Why do some people talk to boys with depth?

Everyone has their own three views, and the three views determine the spiritual level of each person.

This difference in spiritual level has nothing to do with gender, nothing to do with age, but only to culture, cultivation and family education.

The so-called "things gather by like, people by groups" is this truth.

When you say that someone speaks "with depth", it is a spiritual problem.

If you can feel the "depth", it means that your ability to discern and appreciate has reached a certain height.

Talk less, do more.

Read more books, I'm talking about useful books.

Depth can't be pretended, only when you really become connotative, can you say words with depth.

The transition from boy to man takes a lot of experience to foreshadow, and you can become a man when you can live independently and take care of others. The most important thing for a man is a sense of responsibility, and a person without a sense of responsibility is not mature enough.

Cultivate more noble interests, and if you want to have depth, you must stay away from vulgarity.

Of course, this is not to make you frown all day long, a truly mature man exudes confidence and peace from the inside out.

Everyone goes through setbacks and then matures, and it's a gradual process.

You don't have to "mature" yourself, you just need to slowly enrich your connotation, increase your knowledge, and bring you rich experience over time, and you can become a real man.

Being young has the charm of youthfulness, we can be active in the stadium, we can laugh regardless of our image, and we can learn to appreciate ourselves at every stage.

is that person is a very connotative person, what he says is very classy, not said by ordinary people, as soon as you listen to his words, you know that his cultural level is very profound, and there is a lot of ink in his stomach.

1. Speak.

Before you think about the consequences of the repetition system.

2. Have a feeling of isolation, and don't tease girls casually

First of all, maturity is the impression you make on others.

Inside is not self-contained.

You can learn it by saying it.

What does maturity represent, it represents experience, it represents what it means to have experienced a lot of things, what does maturity represent, it represents conversation, it represents self-cultivation, it represents the attitude towards this society, and maturity is not something that a 22-year-old college student who has just graduated can understand.

After you get out of college and go out into society, and then start to experience the baptism of society, after 10 years, the 22-year-old child may say to you: Wow, this brother is very mature and manly, understand? Maturity doesn't happen all at once, it's not something that can be imitated, let's use an analogy.

Nicholas Tse: I think everyone will know him.

In previous years, he fought top bag these childish manifestations.

And he now has such a big thing as Le's son and wife's dele, ** evaluation of him and his attitude towards things.

That's what maturity looks like.

Without experience, without experience, maturity will not come.

Reading more good books is also good for your cultivation.

In addition, a sense of humor.

Maybe this girl. Be content, generally I don't talk about Q's is another message that you are special.

People who lack a sense of humor are wood, not mature men.

Now the girl is very much.

Copying reality, is it a lack of confidence that you are so clear?

So why is there a lack of confidence? How can you make yourself look more confident?

1. Have depth: Is your education high enough, and do you read enough books?

2. Have experience: What things have you experienced that can exercise people's psychology and will, but from this article, you should not be very old. Only those who have experienced the wind and rain can have insight into the world, know human nature, know themselves and their opponents, and win all battles.

3, It is very important to have love experience, people without love experience can't understand women (girls) deeply at all, if you don't know her, how can you fight her? If the other party is also a person who is ignorant of the world like you, it is fine, if the other party is a master of the love factory, how do you deal with him?

4, For some girls, the above is not important, as long as you have this, you don't have to work hard, they will stick to you tightly, and they can't get rid of it, that is: money.

Hehe...

I can recognize that.

That's good! The most important thing about chasing girls is to reply to the letter and have full confidence in answering. Even if you pretend to be out, you have to pretend to be out!

From now on, when you usually speak, you should put yourself in the other person's position and think for the other person. That way, slowly, you won't be so frivolous.

Any girl will be wary and have a sincere heart. To have a good relationship with the people around her...

Be patient!

Actually, some girls said.

I may want to say this kind of thing to express my own meaning.

If you can't keep up with the shooting, you can study the way she speaks, and you can imitate it.

If you want to go from being a flirtatious person to a person with depth, you can't do it in a short period of time, and I don't think it's useful if you're "pretending" to talk to girls. Temperament, depth is expressed from the heart. And not by cover-up.

Let your character become calm, temperamental, and tolerant.

I think that's a lot of depth.

Read more, think more, experience more, have a poetic and bookish spirit, have connotation, all your problems will be solved, everything is natural, don't pursue too much, keep calm and humorous, and not lose your gentlemanly demeanor.

Time will change yours! It's the experience that matters! Get to know this society in essence!

From what you asked, you can see that you are still very young! Childishness to maturity is not something that can be changed overnight, even if the appearance has changed, but there is no depth! It's not mature yet!

If you want to start maturing yourself, you have to do at least a little bit! Calm down with anything! Be sure to calm down! It all starts with calm!

If you understand me, it shows that you're smart! I believe you will change yourself in the future!

Remember to be calm and composed! Think about it and say what you want to say! Speech! It's not that you have a scheming!

Man! Scheming is power! It would be nice if the resources were deep!

If a man wants to be cool, he has to talk less! Do more things and talk less, silently guard his side, understand?

When she lets down her guard against you and attacks with sugar-coated cannonballs, she's already vulnerable.

To put it simply, don't be too polite, do things directly, don't smile, and show atmosphere everywhere. Walk faster, there is to do what you say, do things with confidence, steady, cautious and modest, and there is to be humor, but you can't laugh, the most important thing, everything can not be messy, especially when everyone is messy, you have to show stability, these are just the surface, hehe, to have connotation. Improve yourself from knowledge and experience.

