Why do children want a boy to carry on the lineage?

Oh, that's because of the patrilineal society, and children generally have their father's last name.

In a matrilineal society, girls are more popular.

In patrilineal societies, men are more capable of working than women, produce more things, and thus have a higher status.

However, with the development of production technology, the difference in productivity determined by gender is getting smaller and smaller.

Generally speaking, the poorer the place, the more boys are liked.

As the "braised little angel" says, it is now a patriarchal society.

The older generation thinks that only boys can really pass on the lineage, and the daughter who marries out spills out of the water, and feels that the daughter is not worth marrying into someone else's family to give birth to a child for others, and now the ancestors are also, all of them are with the father's surname and then push up your grandfather's grandfather's father, all of them are mainly male, and the single line of the said is this, only men can inherit the family, and think that only boys are the real inheritance.

However, because of the feudal idea of inequality between men and women in rural areas, the baby girl will fall to death and strangle and abandon it after a lifetime, so that the ratio of men to women is now 7:1 (more men and fewer women), and women are appreciating

I'm a woman.,I just want to set up a matrilineal society.,Female family = =+Passing on a woman not a man.,In the future, you must give birth to a girl.,And with my surname, my bf to have no objection to this 0.

It's just that people used to think more traditionally! I want to have someone to take care of when I get old in the future.

But now boys and girls are the same.

It may be a little influenced by the feudal system, and another point is that after getting married, women generally live with men, and most of the men live in their parents' homes.

This is the feudal ideological pull, and now it is the same for both men and women!!

Now they are all vying to have a girl.

To be honest, girls are quite sought-after now, and times are different.

Most parents' generation believed that having children was to raise children to prevent old age. This view turned out to be wrong. How many young people use bloody facts to tell us how sad their parents' conception of having children is!

Their generation thought that having one girl was too much, but not a boy. How many young people's hearts and tears have been created?

So, what is the point of having a baby? Nowadays, most young people feel that having a child is too troublesome, the cost is high, the energy is high, and they cannot make ends meet. Some people think that when they have a child, they lose their freedom in life, as if they have been fixed for a lifetime, and they have to revolve around the child for the rest of their lives.

There are also people who have experienced childhood misfortunes and understand that loving children does not necessarily mean having children, and perhaps not having children is the greatest love for him.

So, what is the point of having a baby? Child, perhaps a beam of light, can make your world bright and exciting. A child, perhaps, is a mirror of time, who allows you to see your childhood.

The child, perhaps, is a life-saving medicine. When you feel that life is hopeless and the future is indefinite, it brings you infinite hope.

What is the meaning of having a baby? One of the best I've ever heard. I don't ask him to support his old age, I don't need him to fight for me, I just want him to live in a healthy life, and walk in this beautiful world, so that I can have the opportunity to walk with him for a while.

The choice of Dink between husband and wife should be carefully considered, parents are from the past, and they understand that there is no sadness for offspring to be buried.

It's not difficult for parents, but it's the Dink couple themselves who are really sad.

Before choosing a dink, it is best to think carefully, such as whether you can accept life without children in your later years? Other people's homes are brightly lit and the family is reunited, but only the husband and wife are staring at each other in their own house. Retired neighbors with grandchildren, Dink and his wife can only wander around.

Not to mention that you can travel everywhere after retirement, it is extremely difficult to go far when you are really in your seventies and eighties.

The reason why parents oppose their son being a dink is that they know that the old man is miserable without children in his old age. If young people can accept these drawbacks, it is not impossible to be a writer. At least there will be no financial pressure in the first half of your life, you don't have to think about how much it costs to raise a child, and how much money you earn is spent on yourself.

Compared to families with children, the quality of life is indeed very different.

You can tell your parents frankly, which may not be acceptable for a while, but concealing it makes them even more sad.

A lie will always hurt more than the truth, unless it can be concealed for a lifetime.

But it is obviously impossible to have children, and if you delay it again and again, you will only be talked about by your parents all day long. The mother-in-law will also feel that the daughter-in-law does not want to have children, or is infertile. Confessing to them is the best thing to do, and it may be unacceptable for a while, but it's better than putting it off until the end.

The reason why Dink is not understood by the older generation of spring ants is because they believe that to be born as a human being is to pass on the lineage. Young couples are determined not to have children, so they must show a tough attitude, even if it will make their parents sad for a while, they must stick to their own principles!

Dink is everyone's choice, there is no right or wrong, anyway, I personally don't like the Dink family, because there are no children who feel that there is always something missing, which is not conducive to getting along with each other's feelings, and it is really a pity that there is no one to support the elderly when they are old.

As a living being, of course, human beings want to reproduce, which is the nature of living things. It is only natural for children to help their parents provide for their old age. But the meaning of having a child is not limited to helping the elders in their old age.

First of all, the continuation of life is the greatest meaning of a person having children. Having a child can also allow people to experience the various states of life. Experience what most people think of a full life.

After giving birth, it doesn't matter if you are happy, you don't have to work, you don't have to work, you don't have to be tired. If it's just to satisfy your own desires. Walk this complete journey.

So you don't have to have children, and there are indeed many people who choose Dink in real life.

Didn't have children. But everyone has their own different ideas, some people will think that such a life is incomplete, and some people think that such a life is a personal choice, and others have nothing to blame. Having children is not about passing on the lineage.

Or it's not just for the continuation of life, but also because of the people who can pass on their ideals or unfinished business in order to live.

It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, if once the decision is made, to have children. Then the responsibility of being a parent becomes very great. Children need their parents to care for and cultivate them wholeheartedly, otherwise they should not have children.

Children are the continuation of everyone's life, and when their parents leave, there is still their bloodline in this world. Some people will remember the days they once lived, the father and mother grew up with their children, and the children grew old with their parents, which is also the world.

One of the happiest things.

In a patrilineal society, the status of women is significantly weaker than that of men.

Succession means to pass on the clan and continue the descendants. Originally, it meant that the birth of a son could pass on the family from generation to generation. Inherit the ancestral business and continue the legacy for future generations. Only when a son gives birth to a son can he take his own surname.

If you give birth to a daughter, you have to marry off, and if a daughter gives birth to a son, she will be a grandson, with someone else's surname. Most women live in their husband's house or buy a house after marriage. Although the daughter is no longer a spilled water, after all, most of the time is in someone else's house.

This can be regarded as a folk tradition, and you can say that it is feudal thinking.

According to tradition, after giving birth to a son, the son's son, who is your grandson, will also follow your sex, and if it is a daughter, then the daughter's son will be your grandson, and will follow the sex of your daughter's husband. Now sons and daughters don't matter, the main thing is that children can be filial.

That's the thinking of the older generation.

This is feudal thinking, and it is the same for both men and women.

No woman has anything to pass on to the next generation.