What is the experience of a person being blackened?

experience, you will feel like you are almost completely ruined. This blackened.

The process often requires a tigger, a tipping point to start, and it is definitely an event that has a devastating blow to you.

When I was in junior high school, because I watched some blackened anime, and then I was affected, and I was bullied and ridiculed by my classmates, I wanted to commit suicide every day, or kill them, and I went home to find a firewood knife. Once I was annoyed by a male classmate in the class, so I stabbed him in the back with a knife, I thought it was nothing, but his clothes were scratched by me, and I hurt **, and then I felt that I was really stupid, what to learn blackening.

I have become more protective of myself, much smarter, see through human nature, and not necessarily become bad.

At a hospital where I used to work, my boss asked me to fire an older sister. This eldest sister once introduced me to an object, and she was usually polite to me, and she had no stakes at all, but the boss didn't like it (just didn't like it). I was the head of the department at the time, and I had just taken office, and basically everyone in my subordinates did not support me, so I had to use this matter to make a statement.

So ......I fired it, and the eldest sister who once introduced me to someone and treated me very well.

With self-control, the performance improved, and keep was able to persevere, and the performance was also improved at that time. The words were better written back then. Reason for blackening: There are people who care about it in my heart, but the distance is far away. But then I changed back, and I felt like a monster at that time.

The first thing is that my workplace feelings have blackened. I'm basically blank and don't talk to my colleagues anymore (unless I'm off work) because I know that one day I'm going to have to make a decision, and he or I can only keep one. At the same time, I am also more cautious in future recruitment and training, try to recruit people who are pleasing to the public, and add a lot of workplace training during the training, so as not to let me fire him in the future, and fire a person who has a very good relationship with you, very....

It made my workplace black. Train people, just train the business, give less lessons to others, especially things outside of work, and try not to participate. If it's not a level, try to have some sense of difference, a little distance.

Otherwise, if you get too close, you will feel each other's shortcomings.

A very simple friend of mine before began to turn bad because he was bullied, and it felt like it was really a trick.

One word ruthless. First of all, you have to be ruthless enough to yourself, and secondly, Changhong is ruthless enough to others, how to be ruthless to yourself, that is, to force yourself to study hard, a person is not to say that blackening is black, first of all, you have to be strong enough, you have enough ability to make others afraid that you are cruel to yourself, force yourself to work hard, go and do a good job, and when you have money, you will be ruthless, who was not good to you before, how can you be ruthless to him now. First of all, you have to be ruthless enough to yourself, and then you have to be ruthless enough to others, how to be ruthless to yourself, that is, to force yourself to study hard, a person is not to say that blackening is blackened, first of all, you have to be strong enough, you have enough ability to make others afraid that you are cruel to yourself, force yourself to work hard, go to do a good job, and when you have money, you will be ruthless again, who treated you badly before, you are resistant to quarrel and now you will do to him.

In this case, most of them are when they encounter something more important and have a serious blow to themselves, don't deliberately blacken yourself, which will make you lose a lot

I was already black when I was a little girl, and many people bullied me!

Blackened people are very strong, and when people are blackened, they will become stronger because they have turned on their self-defense ability.

Blackening is a long process, including sweet, bitter, spicy, joy, anger and sorrow at the same time for a certain period of time to stay quietly for a while, restart! In other words, the cognition has improved, and at the same time, there is a more ideal state of celery.

In fact, everyone is almost the same, they are all ordinary people, they can be selfish, that is, live for themselves, just be happy, and have a clear conscience!

Life is short, it is recommended to find the real needs of your heart, such as planting flowers and vegetables, planting flowers, being a boss but it must be what you love! Love is what makes you a strong person, just like us ordinary people are afraid of sin. To commit the same sin, in fact we are the same.

Guilty of being the same human beings, why do they look sinful. Commit especially killing. Person.

Is it more terrible than the average person? Because of sin. Criminals break the limits of the rules, which we call law and morality, and the rules protect us and limit us at the same time.

It's the same with blackened people, they break the rules of their own society, become more unscrupulous, more paranoid, and will not hesitate to do things they didn't dare or dislike before in order to achieve their goals. Changing to fantasy or magic themes, blackening can also be said to be enchanted, and it can also be regarded as breaking through its previous boundaries in an alternative way, and it is naturally more powerful.

When it comes to blackening, there are many reasons. I think it's mainly a twisted venting of grievances. When a person does something good or what he thinks is right, he is not rewarded in return, and even receives retribution.

The person begins to reflect on his own goodness and then deny it. It is no good to use a revenge mentality to release grievances, and then prove that kindness or not blackening.

In this case, most of them are when they encounter something more important and have a serious blow to themselves, don't deliberately blacken yourself, which will make you lose a lot

Well, if you want to blacken yourself, first you need to get a really bad blow, like the death of both parents, or the betrayal of your lover...

It's like being on campus on a day.

I don't understand why you want to blacken yourself, if you just want to protect yourself, you can learn some self-defense techniques.