law who buys vegetables and cooks every day, and the daughter-in-law is not satisfied, now the world has changed, the whole society is morally degraded, there is no faith, there is no reverence for life to do whatever you want.

I think the bride price can be wanted, but it must be reasonable, not the sky-high price, otherwise the sky-high bride price will become a high threshold to block love, and the traditional customs will become vulgar, I really don't want to see that the marriage is kidnapped by money, who has a son, I hope you can empathize with it, now you are asking for a price, if one day it is someone else's daughter's turn to ask you, what will you do.

The wedding bride price depends on local customs, and the amount depends on the respective conditions. Of course, there are cases, but it can also be, after all, it is a wedding celebration, a grand atmosphere, why not. If the feelings are in place, thrifty work, and advocating a new style of civilization, it is also possible, depending on their respective circumstances, I think it is also a good thing to do a new style, and the country is also advocating new people and new fashions.

In recent years, with the development of the economy, the bride price of marriage in rural areas has risen all the way, and even the sky-high bride price has appeared.

The bride price should be different from person to person, don't blindly compare with others, and now the sky-high bride price in the countryside is raised because of the comparison with each other.

The bride price is a kind of custom, and there is nothing wrong with it, but it is wrong with the values of the current people. The distortion and comparison of values will directly lead to a decline in the happiness index of marriage, and even strangle a good marriage in the cradle. As the name suggests, the bride price is a kind of etiquette to ask for the head, and then it is food, and then it is pigs, dogs, cattle and sheep, and now the standard of living is high, and people have become more materialistic, and they are more realistic and directly marked with a clear price.

It has even become a prerequisite for getting married. But the marital happiness index seems to be inversely proportional to this... When marriage and"substance"If you are in a relationship, will you be happy?

I'm not against a bride price, I'm only against the blind"The bride price comes first"。When the bride price exceeds the ability of the party to give the bride price, especially when the pot is smashed and sold iron, and the quality of life is seriously affected"Bride price"It has become synonymous with horror. Finally, a word for those parents who have the idea of making a fortune from the bride price:

Don't be enslaved by material things, don't let money kill love.

The issue of wedding bride price is really more and more annoying, like my husband has two brothers, and when his brother and sister-in-law got married, I heard that his father paid a lot of bride price, as for whether it is true, I don't want to pursue it anymore. As for when I got married to my husband, I heard my mother say that his father's bride price was less than that of his brother and sister-in-law, and my mother was not very happy.

I don't advocate sky-high bride price, nor do I advocate zero bride price, after all, the girl who has been raised for more than 20 years marries into the man's family, and giving a certain amount of bride price is a respect for the woman's family.

I think it's good to give a little bit of the bride price, if the man has money, then maybe he will give you a satisfactory amount.

I think the bride price can be collected, after all, it is a traditional custom in China, but how much to receive depends on the other party's family situation.

I think the existence of **bride price is particularly unreasonable, and the bride price is just a ceremony, there is no need to ask for too much, as long as it is about the same.

I think this kind of high bride price is very unreasonable, it puts a lot of economic pressure on boys, and it is very bad for the development of gender equality.

When we ask for a bride price, there is no need to ask for a ** bride price, because sometimes the man really can't take it, and their determination to marry you is not measured by money. Sometimes a penny can stump a person. So we must consider it in light of the actual situation.

I think there are some things that I can't understand, when getting married, the most important thing is that two people can be happy with each other, not to ask for money, nor to support a poor family.

I think there is no doubt about this situation, because it is normal for a daughter to leave some money for her mother after marrying into another family.

Getting married is a very important thing. Many girls say bride price.

Just an attitude. Is this just an excuse? Let's talk about this topic together.

First, for most girls, asking for a bride price is to see if the man really cares about himself? When men and women love each other to a certain extent, they will talk about marriage. For example, after getting to know each other, they think that the other party is the person they are looking for, and they hope to enter the marriage hall.

We sincerely bless such lovers. Marriage is a major event in life. Both parents will also sit together to discuss marriage.

