Why are people in the countryside in the city ruthless? Without love, always hoping that others will

Rural people have much less income, much less pension, and a better lifestyle and environment than those in rural areas. Rural people don't really hate it, but they have an inferiority complex in contrast, they are not unloving, and they don't always expect others to be bad. This is a kind of prejudice of urban people against rural people.

A lot of facts show that they have a strong loving heart. As a city person, you must understand them, treat them leniently, and care for them, which is what city people should do.

In real life, you will indeed meet some people, these people feel that he is very indifferent and not easy to teach, this phenomenon is also very much, because people from the countryside, after he came to the city, he is not familiar with the surrounding environment, so there are some guarded psychology everywhere, so he has no love in the eyes of outsiders, this phenomenon is also very much, because after the rural living habits, the people around him are trustworthy, after coming to the big city, the people around him do not understand, do not believe, Therefore, there will be psychological barriers, feeling that they and they are not people of the same mind, so they ignore everything, everything is for them, everything has nothing to do with them and they do not intervene.

Then you are completely wrong in this thinking, rural people. In fact, it is the kindest. Love because they are not familiar with you. Some of them get along with you city people, and there will be a certain distance. Therefore, stay away from you people in the city.

This has something to do with the education they received since childhood, because now many rural people in the factory grew up in the countryside when they were young, and they saw that the children in the factory had food, drink, and beautiful clothes to wear, they were envious and jealous, and when they had the opportunity to go to the city, they would show great vanity, always feel that others were better than her, she was uncomfortable, uncomfortable, he liked to watch others worse than her, poorer than her, she felt comfortable, although these words were not, not very accurate expression of their psychology, But there is a feeling that the farmer has turned over and become the master.

People there are the same, and ordinary people can only choose kindness when they are stronger than some people in life. Otherwise, as long as others are stronger than themselves in a certain aspect, they will feel jealous in their hearts, and they all know that this is not good, but this is also the motivation for ordinary people to strive to improve.

No, this kind of thinking is wrong, because they have a kind of city people when they go into the city. The psychology of defensiveness. So, it's not that they expect others to be bad, but that you yourself have to be good to them.

has always been like this, I can't see that I am better than him, and I look down on him who is not as good as him, which is why many people are reluctant to stay in the countryside. Unless you're much better than them, these people won't be able to do anything.

In fact, not only rural people, but also high school differences. Due to the living environment, rural people have a small-scale peasant mentality, and their vision and mind are limited, and they will go to extremes. But there are also many hard-working, kind, loyal and honest people in the countryside.

They are not ruthless, but the environment in the city is too unfriendly to them, and they want to change their fate, but the reality is very skinny. They occasionally sneer at city dwellers to satisfy their sense of balance, but they are also caring, and besides, not all rural people are.

Because rural people have little knowledge and are easy to be jealous, they are ruthless and can't see others doing well, but there are also those kind-hearted people who can't generalize from partiality, and people in the city don't know anyone when they close the door.

What you said may be a little too one-sided, not every rural person's heart is very, because living in the city is very stressful, their income is not as good as others, and there may be some jealousy, but this does not mean that everyone is like this, but also have a good heart, this is because of the person, not because it is a rural person, the surname Tang is very urban people, Xingtan.

It's gentle, it's not like that.

Most rural people have no education and very low quality, so they are more mean to others, not good at self-discipline, and everything is shown on their faces

Because people in the city have experienced too much reality and unfairness, they deal with some ruthless people every day, and they will deal with it in the same way after a long time, so naturally they will not be as simple as rural people.

Rural people in the city are under great pressure and have no sense of security, and they are more numb to others, and they lack the goodwill of their neighbors in the countryside and the interaction between villagers from generation to generation, which seems to be short-sighted and powerful.

Of course, the people in the city are all changed from the rural people of the same generation, and they are also different, so they cannot be generalized.

Rural people are also human beings, and the inferior nature of human beings is universal, just because the living environment of rural people is far worse than that in the cities, with a lack of materials and fierce competition.

That may be a problem with the mentality of the person you encounter, or a problem with the quality. In fact, the situation of everyone in the city is different. For such people, you better stay away. Because you can't change other people's practices if you are entangled.

You see that the rural people in the city are ruthless, but not all rural people living in the city will be ruthless, because people's personalities are different, so what you see is only the surface, and it cannot represent all rural people.

To say, the average person is this kind of thinking, hoping that others are better than themselves, everyone had better be about the same, but always looking forward to it, it's a little abnormal, the average rural person no matter where they are, the nature will not be bad, but it also varies from person to person, some people are bad, no matter what status, what status, what the environment is in, can not change aqui te amo.

People have two sides, good and evil are only in an instant, and whether they are ruthless or not depends on the right person and the right thing.

It's about the environment, it's about your own jealousy, and in fact, most people want you to be doing well, but not as well as him, otherwise he's going to be jealous of you.

There are good and bad people in every place, not necessarily the countryside is ruthless, the countryside is actually very kind, but you meet individual ones. So everywhere there are good people and bad people, and it's you who meets a bad person.

I don't think the same can be said, the rural people in the city are ruthless, it is only with others, not so the rural people living in the city are ruthless, sometimes it depends on what the matter is, it varies from person to person, and different people treat different things differently!

Because the city is not his home, there is no sense of belonging, people are not ruthless, and they can't stand steadily. If you are not bullied, he will not take the initiative to bully you and attack you. It's just that you didn't see him being bullied, and you couldn't see the difficulties when he first came to the city.

