Why do you feel that there is more gossip in the neighborhood? Do they have nothing to do?

In rural areas, there is indeed a lot of gossip in the neighborhood, because when everyone has nothing to do in the countryside, they like to sit together and gossip. When chatting, many people like to gossip, especially some rural women, who like to talk about others. There are also many people who ridicule them as long-tongued women, but in fact, the main reason for more gossip is the living habits of rural people and their way of living.

Everyone knows that there are a lot of acquaintances in the countryside, and even one or several families live in the same village, and sometimes everyone grows up together from childhood to adulthood, and the mutual family situation is relatively clear. In the countryside, it is equivalent to a circle of acquaintances, who are very curious about what is going on, and they also like to chat together. Sometimes it's not malicious gossip, it may be a small talk between them after dinner.

Rural people have more leisure time than people in the city. You don't have to commute to work on time and on time every day, like people in the city, and it can be said that there is relatively sufficient time. In the countryside, although there is a busy farming, there are also idle times.

At this time, people also like to sit and chat with each other, especially some rural women, who are born to talk about this and that family, and it is unavoidable.

The life of rural people is relatively simple, coupled with the reason of housing, the houses in the countryside are generally lined up, and there is a relatively wide place at the door. The doors of many people's homes are generally closed, which also facilitates people to get together and gossip to a certain extent. And people in the countryside are very familiar with each other, and it is relatively normal to like to compare with each other.

Therefore, at this time, we will also talk about whose children are promising, whose children are uneasy, or envy the good of others, and also laugh at others and sympathize with others. Another point is that people living in rural areas have fewer leisure activities, so they can also spend their time better by gathering together to chat.

Because the pace of life in the countryside is relatively slow. It's boring while working, so it's gossiping. And surrounded by relatives and friends, there are common topics. Of course, it's not that there's nothing to do, it's gossip, and it doesn't affect the work.

Because people in the countryside have nothing else to do but farm, they will always gather together and pass the time by talking about gossip; Yes, they do be more idle.

Rural people like this, they all like to talk about some things, not much to do, except for a little farm work is to nag each other at home, close to each other, know each other, will talk more.

1. Social habits of acquaintances.

Men may talk about the glorious experience of the past and return to the bridge, while the women are "seven plates and eight bowls, which is deep and which is shallow, donkey set bun and horse splint, which round and which is flat", as the so-called "there is no gossip in this world, and it becomes gossip when there are more people to talk about".

2. Seek psychological balance.

In the society of acquaintances, people inevitably compare themselves with each other, say the "gossip" of people who are stronger than themselves, and seek psychological balance by staining others, and the "gossip" of people who are weaker than themselves can bring a sense of superiority to themselves.

When people are materially deprived, they seem to seek psychological balance, and this phenomenon can also be reflected in "office politics".

3. Topic consumption of fragmented time.

As we said, people have a lot of time to spend on farming, and they don't have the current mobile phone information or social tools, so they can only look for relaxed and pleasant "talking points", and the so-called "gossip" heard on the roadside is a good talking point that can't be missed.

Of course, "gossip" is not what people say, we should talk more about the good things of others, and less about the good things of others.

Gossip! The pace of rural life is slow, there is a lot of leisure, coupled with the low level of education, the overall quality is not high, and it is shrouded by China's thousands of years of feudal small peasant thinking, and the bend and slippery objects in the North China Plain are particularly serious.

After finishing farm work in the countryside, there is nothing to do, so everyone gathers together to chat, the east family is short, the west family is short, and there is more gossip.

Why is there a lot of gossip in the countryside, because there are not too many pastimes in the countryside, so everyone who comes back from work and doesn't play with Min likes to get together and talk about gossip, so there is more gossip.

Summary. Smile when you should laugh, laugh when you should ignore it, you can clearly tell them what you really think, after all, you want to go home and spend more time with your parents, I have a job, and I can find time to go home, accompany my parents, and help the family do something. I don't know if they are jealous or envious, are they proud that their children have been taken outside?

Kiss! Hello village gossip and you can cope with it like this.

I think first of all, you have to see which people don't need to be stiff, and which people are really nosy and love to chew their tongues.

There are also some old people who like to compare their children with others, because the situation of your company may not let them know, Qingzhao and you have been at home for a long time, they may think that you have no job, then these people may have the kind of unconscious state of comparing their children with your parents, of course, it is a one-sided comparison of those people.

Laugh when you should laugh, laugh when you should ignore it, haha, you can clearly tell them your true thoughts with a few ants, after all, how good it is that you want to go home and spend more time with your parents, I have a job, and Bi Qing can find time to go home, accompany your parents, and help the family do something. I don't know if they are jealous or envious, are they proud that their children have been taken outside?

Summary. Hello, I'm glad about your question, someone in the village gossips about you, you can do this, who he discusses with you, says your idle fish, you also go to get along with those people, let people know what you are like, so that people will not believe him, but will feel that he has a bad heart, you can try to stay away from or ignore his existence, take the initiative to get along with others, so that more people can believe.

