How to maintain IQ and EQ in front of parents?

I think if you want to maintain your IQ in front of your parents and your emotional intelligence does not decline, it is actually very simple, because it is actually very natural for you to interact with your parents in life, and you don't have the slightest skill, and you don't have to worry about anything. And if you want to surprise your parents, I think it's also very necessary to have some emotional intelligence, so be sure to maintain your emotional intelligence**. Take it easy, I don't think IQ and EQ will generally go down.

In front of your parents, you can keep IQ and EQ both **, in fact, the method is very simple, that is, you give your parents some small problems about IQ or EQ to test them, because they can't play, and then they will look for the answer you want, at this time you can tell them the answer, it seems that your IQ and EQ have always been **, and have not declined.

Keep a peaceful mind, everyone will always have a very nervous application when dealing with his parents, so at this time, you are self-defeating, how can you not achieve such a role as IQ not going offline, so you need to use a very peaceful state of mind to ensure that your IQ is not harmed.

Treat your parents as friends, such a situation can effectively reduce the deterrent effect they bring to you, because the deterrent in front of your parents can affect your IQ and EQ and a series of things, so after becoming friends, the relationship between the two of you will grow by leaps and bounds, and then that kind of suppression will not exist.

Anyone should "play to their strengths and avoid weaknesses" in everything they do. Although the "all-round development" in talent training seems to be more important, once you find that your child has outstanding advantages, then as a parent must pay attention to it, because not everyone will have a shining point that is different from ordinary people, as long as you guide in time and spend time and resources to cultivate, then your child is likely to become a special talent in a certain aspect in the future.

For the kind of child with high emotional intelligence but average IQ, parents can let him continue to play an advantage in the field he is good at, actively guide his child to participate in social activities in daily life, and let him continue to exercise himself in communication with others. Compared with wasting his talent or wasting his IQ with time and effort, this kind of education is obviously simpler and more effective. So how can parents use the advantages of emotional intelligence to nurture their children?

Emotional intelligence is essentially a language skill, mainly reflected in communicating with people, etc., it makes others feel very comfortable, so the other party is naturally willing to communicate with you. If the child is good in this regard, then parents should not hide him like a family heirloom, take the child out for a walk often, let him participate in various social activities and even enter his own social circle, so as to maximize the consolidation and play to his advantages.

As mentioned earlier, emotional intelligence is a kind of language skill, since the child is very good at talking, adults should encourage him to speak more in daily life, such as allowing him to express his opinions when encountering problems, and allowing children to participate in various speech competitions or debates, so that his mouth will get better and better. In addition, the ideological realm and knowledge level should also be improved simultaneously, otherwise no matter how slippery the words are, it will only be sharp-tongued, so parents should guide their children to develop reading habits.

People with high emotional intelligence in life tend to become managers and take on more responsibility in the team. After understanding the strengths of their children, parents can guide them to do this work from an early age, so that they can actively play a role in the group, and over time the children will grow faster than others.

As parents, we can understand that our children are still young. It's good to inspire children afterwards. However, parents should pay more attention to their children's excessive willfulness, which can be a sign of low emotional intelligence in their children.

For example, when a child encounters something that he does not like to eat, he would rather be hungry than eat. Such a child has too much self-esteem and will suffer significant losses in the future.

Every one of us will complain. When something unpleasant happens, there is always a complaint or two. However, children often complain about others in front of you, which can be a sign of low emotional intelligence in children.

At this time, if parents do not correct their children's behavior in time, let them complain blindly and do not find out about their problems, their children will be an undesirable figure when they enter society. They don't take the initiative to take responsibility, they don't admit their mistakes, and they blindly complain about the bad things of others, which only makes people annoyed.

Because today's children grow up doting on their parents, they experience very little. At home, they did not get angry due to the doting of their parents. They just let others understand what he means.

They're just stubborn kids. Such a child is also a sign of low emotional intelligence. Such a child cannot stand up to the criticism of others.

They feel that they are right. Such a low EQ can easily be exploited by others and end up losing a lot because of small things. Everyone has their own negative emotions.

A person with high emotional intelligence should learn to deal with his negative emotions and not take them on to those around him. Therefore, parents should teach their children how to deal with their negative emotions. Let children use negativity as a springboard and turn it into positive motivation to make them better.

Be aware of the feelings of others. Empathy is based on self-awareness and applied to others. It is an essential skill for successful interpersonal communication. The art of relationships depends largely on our ability to manage the emotions of others, as well as our ability to recognize and respond to those emotions.

Parents should also have high emotional intelligence, take him to see relatives more, teach him how to greet relatives, everyone go to parties more, you can also let him know some rules on the table, you can go to learn some hosts, eloquence classes, to improve emotional intelligence, you can play some games to improve emotional intelligence, and in ordinary life, parents take themselves as a ratio, parents are the first teacher of children, whether the old child has high emotional intelligence, parents must also have high emotional intelligence, give him some awards, do well and reward him, he will remember.

You can communicate more with your child in normal times, let your child have contact with peers, let your child communicate with your peers, cultivate your child's language skills, encourage your child to communicate with others, take your child to participate in some group activities, take your child to travel more, and improve your child's knowledge.

I think the best way is to enroll your child in an intellectual development class, so that your child can develop in a balanced way.

Method: Respect each other, communicate fairly, and for children who don't know how to communicate, their IQ is not very high. They should be so proud that they think they are the center of the world, or they should not be overly unconfident and generalize.

