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When most people are down, you lend them money, which is equivalent to sending charcoal in the snow. This kindness will be remembered in my heart, and of course I will be grateful to you.
But there is always a difference between people. There are always some people. It is not according to common sense.
It will blow your mind. They will feel. What purpose did you lend him money?
Or he's worth it for you to lend him money. Accepting it with peace of mind has become a matter of course, let alone talking about gratitude.
So you must get to know him well, and then consider whether to help him, so as not to become a donkey's liver and lungs.
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Yes, the average boy is more affectionate, especially when he is down, if you help him, then he will be very grateful to you, and he will repay the grace of dripping water. Men are like this in general, and there are a small number of them, but I believe that most men are like this.
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If a woman lends money to a man when he is down, he will be grateful, but if he is always down, the woman may not be able to support him, then he will instead open his mouth and scold the woman for refusing to help.
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Men are like mountains, but "mountains" also have their own difficulties, and even have the possibility of collapse.
Men are the pillars, but there are times when they can't hold on, and even collapse.
Men don't flick when they have tears, but it doesn't mean that men won't cry, it's just that men have to learn to run with tears.
Men have ** under their knees, but on the road of life, the road you choose by yourself must be completed on your knees.
What really makes a person mature is not when it is smooth sailing, but when life is tribulation; When a man has an epiphany, it is actually the most painful time. The man who came out of the pain is the most wonderful.
When a man is down, remember these few words in order to turn over. Ups and downs are the norm in life, as long as you live, there is hope in life; As long as you dare to challenge life, you can surpass yourself.
1.Prefer to go to the bank for a loan.
Don't ask anyone to borrow money.
When a man is down, he must be so poor that he can't hide the fact that he can't hide it, and others will know it. If you still slap your swollen face and become fat, then you don't have to, you are just squeezed into the circle of the rich, and you are just being ridiculed, and no one is willing to pull you.
When people are poor, relatives and friends will alienate you, worry about you borrowing money, and worry more about you borrowing money and not paying it back. As soon as you open your mouth to borrow money, you lose, and you live a humble life. When everyone else is talking cool and doesn't lend you money, your mood will become more and more depressed.
When you are down, first think about whether there are relatives and friends who are very sincere to you, whether they have always trusted you, and they will lend you money. If there is, then communicate with such relatives and friends, borrow a little money, and help yourself through the difficulties. If not, then "don't open your mouth", think about it, what assets do you have, you can mortgage them, you can take out loans?
If the bank can take out a loan, you can take out a loan, even if you have to bear the interest, but don't always look at your face, your heart will feel better.
2.Don't work with women, especially women who like you.
Women, "long hair and short knowledge", this is not to belittle women, but to say that women's ideas are relatively short-sighted, more take care of immediate interests, and at some critical times, it is easy to have six gods and no master. There are real strong women, but relatively speaking, there are not too many. If you meet a strong woman who can pull you along, then you are lucky and you can cooperate with her.
When a man is down, the first thing that comes to mind is not to cooperate with a woman, let alone to start a business with a woman who likes you. When two people are together, it is easy to be rash, not see the difficulties of reality thoroughly, underestimate them, and think about the future things too beautifully, and there will often be a situation where "the ideal is very plump and the reality is very skinny".
My classmate Li Zhou, when he was down, thought of his female classmate Wang Mei.
The two decided to open a hair salon together, on the one hand, because of the low cost, and on the other hand, Wang Mei had learned to barber and was familiar with the industry. Soon, the two of them opened a hair salon at the gate of a community in the county seat. At the beginning, the hair salon had a good business and made money, but soon, the two of them were together every day, and they fell in love for a long time and began to fall in love.
A year later, the two fell out emotionally because of the interests of the hair salon.
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Normally, when a man is down, a woman lends him money. It is equivalent to giving a man a lot of help. Men will remember women's kindness and will repay women in the future.
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If a man is down, then borrow money from a woman, then in the future a man with a conscience will still be grateful, and no matter how difficult it is, he should be grateful for the money that this woman lent him.
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Generally bai men like this in that paragraph.
du time, his heart.