It's actually a very simple question, you make it so complicated!

She doesn't have you in her heart, so it's easy to talk to you, or she knows you care about her!

You have her in your heart, so you are nervous, and when it comes to the critical moment, you want to express yourself.

Medicine: She's not pretty!

Read more books, look small, you have to rely on dress and words to highlight maturity, you have too many problems.

Lack of patience.

Can you pick the key points?

The landlord must not have much contact with the world! Less experience, more experience is enough.

Don't believe in any books or anything, believe in yourself, only through experience can you summarize the way of life that suits you! There is a saying that "you can have no education, you must have experience", understand it yourself!

Let it be, being young can certainly seem a little flashy, and that's not wrong. Becoming mature and stable is not something that can be done by just thinking about it, it takes some things.

What is Maturity?

Only what you have experienced can mature, and that takes time.

I think what our current education lacks is self-confidence, and how to teach students to use this self-confidence needs to be honed in society!

There is a great deal of Confucianism in talking and laughing, there is no white ding, you can tune the piano, read the gold scriptures and ......

I think if you're not too eager to talk and do things, and don't want to express yourself, everything will go naturally!

Most of today's people are very realistic, and the more you behave, the more you show your hypocrisy, and it's better to treat it ordinary!

I tell you too much and you can't understand it! "Be content, I don't talk about Q in general".

Time, education, experience, experience and perception of life, take your time, I hope you succeed.

What if any chick likes your frivolity?

Hehe, it's good to have more contact with girls.

The point is, what do you want to know?

I think the ability to express lies in exercise, since I find that my expression ability is not very good, then you should first learn from other people's expressions, as well as words and metaphors, and to strengthen the accumulation of knowledge, you know more, you can naturally associate some things together, in order to better express and explain your own meaning, see that there is a good eloquence, learn more, don't be afraid to practice your mouth, exercise slowly, it will be fine, come on.

I'm the same with you, talk to myself more

Talking about yourself as two characters is like playing chess with yourself, which works.

Depth alone is not enough.

It is also necessary to have the ability to express itself to the fullest.

That's the difference between people.

This includes your life experiences and insights.

On weekdays, I chat with people more and watch more movies and articles.

Naturally, it was a slippery one.

You should go to different occasions with friends to adapt to different groups of people, learn some interpersonal relationships in them, black oil is to read more books, see how some celebrities deal with the things around them, such a long-term accumulation, I believe you can say that you will not miss the occasion

It is to practice and learn to talk to people in daily life, learn classic sentences in TV and movies, and become an art talker after a long time!

There are very few such people to talk about.

Listen a lot, think a lot.

Buy this Communication Psychology and read it carefully to believe that you can.

This kind of person is a special man!It is an idol in the hearts of women! The landlord is not eager for the worship of girls?

Don't you dare to express your opinion in front of others?

Me too, it's just that the tension is the fault for stage fright or something, you must have exercised a lot, and the extroverted personality is maximized

The meaning of this is to reject LZ euphemistically, I hope that LZ will die to her, if LZ must chase to the end, she will improve her own literacy, such as not speaking with dirty words.

It means that there is a connotation, and there is a product in the mind. Your girlfriend says that you are what she thinks you are... Shallow... ==

After another 10 years of struggle, you will have depth, and you will not be so interested in girls. That's called depth. In other words, even if you are interested, it will not be written directly on your face for people to see, which is also called depth.

Maybe I've taken a fancy to you Have you watched "The College Entrance Examination in the City" There is a clip in it Ren Xue said that someone is a genius and then they got together.

It shows that there is thought, and it is not superficial to consider the problem and look at the problem. Experienced and well-informed.

Praise you for your cleverness, and talk to you.

It's not cowardice, but you'll respect others. At the moment, you think it's better to be domineering, but you don't see your own merits. In society, no one treats people who speak strongly, and this is a bad characteristic.

Grab a rooster, pose a PS by yourself, and look directly at the rooster with both eyes, at this time you will feel confident and domineering! This is how domineering is practiced.

When speaking, you should be confident, take a deep breath, and accentuate the voice of each word, but it should be natural, and the movements and limbs should cooperate with the words, domineering and murderous.

This is momentum, confidence, this kind of person is attractive, everyone wants to make friends with him, and it is to be cultivated slowly.

This has to be related to one's own identity, personality, experience, etc., a person is on top, speaking naturally domineering, no need to pretend, how tired it is to pretend, just be yourself, deliberately will lose yourself,

In fact, you don't have to be domineering when you speak, as long as you speak calmly and master the tone, so that you can be more manly, and speaking with a loud voice and a rough voice is very unqualified and polite ......

said little but hit the nail on the head, that is, if you don't make a sound, it means that a blockbuster is amazing, and there is a serious facial expression.

That's how personality comes in! Me too, but I'm not cowardly, it doesn't matter if I don't speak loudly, just be yourself.

Speak loud enough, but not yelling, and speak confidently to make people feel your authority.

The relationship between personalities is nothing, and some people still think that the kind of domineering speech is an exit to hurt people, or a layman. Just be yourself.

Speak with your back straight and look each other in the eye.

You need to change your personality, and now you are more extroverted.

Use absolute words, such as: certainly, definitely, must.

didn't speak, and his eyes glanced coldly.

When you're angry, are you still soft-spoken?