Fake smart children harm others and themselves, so how to guide them?

Some children may not be liked by others, but parents praise their children's good brains and even show their children's "wisdom" to others, making the children next to them even more proud. In fact, sometimes some of the children's performance is not worthy of praise from their parents, but it is necessary to attract the attention of their parents and guide them in time. Otherwise, children are destined to do nothing in the future, and it will be difficult to make a big difference.

What kind of children should be given full attention by their parents and corrected and guided in a timely manner? The following three types of children are typical!

The first category: children who like to play tricks on smart children.

Regarding the education of his children, his father often chatted with his uncle, and when there was no separation before, his uncle's eldest son was once the only son of the family. He was born a long time ago, and the second child of the extended family was born, so that valet may have enjoyed the favor of too many people.

The second category: children who love small and cheap children.

Grandma Li in the community is showing off her eldest grandson to an old lady again. Hehe, I just went to the fruit store, this guy ate half of it when I was picking fruit, red stem, sugar orange, I can eat another one, I went home, but I didn't eat it. Because I'm full, save it!

The third category: children who like crookedness.

This kind of kid always makes sense. Parents scolded. He or she has many reasons to wait.

Some parents laughed and shook their heads. Really convinced. It's so small, how powerful it grows!

As soon as the mother swept the floor, the child was dirty. Mom criticized a few words. If the child tilts his head, he cannot get dirty.

Then don't you have breakfast and lunch? At this time, don't be in a hurry to praise the child's quick thinking, this kind of "smartness" is not good. Parents must keep their eyes open.

It is not tolerated that the child continues to "sophistry". If a child who is smart enough to "sophistry" goes down the road, he will appear in front of adults in the future by "not entering oil and salt", "not listening to advice", "doing what he says", and "making mistakes".

If the child shows one of the "strengths", parents should not be busy praising them, but should correct them in time so that the child can grow better. 3-6 years old is an important period for children to develop emotional intelligence. Parents can enlighten their children through picture book stories, guide their children, let them learn to control their emotions, and cultivate a good character, which is very important for their children's lives.

This kind of child looks "smart", it is difficult to get ahead when he grows up, parents should guide education in time, if we can't always find a reason to be with our children, why not read a storybook with them and talk about the experience? This can also promote affection and bondage between parents and children.

When encountering such children, they must be allowed to take the regular road, don't be clever, don't be self-righteous, these things are some pediatrics in the eyes of adults, and they will be easily recognized by adults.

First of all, you can talk to your child about it, tell your child that this is not right, you can tell your child, if you don't understand, you have to ask, don't pretend, because pretending is not good for your child's development, I believe that the child can understand slowly, and you should slowly guide the child.

As a parent, you should do your job well, tell your child what to do and what not to do, and guide your child correctly.

Children should be given the right ideas and told to think right. The most important thing is to lead by example.

Fake smart, that is, self-righteous smart, will make the child blindly feel that he is very good, so that adults need correct guidance, but when he does not do it right, he must be sternly pointed out and corrected.

Whatever parents say, children will say that they know, every word parents say will be compounded by children, children don't like to use their brains, they don't like to think, these manifestations show that children are fake smart.

There is a difference between the outside and the inside, and they will evade responsibility, they will make sycophants, they will also seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and they will not harm their own interests.

often express their own opinions, show off their cleverness in front of others, there will be these performances, parents must pay more attention.

Fake smart children are the kind of people who seem to have a lot of bad ideas, sloppy horses, homework is not good to write, unwilling to share with others, more selfish, and love to play cheat sheets in exams, parents should give correct guidance, accompany children more, set an example, give children some positive energy stories to see, and learn to render the soul.

Children who are too strong and like to bully other children with small actions. Verbal communication is combined with behavioral punishment to educate children.

"Fake smart" is perfunctory on the surface for parents to study hard, but in fact, they are doing fake work, making cheat sheets on exams, and not reviewing well. Parents should correct their mistakes in time and guide their children to have correct learning concepts and attitudes.