Zhi deep is as inner as a helpless child.
The woman helped him.
Rong, gave him a life-saving straw, he will treat this woman as if he was a reborn parent, he will feel that this woman is a goddess, so he will treat her like a child to his parents.
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This is normal, I think if a person is at a low point, then all the people who are willing to help you unconditionally at that time are worth treating well, these are real friends, precious.
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Belongs to BAI
Super normal. A man is at a low career level.
During the valley period, friends will stay away, and it is super difficult for dao to borrow money. I'm worried that he won't be able to do it yet. Let you lend him money, to some extent, you are his nobleman, he will feel pleasantly surprised, because, finally someone is willing to lend him money, he is grateful to you, so he must be enthusiastic, will often contact you, maybe he is afraid that you are worried that he will not pay you back, so he will often keep in touch with the heat.
In fact, if you lend him money, you can also encourage him to sum up his lessons and strive to do it as soon as possible. Helping him can actually make him succeed in returning the money as soon as possible.
You're a good person, kudos to you!! The relationship is generally to lend money to a man with a down-and-out career, and he can indeed be called a good person.
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This depends on the person, not everyone will cherish it, some people know how to cherish the person, you just don't lend him money and know how to cherish the person you don't know how to cherish, you can lend money to him, or even lend someone to him, he will not necessarily cherish you.
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Feelings need to be carefully cultivated, maintained, developed, and consolidated.
It is said that we share weal and sorrow, and the maintenance of feelings in the future is no exception.
It's not that feelings are once and for all, and you can't sleep on the credit book.
It is human nature to love beauty, dress yourself up beautifully, care for him.
Find a problem and solve it in time, don't say 'you can't be rich together'.
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If you have a problem, you can talk about it, don't be bored, and ask him if he is not in good health or in a bad mood.
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Love needs to understand, know how to care, know how to be considerate, and know all that should be given for love. Only by understanding that love can be more affectionate; Only by understanding that love adds warmth and infinity; Only by understanding can love experience renewal.
After loving each other for a long time, the personalities of the two people will gradually complement each other, the temper that loves more will become better and better, more and more accommodating, and the character who is loved will become more and more domineering, but they can still walk together because one of them is trying to cater to them.
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Men will borrow money from the following types of women:
1, Bai Fumei: Regarding this kind of female population, many men are premeditated, and even the version team has the right to defraud, because they feel that these girls are "stupid and have a lot of money".
2. Older leftover women: Among such female friends, because being urged to marry is the main need, many men pretend to be "true destiny" to cheat on marriage and love, which makes many female friends shout "I don't believe in love".
3. Girls who have not left school: In this kind of girl, because they know little about society, at this time, those fraud gangs will start to prepare to attack these girls!
If a man likes you, he won't think about borrowing money from you, except, of course, in special circumstances, such as forgetting to bring a wallet or something when he goes out! If a man asks you to borrow money, you can't say that he cheated money, but this man really has no interest and no responsibility.
This may be biased, but most boys will not borrow money from their girlfriends, especially during a relationship, because borrowing money from their beloved girl means that he has lost his self-esteem!
So in a word, no matter whether he lied to you or not, this boy is indeed not worthy of your trust, and this relationship may no longer be so innocent.
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First: Men will borrow money from women who are richer than themselves. Men want to test women's attitudes towards money, and they will deliberately test women on the grounds of borrowing money.
Second: Men will borrow money from the woman they love. I want to see if a woman really loves herself, so I play a "difficult" play to test whether a woman can share the hardships with him.
In addition, men still have to save face in front of money, especially in front of women. The face is grandiose, it is said to be the vanity of people, but it is strictly classified, it is also the dignity of a person.
Although the women's liberation movement has been going on for several years, the results are evident to all. For example, in many families in Shanghai, there is even a phenomenon of yin and yang declining, and women have already grasped the economic power.
But it is not a day's work to melt the ice, and for thousands of years men have dominated society and a culture has been formed, which is invisible, but deeply rooted in the marrow of the human being. Therefore, men still have their own sense of superiority in their bones, even if they are trampled under the feet of women in reality.