For folklore, both families will too. For example, the man prepares a certain bride price for the woman, and the woman prepares the dowry, which is a very important process of marriage. In fact, for a girl, it was after careful consideration that she found the boy and wanted to marry him.

For the bride price, the woman wants the man to be happy and not always shirk, because then the girl will feel that the boy really cares about herself and sees herself as very important. Second, the amount of the bride price must be discussed between the man and the woman. When getting married, the bride price money prepared by the man for the woman is not decided by one party, but negotiated by both parties according to various factors such as customs and family conditions, so that there will be no conflicts because of the amount of the bride price, so that the lovers can smoothly enter the marriage hall.

Third, for the man, the expression of love for the woman must be sincere. I think for a man, if you like someone, you have to give sincerely. Take the bride price, for example.

Don't think that a woman only cares about money, but she doesn't dare to love two people. You have to put yourself in a woman's shoes. If the woman can marry herself, it means that she has paid a lot of courage and should give her a great sense of security.

Therefore, she must sincerely express her love and not quarrel over the bride price. About "A lot of girls say that the bride price is just an attitude. Is this just an excuse? "What do you think of this topic, the above is my opinion? Welcome to the comment section and leave a positive message.

If the woman's family can't go out, that is, as long as the bride price is not a dowry, that's just an excuse. If there is an exchange, the dowry is equal, all that should be needed is an attitude.

Sometimes it's not just an excuse. Many girls want to know how much they mean in the eyes of men when they ask for a bride price. They may not really want the bride price, and many of them only pay it back after they get married.

Some are excuses. Attitude has nothing to do with the bride price. Can't you feel the sincerity of the man in ordinary communication? You should definitely try the bride price. You want a sum of money to make sure you can understand. Don't test your attitude.

I think the bride price should be given, because it is indeed a wedding etiquette from ancient times to the present day.

Since the girl said that the bride price is just an attitude, it is okay to give a few thousand yuan. Not collecting it is an excuse, and the relevant departments must strictly control the families who want expensive bride price.

Hello, bride price is not only an attitude issue, but also a practical issue. Personally, I think that the bride price is necessary, but it depends on your own situation. The bride price will give the woman a greater sense of security and belonging.

And people's hearts are fickle, if you really love each other, you won't not give a bride price. A person who says that the bride price of the woman is material is not worth entrusting for life.

First of all, the bride price is indeed a matter of attitude, and this attitude lies in whether a man is willing to give a sum of money to a woman who may become his wife, which is generally not a small amount.

The bride price should only be a matter of attitude, and after marriage, most of the woman's family will give the bride price to their daughter to build the foundation for their small family.

It is also about the attitude towards the girl, and the reason why the woman's family wants the bride price is completely to take the opportunity to examine the man's attitude. What the woman's family really cares about is not money, but rather than money, the woman values the man's character and attitude towards the girl more.

For some people, the bride price is just an attitude issue, but for others, it is not just an attitude issue, but real money, so this question depends on the specific situation.

The bride price is really just one. Attitude problem? I think the bride price. It's not really a matter of attitude. And when everyone gets married, they have a certain amount. Heart's. There are many and there are few.

The bride price is not money, but an attitude of the man, do you agree? The netizen's reply lit up! Hahahaha.

You said that people nowadays only remember to ask for a bride price, but they rarely ask for a dowry, and no one mentions it. I've been educated today, and said that the bride price is actually not money, and that this is an attitude problem for our girls, but I just hope that your boys have a better attitude, so I will say that if the attitude is better, then I will kowtow to you.

Gifts are not only a matter of attitude, but also the best means to use them as an excuse to cost or to hit the other party.

What do you think about the bride price? The meaning of the bride price is the attitude of the man and the man's family towards the marriage, and expresses the degree of importance and recognition of the woman. Only by valuing and recognizing the woman will the man be willing to pay more bride price, so that the woman and the woman's family can feel your sincerity.

