Why does it feel like the heart is empty after forgetting a person, as if it has been hollowed out?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Forgetting someone can make people feel empty and lost, and this is because in the process, you may lose something important like feelings, relationships, habits, and so on. These lost things can make you feel empty inside, or even have a feeling of being hollowed out.

    Additionally, forgetting someone can also make people feel lonely and helpless. Even if you no longer feel the emotional entanglements and pain of the past, but you lose the connection and interaction with that person, you may feel lonely and helpless.

    Also, forgetting a person can also be anxious and unsettling. Even if you have made an effort to forget about this person, you may worry about whether you can do it or if this person will reappear in your life. These worries and uneases can make you feel uneasy.

    In conclusion, forgetting a person can bring about many different emotional and psychological reactions that can make one feel lost, lonely, anxious, and more. Therefore, you need to give yourself enough time and space to process these emotions, while also seeking support and advice from friends, family or professionals.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because invisibly, you have put him or her inside yourself. It's all about him, so when you forget him/her, you get rid of him or her from your heart. Then the place that once had him or her in the heart is empty.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Without a goal, life will be lost. It will feel empty, and it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's true that there is no goal, and it is okay to have some faith without finding it! ~

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you don't find the goal of preference, you don't pursue it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No pressure, no motivation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's dawn and life goes on.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think too much about it, just live your life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because he once concentrated all his energy, material resources, and human and financial resources on one person. That is to say, give all your feelings and love to each other. As a result, the other party does not react or does not get the desired return ......Of course, it is disappointed, empty and helpless......It's like a parent who gives everything to his child, in order to make the child get ahead, but the child does not meet the requirements and standards of the parents or has an accident, he will be disappointed.

    In particular, it hurts the other party or owes ...... to the other partyThe years go by, you can't chase it anymore, you can only reminisce. A joyful heart is good medicine, but a spirit of sorrow withers up bones. Thanksgiving should be given for the days we had.

    Thanksgiving for the years and ...... we have gone through together

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's because you treat him as your everything, without yourself.

    When you lose him, it's like losing yourself completely.

    Therefore, the growth of the soul allows you to understand that you are truly an independent being, rather than giving yourself completely to others, or living for others. Love is not a feeling given by others, but the ability of you to love yourself and feel your own existence, and others are just the objects you share your love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is spent on one thing, once lost, it is equivalent to losing everything, just like aunts bring their children up and start a family, they are hollowed out, and they have no hobbies but square dancing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Get used to his meticulous care and love for you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The body is hollowed out and drinks the kidney treasure! (Just kidding) your heart is still in this man.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are many aspects, maybe I haven't experienced love, maybe I haven't received any warmth when I encounter some setbacks, maybe I am alone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Play on your phone, or computer! Take the tram out for a ride! Find a friend to hang out with, or buy a post-it note!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because people inevitably lack the eyes of the heart, the more they can't get it, the more they can't forget it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Lonely? Loneliness deep inside.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Accustomed to putting people in their hearts, there will always be some loss when they are emptied for a while, and it will be good after a long time, and all the flowers will not bloom again when they wither, and the result will be more prosperous in the spring of the next year. Hehe, I wish you happiness!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because they occupy your heart, and this hollowing out is not something you willing. It's suddenly gone, and I don't feel used to it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because you are only psychologically prosperous with this one person. Just fill someone else.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It is customary for two people to have care for each other, and if they break up suddenly, they will feel empty.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    One less person loses a warmth, so it's empty.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because it's hard to accept a sudden departure from a person all at once

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There is a drawbridge mentality mentioned in psychology.

    I think you just belong to the drawbridge mentality.

    What is Drawbridge Psychology.

    It's that you're walking on a thrilling suspension bridge.

    Suddenly a person appeared.

    That's when your heart suddenly beats.

    I mistook this feeling for a liking for this person.

    Kind of forgot that it was not well explained, don't mind)

    I want to say yes.

    You're used to having such a person for a while.

    If he suddenly disappears.

    You'll feel lost.

    If he never contacts you again.

    You may feel empty at first.

    I don't have the energy to do anything.

    It's because you mistakenly think he's the most important thing right now.

    If, after a while, you have a new spiritual sustenance.

    Then you will feel that he is not important at all.

    In fact, everyone may experience this psychology.

    Don't be afraid, it's easy to get through.

    As long as you are willing to see yourself clearly.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm not in favor of online dating! I've also been in online dating! It's pretty much the same as you!

    At that time, I really felt that I couldn't do without him, and my friend persuaded me that it was all fake! said that there are no good people on the Internet, they are all **! It's all bubble mm!

    I'll dump you when I'm done playing. I don't listen to anything! I feel like I'm really stuck in it!

    I don't have the energy to work anymore! Just thinking about the Internet, thinking about him. Later, I found out that I just found a confidant, a person who can talk to you and relieve your boredom, that is not love, it is a habit, it is a kind of dependence, just like when you are dying, grab a life-saving grass!

    When time comes you will forget about him, maybe you will find something better!

    The network is virtual! I advise you to get out of reality! There is a gap between the Internet and reality!

    Keep yourself busy, and you will find that he is no longer so important, he is just a listener to you when you are empty, a spiritual sustenance for you, and an insignificant person! People can't live in the virtual world, the love in the network is spiritual! Hurry up and get rid of the put!

    Reality is beautiful! ~~

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I advise you: don't believe in online dating, those are too unreal! ~~

    Besides, you don't know much about him in such a situation, so don't invest too much! It's okay to make friends online.

    But don't make a lover, your worries about him, even ordinary friends, will appear, it's not that you're already in love with him.

    It's just a kind of concern between friends, and if I were you, I'd think so.

    The rest you should know what to do?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Go find something realistic to dilute that feeling! Actually, it's also very impractical, but you value it yourself. Nothing!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Typical online dating

    It's too unreal, and I'm always hesitant

    It is recommended that you do more activities with your friends

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's normal, you guess you're really in love with him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe you're really in love with him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Dizzy, so what's the matter? It's okay sister, I'll talk to you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This is normal.

    Who doesn't have this kind of thing?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Find someone to sleep with and talk to!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Think too little, think more about being happy, warm yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I've been like this from time to time since I was a child, but I asked a counselor, and she's still researching, but suggesting that you take a deep breath and find something to do in this case. (Personally, I think this is a sign of low mood, so let's make yourself happy.) (Exercise is a very effective way at times like this)).

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