Naturally, they want to maintain their dignity very much, and earning money to support the family has always been considered a man's responsibility, and borrowing money from a woman has become a very faceless thing for men. Therefore, if a man is not extremely embarrassed, he will not borrow money from a woman.
Is it true that men deceive people and do not want dignity? No, in fact, when scammers cheat money from women, they don't treat women as people, but use them as a stage for them to display their skills, and after they succeed in cheating, they not only do not have a sense of guilt for "taking" money from women, but on the contrary, they have a sense of accomplishment in doing a thing, and they regard deception as a "career".
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The first kind of copy under normal circumstances men will borrow money from their acquaintances, super good relationship with female friends, most men have good face, in the face of big economic difficulties, generally do not easily say to relatives and the women they love, one is afraid that they are worried, and the other is afraid that there is no face.
In the second case, the man himself is very rich, and in the face of a woman who loves him, he wants to test whether the comer loves his money or the person who loves him, in this case the man will borrow money and say that he is down, but it needs to be reminded that this method works, but women are prone to lose the person who really loves them after knowing the truth, and this method is risky.
In the third case, for example, men will borrow money from their female bosses, in fact, whether it is a female or male boss, most men will borrow money from the boss when they encounter difficulties, except for the first case, because in society, it is difficult to borrow money, and few people lend you money without knowing and guaranteeing, and the boss is a good choice.
Finally, it is recommended that female friends, if the man you love borrows money from you, you should be vigilant, and guard against your unworthy love, and the covetous one who is not worthy of love, generally men who have self-esteem, face, and self-motivation will not easily borrow money from the woman they love.
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Men will borrow money from their mothers, or from women who are their sisters, but rarely from the women they love, because men don't want to show their vulnerable side in front of the women they love.
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I think a man will borrow money from his mother or his female relatives, because these people are easier to talk to, and if they borrow money from their girlfriends, it will be a little embarrassing, so I think most men will not go to their other half to borrow money.
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The first is the kind of girl who is particularly stupid, the boy will pretend to have a good relationship with her first, and then ask her to borrow money, and the second is the girl who looks very rich, because they think that this kind of girl will definitely be more generous and easy to borrow money.
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The rich woman, the woman who loved him, and his mother. Generally these three types of people, to be honest, it is not easy to borrow money in this society now, except for those who love him, who else will be willing to lend him money.
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1. His mother, his closest relative, will feel quite normal.
2. A woman who likes her and takes a fancy to him, such a woman will be willing to do a lot of things for him, not to mention borrowing money.
3. His hair is small and his relationship is very good, so he doesn't have to care about these little things.
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A woman who can speak well.
bai borrowed money such a du woman to the man zhi felt very bold and atmospheric and dao and was not informal, if.
Specifically ask her to borrow money, so that the woman will definitely not refuse. The other is a woman who has a crush on herself, because the woman likes him, so she will let her guard down, and even take the initiative to lend money to a man if she likes him.
In fact, many men generally do not borrow money from women. So the man borrows money from the woman to see what the man does and what the purpose of the borrowed money is. And this man borrowed money with no credit and borrowed as much as he wanted. >>>More
Men must like women who understand them, and such women will tolerate him and support him.
I'm a man, I have the same thing as you now, in fact, it's nothing, I just feel very tired, I can't afford it, she can call me 10 times a day** and said that my headquarters called her, basically meet every day, and it's also very dependent on people, we just shared, but I'm confused about the current situation, a little empty in my heart, a little sad and reluctant, but I don't want to look back, do you want to redeem? Just cook yourself, if my she is willing to do it, I will be good to her as always, the world is generally black for men and women, women.
A man will not miss the woman who was especially good to him. Because men are very self-conscious, and if others treat him well, he will take it for granted and will not cherish it at all. A man will only miss the woman he loved deeply but didn't get, maybe this woman doesn't love him, but what he can't get is always the best!
I think so, of course everything is good when you chase you, and when you don't love you, you are nothing. Of course, it can't be generalized, love itself is a gamble, you need to take risks, if you are lucky enough, you will win the whole world, if you are not lucky enough, you must have the courage to face all losses.