Not all rural people have such short-sighted ideas, they also have their own ideas, that is, to be able to find people who are stronger than them, to find them to lean on, so that they can also become strong.

This is because people's mentality is unbalanced, they always feel that others owe them, they always want to get ahead, but they don't want to work hard.

It's impossible, there are ruthless people, nothing is absolute, there are still many kind-hearted people in the countryside, of course, there are indeed ruthless people, don't people in the city have ruthless people?

It's not that people in the city are ruthless, there are so many ruthless people everywhere who expect others to be inferior to themselves, don't work hard for a day, always like to gossip about others, and talk about long and short, as if he is smarter than anyone else, you can leave him alone.

It can't be said that all the rural people in the city are ruthless, right? Ruthless people are not only likely to be rural people, but also native-born urban people, and looking at the world, ruthless people are found in all countries and everywhere.

Because rural people have little knowledge, they feel that they don't have that ability, and they are jealous.

It's a common problem, and it's fair to say that no one wants you to be better off than it is! Only your parents and wife want you to do well!

You have some meaning of discriminating against rural people. In fact, whether it is rural or urban people, most of them are real and sincere people, and only a few like to pretend. There are such girls in rural areas, there are more urban girls, and now there is no essential difference between urban people and rural people, and some of the original so-called urban people are still unwilling to put down their shelves, and they still want to be superior to others, which is obviously inappropriate.

It's too much.

Hong Kong people and Shanghainese are more experienced in this kind of love.

These people are too stupid to know that their roots are in the countryside.

When people in the city have a little money, they think that they are superior to others, and they are not beaten.

Because city people think they are unqualified and dirty, they don't know that many great characters are rural people.

Whoever said it, I like the simplicity and kindness of you rural people.

**There are rat droppings, and everyone sees those few.

Just like there are more than 1,000 species of cockroaches, most of them are colorful and beneficial insects, but they live in mountains and tropical rainforests and are not common. And the common ones are very annoying, so humans hate all cockroaches.

Because of some influence of regional culture, some rural people and some urban people can't reach a consensus, and because of some behavioral habits and attitudes, but both sides have their own advantages.

Without this feeling, I am also rural.

Prejudice, there are good and bad people everywhere.

Because they're so arrogant, and if they don't have food for the countryside, they're going to starve to death.

People are antithetical to each other.

This is a kind of estrangement, that is, you feel that they hate you, that's because they think you hate them, this version of everything always has a reason, they treat you as some people they meet, only slowly adapt to it is different, all this can only be resolved if they slowly understand you and understand people, plus you have just gotten along, during the friction, sometimes there will be a feeling that others are targeting you, maybe people don't mean that at all, but they are too sensitive, this feeling I have had before, I even cried about it, but now that I think about it, I feel that I am too inferior. I wish you a good time with them!

The environment in which they grow is different, and so are the people.

People in the countryside are not called to have a sense of justice, but people in the countryside are relatively simple, and there are too many people in the city who are enthusiastic about it, and it is impossible for them to greet each other.

Everything cannot be decided at once, there are people with a sense of justice, and there are selfish people, mainly caused by the environment and cultivation.

Hello, I think most of it is due to the living environment, and people in the city rarely communicate with their neighbors, so naturally they don't have any feelings.

Because many rural people are more selfish, the sense of justice you mentioned is actually no longer there, because I myself am also rural, and there will be selfish people everywhere.

Most of the rural people are still relatively simple, there is justice, and there are few things that destroy the three views, and the people in the city play different attitudes.

Rural people do not necessarily have a greater sense of justice, whether they are rural people or urban people, everyone is the same person and has the same humanity. It can only be said that rural people are generally more simple.

Because the living environment in the countryside has created the character of rural people, they have a sense of justice.

I think everyone is selfish, because everyone is an individual, and there is no one who is not selfish.

Can't generalize, it's all divided into people, there are extremely nasty and disgusting people in the countryside, and there are also kind and simple people, I am from the countryside, and there are good and bad people in the city, but everyone who lives in the city is more refined.

I think this is a prejudice, but in fact, people are different from each other, and some people in the city are also good.

Because the people in the city are richer than the rural people, they look down on the rural people, and the justice of the rural people comes from helping and caring for each other.

It's true that rural people are really more united, and they may all have been friends with neighbors for decades!

There is no such statement, it is not said that rural people are righteous and urban people are selfish, and people in every place are based on their character, and they cannot be generalized.

In the countryside, because the house is not a building, and then when it comes to eating or working in the field, they will come out to meet, and they will naturally be very familiar with it, and they will help when they are familiar with something. So it's not a sense of justice.

Because the character of rural people is simple and honest. The people in the city look down on people and don't help people.

Rural people are more generous, and justice is more touching.

The people of the city are doing their own thing.

Maybe there are good people and bad people, but it can only be said that rural people have less contact with things and don't think so much.

This is not divided into urban and rural areas, rural people are more honest than people in the city, so they are more practical in what they say and do. City people also have real. It's just that there are more people in the city, and everyone has everything. There is no such thing as looking down on it.

Selfish people don't have to be city or rural**.

This is a paradox, in fact, it has to do with personal personality and personality, and it has nothing to do with rural and urban people, mainly the people you meet.

You can't stop or control what others think of you, you can only control what you do, and you know that rural people think traditionally, and you still go to work in that kind of bad place, no wonder others say about you, unless you don't mind what others say at the beginning, and you are afraid that people will say that you still do it, this is your own inconsiderateness, the world is not revolving around you, everyone understands the truth, and you must think clearly before doing things. Many times what you want is your business, and how others want to be is someone else's business.