Hello, I'm glad about your question, someone in the village is gossiping about you, you can do this, who does he discuss with you, saying that you are idle and broad, you go to get along with those people like Doubi, let people know what you are like, so that people will not believe him, but will feel that he has a bad heart, you can try to stay away from Shen Pin or ignore his existence, and take the initiative to get along with others, so that more people can believe.

What do I tell my friends about me? And then he went out and talked to outsiders about me? What about him.

If you mess with him and quarrel with him and go out to tell others, then you take the initiative to tell him not to go out and tell others about the things you told him, as friends, he listens to what you say.

I want to deal with her.

He's not my friend, he's a fellow countryman.

He is your fellow countryman, you can also tell him directly, let him not go out to promote your affairs, don't discuss with others what you say to him, he will understand you.

If you were born in a rural area and live in a rural area, then you go to school in the city, go to university outside, or even go further afield to further study and work. You will clearly see that people outside the countryside talk and act differently than those who live in the countryside. People in the countryside have a short period of knowledge, a slow pace of life, and love to gossip when they have nothing to do.

The most common scene in the countryside is that when the sun sets and dusk, all the families have already eaten dinner, and there is no work at night, and some elderly aunts and uncles gather together to chat.

There is a lot of strength in people, so many mouths, one to ten, ten to hundred, one thing is known to the whole village is nothing. Moreover, the rural women are even less educated, and their quality is not so-called noble. The disadvantages of gossiping don't seem to have any effect on them, and they just care about their own happiness.

Of course, if a person is old or has nothing to do, of course, idleness is just chewing the root of the tongue and gossiping. The people in the city are different, their quality is relatively high, they rarely gossip, they actually care about their own lives and live in harmony.

Maybe it's because rural people are more idle, especially those old men and old ladies, who sit together and chat when they have nothing to do. Actually, the old men are still better, and the people who can talk to them the most are the old ladies.

When people are old, they can't do anything, and they can't go out to find some work like young people, and they want to find someone to talk to, but their sons and daughters are not around. Then I can only go out and talk to a group of old ladies, and the old ladies can sit together and talk a little, they can't talk about parenting experience, so they can only talk about what happened in other people's homes.

In addition, these old people think differently from today's young people, and sometimes their thinking is still a little backward, not as open as we think about everything. For example, a girl from someone's family divorced and returned to her parents' house not long after she got married, and at this time, those old ladies began to gossip, and they would spread the word all over the city.

As far as I can see, rural people do gossip a lot about people living in cities. Take my hometown as an example, my hometown is in a small mountain village in Sichuan, and there are about 20 to 30 families in the village.

Every time I go back, there will always be an aunt who comes to my house as a guest, and then pulls me to start setting up the dragon gate array. Although I am not very happy to listen to the short gossip of these parents, I am more understanding of this situation.

Because they don't have a job, and there is relatively little farm work now, although most of the rural people have learned to use the Internet now, their spiritual life is not very rich, and they must find something to do to fill their lives and make their lives less empty.

In addition, everyone's lifestyle is different, and their living habits are also different, so the expression of some things is also different. For teenagers, many people don't like to communicate with the people around them, but choose to express themselves through the Internet. And what about the people in the countryside?

I am used to chatting with the people around me, so I naturally have more gossip.

There is an essential difference between urban life and rural life, a high-rise building separates the users, and basically buys a house outside, unlike the countryside has lived together for several generations, and they are more familiar with each other, usually when there is nothing to do, they will talk about the world, talk about everything, in the countryside is not like being in the city, there are more things in the city, there are more things to talk about, and there is basically nothing to talk about in the countryside except for parents, so they pulled out gossip.

There are not many things to pay attention to in the countryside, it is nothing more than what happened to someone's family, what happened to that person, and these topics can be talked about for a long time, on the contrary, in the city, if you just meet with neighbors, you can say hello at most, and you don't have the spare time to go to work from 9 to 5, and you just want to have a good rest when you go home, and you are not familiar with it, and you generally don't visit the door, and the countryside is different, especially at night, there is no work to do, just a group of people sitting at the door or in the yard, they start chatting, and naturally there is more gossip.

People in rural areas live a relatively monotonous life, the pace of life is slow, and the pace of life is single, so every day after doing farm work, there will be nothing to do, and then there may be more time to chat together, and everyone sits together and chats for a while is also the only way for rural people to entertain their pastime, so I think this should be the main reason.

In addition, rural people may not receive much education, and then they may prefer to be idle, and everyone sits together and chats and talks about the short things in the parents.

As for people in the city, his life is very fast-paced, and the workload of daily affairs is very large.

The pressure is very high, they don't have time to do these things every day, they don't have time to sit together to greet each other, sit together and chat and chat, so if the city people are compared with the rural people, the rural people may be more gossipy.

In addition, people in the countryside are not like people in the city, people in the city can sit at home and play on the Internet and play with computers or something when they are idle, and the old people also exercise or take a walk in the park. And when people in the countryside are usually idle, they are neighbors sitting together in twos and threes, talking about the east and talking about the west, and they can't avoid talking about some gossip, who and who's what's going on, etc., these are their daily pastimes.

In fact, there is also the fact that people in the countryside themselves worry a lot about things, unlike in the city, where they don't know who their neighbors are after living together for a long time. They talk and laugh together and use some gossip to pass the boring time.