Did Lejia take her four year old daughter on foot across the desert?

Recently, Le Jia posted on Weibo one after another about taking her 4-year-old daughter Ling'er on foot across the desert, which caused heated discussions among netizens. As the youngest participant in the group, Ling'er traveled 76 kilometers and took 4 days, with an average of nearly 20 kilometers per day, about 60,000 steps.

Before leaving, Le Jia and her daughter agreed on two chapters: first, do not cry unreasonably, cry must have a reason to cry, and children who do not cry are the most beautiful; 2. No matter what happens, you must never let adults hold you, and you must rely on your own strength to complete the journey every day.

In 4 days, the child's pace was small, the two thighs were densely covered with large red rashes, the legs and feet were blistered, and he couldn't sleep well, and the tent was too hot in the middle ......of the night, and he was besieged by mosquitoesIn the face of these difficulties, Lejia's father and daughter did not give up. On August 8, Le Jia posted on Weibo: "Ling'er reached the end of the line and burst into tears!

> Lejia said that taking her daughter to hike in the desert is to let her children understand that as a girl, she must learn to be independent and persistent in this life. However, for his education method, many netizens said that they did not understand it very much. Is it education or torture? Netizens have mixed reviews.

I believe that no matter what, as parents, we feel more sorry for our children than anyone else.

This is torture, because the child is still very young and not suitable for walking so many distances, and it is really bad for him to do this.

It's a kind of torture, because my daughter is still so young, it is difficult to adapt to life in the desert, this is not exercise at all, it is torturing children.

It's to train his daughter. In this way, the daughter can develop a spirit of perseverance, which is also very beneficial to the child's future development.

It is tempering, and it is also forging nuclear attack and refining this clan-type Senchai, not only to see what the incident is, but also to see what the specific process is.

In my opinion, there is no problem at all, but isn't it better to develop children's nature than to sit at their desks every day and learn to draw. Modern parents have become accustomed to imposing their fixed thoughts on their children. It is better to change the front of the child's interest, so that the child can release his nature.

Le Jia wants his daughter to receive exercise in Shaolin Temple, one can strengthen the body, the other can exercise the child's perseverance, hardship and hard work, and there is more sales and rent to contact the most primitive life, contact nature, and play less mobile phones Some electronic products are not as biased as said on the Internet.

It's still very good. It's just that there isn't much news about her, so we don't know the specific situation.

has become a talent, because she has perseverance that is different from ordinary people at a young age, and she also has the spirit of being able to endure hardships in many aspects, and she is still a very good little girl.

A few days ago, the host Le Jia posted more than 10 Weibo posts in a row, recording his experience of taking his daughter Ling'er from Gaotai County, Zhangye, Gansu Province to hike through the desert.

Before hiking in the desert, Le Jia and his daughter had two chapters:

Don't cry unreasonably, you must have a reason to cry when you cry, and the child who doesn't cry is the most beautiful;

No matter what happens, Lu Qing will never let the adults hold him, and he will have to rely on his own strength to complete the journey every day.

On the first day of departure, under the scorching sun, they walked nearly 20 kilometers.

For a child's little feet, it is equivalent to walking about 60,000 steps.

During this period, Ling'er naturally had times when she couldn't persevere, so Lejia encouraged her and spurred her.

He said that he hoped that his daughter would grow up to become a person with perseverance, and if she could persevere at such a young age, she would be able to overcome many difficulties by herself in the future.

Along the way, Ling'er's two thighs were densely covered with large red rashes, and there were also blisters on her legs and feet.

Unexpectedly, in the face of these, 4-year-old Ling'er didn't cry or make trouble, and when asked if she wanted to continue, she could always say firmly: Yes! <>

People always think that the child is still young, and this way is too cruel for her.

In fact, children are really not as weak as they imagined, but everyone is used to holding children in the palm of their hands.

As long as we give encouragement and set an example, our children's potential will often exceed our imagination.

Lejia accompanied Ling'er all the way to successfully complete the hike, which is the best proof.

And Danhe, they are not the only father and daughter in the whole hike.

There are not many parents who take their children out and let them challenge themselves in nature.

Prior to this, there was a small backpacker in Shangrao, Jiangxi, who was only 4 years old and had already traveled with his parents throughout most of China.

From stop-and-go to being able to carry the first lack of a small schoolbag and becoming the youngest little backpacker, she also did it with her parents.

There is also an even younger backpacker in the United States, whose "backpacker" life begins 5 days after birth.

By the age of 2, he had followed his parents, traveled to 40 states, climbed some of the most magnificent mountains in the United States, and visited the Thousand Islands Lake, located 3,000 meters above sea level.

He's probably been to more places than you might think. <>

First of all, there should be no education in enduring hardships.

My view is that there should be, and it is necessary.

It is better to travel thousands of miles than to read 10,000 books, and suffer a little, but it can let children know and understand "life" well. At present, the joy of our life is often not experienced and felt because of the lack of "suffering in life". The same is true for children.

When I was a child, the old people told us: "Small losses don't eat big chaos, spring losses, small hardships don't suffer big hardships." That is to say, it is a good thing for children to endure a little hardship and encounter some difficulties when they are young.

If we are afraid of the child's hardship, and take the child's responsibility, although the child's crying and entanglement are avoided, but the child is deprived of the opportunity to cultivate a good character and develop his own ability, this is a great harm.

A very critical problem is that it is no longer realistic to expect today's schools to implement hardship education. The school has lost the courage and possibility to "punish" the students physically, and can only "torture" the children mentally. The education of enduring hardships is based on the understanding of life and survival itself.

One of the major features of Deep Springs College in the United States is that it takes a long time to "work", feeding pigs, mowing grass, repairing electrical appliances, cooking rice, etc., not only to be able to do it, but also to do it non-stop. In today's Chinese school education, there is too much lack of "labor".

Since schools can't provide it, only family education can provide it and make up for it. In this regard, Jiang Wen and Le Jia have provided us with examples. It should be liked.

Second, the education of enduring hardships should go to what extent.

Many netizens are a little worried about Lejia's approach, feeling that this intensity will pose a great threat to the child's health. I guess that's not a necessary concern. As a father, Lejia must be very concerned about the health of his children.

Children's potential is also very large, and under the protection of science, it will not affect health.

In addition, hardship education can not let children in inferiority complex, disgust in the implementation of inferiority, disgust may produce long-term psychological shadows such as lack of self-confidence, which is actually a violation of children's rights and interests.

In short, it is necessary to endure hardship education, but it should be moderate, and occasional hardship experience is necessary, but well-intentioned parents should pay more attention to the long stream, so that children can develop the excellent quality of hardship and perseverance in daily experience and practice. <>