Most of the parents of ordinary families communicate in a menacing manner, and their words are also dominated by education and reprimand, but for their family, the scene is very different. When Du Jiang and Huo Siyan talk to their children, they will deliberately squat down to ensure that their eyes are level with the children, just to better give the children a sense of fair communication. Fair communication is the basis for children with high emotional intelligence to communicate with the outside world.

In some cases, a child who understands fair communication will surprise his parents with careful planting.

Teaching the child how to express his attitude correctly and to give the child self-confidence, this kind of method is actually telling him that it is useless to express their requirements appropriately, not according to the method of sobbing. At the same time, this kind of method also exercises children's mental control to a certain extent, so that children can grasp the ability to properly express their mentality, and self-confidence is the foundation of emotional intelligence and IQ work ability.

Children with self-confidence can be stable when dealing with the deliberate attacks of others, have excellent frustration tolerance and endurance, and are comfortable in interpersonal communication. Modern psychological scientific research has confirmed that among the factors that determine a person's happiness and fulfillment, emotional intelligence is more important than intelligence.

In fact, throwing and smashing things is a major manifestation of unreasonable mentality, and he should be helped to reduce his mentality immediately. It is very important to build a high-IQ child to teach him to manage his own mentality. Parents can listen to their children's psychological state after they have developed their sexuality, and give them the necessary attention and waiting.

When the child can't speak, parents can cooperate with each other to guess, let the baby understand why he is not satisfied, and then the parents can correctly guide them to speak out positively, or vent it through fitness exercises, only in this way can they continue to maintain a healthy and healthy mentality.

Communicate more with your child and treat your baby correctly. When a child has some negative emotions in his heart, parents must deal with the problem properly and act accordingly. Immediately lose the negative emotions in the child's heart.

There is no need to cause some paranoid words and deeds to the baby, then it will become more and more small and big. We must learn to understand our children, properly accept the children's regrets, and let the baby change from negative emotions to a positive and positive attitude, which is also an example for the child, so that the baby can learn from this, and can improve the child's emotional intelligence.

If you want to cultivate a child with high emotional intelligence, you must first pay attention to your own way of speaking in your daily life, and parents should also let their children think differently in terms of behavior and behavior, learn the length of other people's speech, and buy more such books in ordinary life, so that children can learn from them.

You should communicate more with your child, talk to your child more often, ask your child some questions, let your child learn how to respect others, and take your child to play with his peers.

If you want to effectively cultivate children with high emotional intelligence, parents must pay attention to relevant family education, set a good example for their children, set an example, and adopt relevant reward and punishment systems, so as to effectively cultivate children's high emotional intelligence.

Children should be allowed to have more contact with others and communicate more with others, so as to cultivate children with high emotional intelligence.

Introduction: The cultivation of emotional intelligence and the cultivation of IQ are equally important, and for most people, the gap in IQ is difficult to reflect, but the gap in emotional intelligence can indeed be manifested directly. Therefore, we must pay attention to the cultivation of students, parents are not high in emotional intelligence, how can we cultivate children with high emotional intelligence?

In fact, a person's high emotional intelligence lies in the experience of discrimination against others and the adjustment of interpersonal relationships in the process of interacting with others. If a person is not able to feel the changes in the emotions of others, but blindly does whatever it takes to achieve his own goals. Such a person can hardly be said to be a person with high emotional intelligence, but it cannot be said that he has no moral standards.

Therefore, people with high emotional intelligence must be able to perceive the emotional changes of others, especially those who are helpful to themselves, so as to be able to regulate the emotions of some people and promote their own development. Therefore, when parents do not have high emotional or emotional intelligence, they should cultivate their children's emotional sensitivity, so that children can better regulate the emotions of others. In addition, it is necessary to cultivate the art of children's speech, the charm of language is very great, the same sentence, the effect of using different ways of speaking is different.

Although it is not possible to achieve an absolute effect, it can be relatively better.

There are many parents who attach great importance to the cultivation of their children's foreign language skills, and in fact, they must learn their mother tongue well when growing up in their home country. Language is not only about learning to speak and read, but also about experiencing the art of language. The art of language doesn't have to be elegant, but the charm of language can really be intimidating.

This is why when people listen to a speech, it is easy to be driven by the emotion of the speech and make some actions that they regret. Especially when it comes to persuasion, the art of language can be very expressive. Therefore, it is recommended to strengthen the cultivation of the mother tongue more, improve the language level of children, if they can't even use their own language well, how to talk about growth.

Parents should create a good growth environment for their children, parents must communicate more with their children, cultivate their children's good language skills, and take their children out to socialize more, and slowly their children's emotional intelligence will be very high.

If parents do not have high emotional intelligence, they can take their children to participate in more outdoor activities and let them communicate with other people, which can cultivate children with high emotional intelligence.

Let the child read more extracurricular books, let the child's personality become more cheerful, take the child out to play, and have more contact with people.

Before their children go to school, parents can let their children master certain self-care skills. Whether it's getting up to brush your teeth or eat, let your baby do it himself. Parents should not feel sorry for their baby, in some things, we must learn to let the baby develop an independent character, so as to be able to cultivate a high emotional intelligence baby.

Some children are often prone to fall when walking, so after falling, it is recommended that parents encourage their children to stand up on their own, and parents should not protect their children all the time, which will make children form a strong dependence on their parents.

Some children are less timid and they don't take the initiative when interacting with others, so parents can encourage their children more. In the process of educating children, parents should also improve their own requirements, if the parents' emotional intelligence is not high, then it is very difficult to cultivate a high emotional intelligence baby. When children encounter difficulties, they should also encourage them and encourage them to take the first step bravely, so that they can gain a certain amount of self-confidence.

When you encounter problems in the future, you will not easily choose to give up.