If you are not too satisfied with the woman and the woman's family, you are naturally unwilling to pay a bride price that exceeds their expectations. It's not that the bride price is good after more marriage, and the bride price is not good after marriage. However, having a bride price will still make the woman and her family feel happy.

The significance of the bride price is actually very large.

It was a symbol of engagement in ancient times, and many people did not understand the true meaning of the bride price. In ancient times, if the man's family took a fancy to a girl, they would go to their house to say that the matchmaker was married, and then voluntarily give the woman's family a bride price. First, after the woman's family marries her daughter to the man, she is unable to serve her biological parents regularly, and these bride prices are used to make up for the girl's inability to serve her parents often and repay her kindness.

The second is that the man's family wants to marry the woman's sincerity, because after many years, she has to take care of her elderly father-in-law and mother-in-law.

This is the respect that the man's family has for the girl, and it is also to reduce the worry about the parents for his future daughter-in-law. The true meaning of the bride price is full of warmth and understanding. I think the bride price should be the child's upbringing fee for the woman's parents to manage the child until she is in her 20s, if you want a bride price of 200,000 yuan, then, assuming that the girl is 25 years old.

The annual maintenance fee is less than 10,000 yuan. It is impossible for a big living person to give it to the man for nothing, I think it is right to ask for a bride price, but it can't be excessive. Nor can a man object to a woman's bride price.

After all, it is a big living person, who comes to your house to give birth to children, serve the elderly, do housework for you, and dedicate all our love to this person for you, we should not have many points, we can only blame ourselves for not having the ability, not making money, not saving money, this is my understanding and opinion.

The market decides. Marriage and love are also a market, women are a resource, and good women have advantages. Since they all wanted to have a son, they had to accept the fierce competition today.

Or to use an analogy, a buyer's market and a seller's market, this metaphor is not appropriate, but the principle seems to be the same, when a certain resource is not enough, the price will inevitably rise!

I think it is still necessary to give a bride price on this issue, which is also an attitude of both parties, and there is not much amount of money required.

I think it is necessary to give some bride price, after all, if you give birth to a child, you have to follow the man's surname, and the woman has always been the one who pays, so it is more equal for men and women.

I think the bride price is as it should be. Because the parents of girls have put in a lot of effort to cultivate good girls. When the girl grows up, she goes to another family to be filial to other parents.

The boy's family should come up with some bride price, which is a sign of respect for the girl.

This is a normal thing, it has been passed down for many years, and this is what every guy should give to a woman.

Nowadays, many men are reluctant to get married because the bride price is too high, and as a girl, I also feel that the current bride price is very scary. How can a boy in his 20s come up with more than 1 million yuan to buy a house, and he can also take out hundreds of thousands of bride price to marry his daughter-in-law. Today, I'm going to tell you, what do you think of such a ** bride price?

In today's society, if you want to marry a daughter-in-law, you must prepare a bride price ranging from nearly 100,000 to 200,000 yuan, and the amount of the bride price varies according to different regions, and the bride price in some places directly reaches more than 200,000 yuan. And if you want to get married, you have to buy a house and a car. We also all know that the current housing prices are very high, in some small counties, if you want to build a house, you need more than 1 million, which is not counting the three gold bought when you get married and the cost of getting married.

In fact, I think the customs of each place are different, so everyone's opinion is also different, some places ask for more bride price, because the local customs are like this, and some of the woman's parents are afraid that their daughters will be wronged if they marry in the past. Most of the woman's parents will return the bride price to their daughter after asking for the bride price, that is, the bride price is still used by the man and the woman together. The woman's parents are not wrong in their thinking, they feel that they have worked hard to raise their daughter so much, and the bride price of 100,000 yuan is not much.

I feel that the bride price is not appropriate, mainly according to everyone's economic situation and local customs, but also according to personal wishes. If we feel that the bride price is not appropriate, it is okay not to get married or find someone else.

If you really want to live with each other, you actually think that the bride price is enough, and the most important thing is the house and car. Nowadays, it is rare for young people to choose to live with their mother-in-law and father-in-law, so having a house is the most important thing.