Why does your girlfriend always direct you to do things?

Your girlfriend always directs you to do something, first of all, it means that she is very lazy and dependent on you.

I think you should communicate with her, tell her about yourself, and try to do it yourself. If you are used to her like this, then it will not be good for her or for you.

Most girls are like this, they want to have absolute control. There is a lack of security in my heart.

Always like to command others.

Maybe it's because this girl has a strong personality and likes to lead others, or your personal habits are too different, so he wants to command you.

It may be that your girlfriend is the type of person who prefers to instruct others, and he prefers to be a dominant person in terms of feelings.

Brother, you'll know if you're a Douyin registered female account, and now the online stream ** is pouring chicken soup like this. If you don't pamper the princess, you don't love it. "Why do those boys in ** take the initiative to do it, and you are reluctant? "Then I started to get angry.

It can only be said that your girlfriend is too self-conscious, not smart enough, lenient and strict with others, if she feels that you can't accept these problems, and there is no way to change her, it is better to break up early.

I think the main reason is that my girlfriend loves you too much and wants you to do everything perfectly, so she will care about you everywhere, including the way you do things, cherish it!

Why does my girlfriend even care about the way I do things? Because you are not serious enough to do things, and some do not do well, she can help you and point out how to do it, this girlfriend is very good, indicating that she loves you very much, understands each other, helps each other, and is willing to share the hardships with you, form a family, and spend a happy life.

If your girlfriend even has to control the way you do things, it means that your girlfriend is a particularly strong person in real life, no matter what you do, he has to give him advice, and he hopes that you can do what he thinks, and you will listen to him in everything after you marry him in the future.

It mainly depends on what your girlfriend cares about you, firstly, because your girlfriend is stronger, and secondly, because you have done something wrong and needs to be considered, so you will be managed.

First of all, you need to figure out that your girlfriend is strict with you, whether she is only strict with you or herself, whether she is also very self-disciplined, if she is also strict with herself, then I think she is urging you to make progress together, if she can't do it herself, then it is a bit difficult, you can talk to her.

It may be that he thinks that you are not doing things in the right way, so he wants to help you correct it. In fact, there is no malicious intent, and it is not that he wants to care about you, he just cares about you and does it.

Your girlfriend may be a self-centered girl who wants you to do things in a way that is close to her and goes along with her.

Maybe your girlfriend is a perfectionist and is trying to create a perfect lover image, if you feel tired, it is recommended to communicate well and tell you what you don't understand.

Your girlfriend may be a perfectionist with no flaws in her eyes, if you plan to live with her for the rest of your life, then discuss with her whether you can lower her lower limit, otherwise sooner or later you will quarrel and break up because of such a situation.

Women will dominate everything in the future family life, and it is also the necessary responsibility of housewives, so don't worry about being managed, if you can't accept it, take a break up as soon as possible to avoid trouble after marriage, first communicate well, if it's just the other party's personality, then you can only learn to endure, there is an old saying called "the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change" is probably what it means.

Your girlfriend cares about you, it's not necessarily a bad thing, look at what it is, no matter what it is, if there is a conflict between two people, talk about it calmly, only good communication can solve the problem without affecting the relationship between you!

That's because your girlfriend is afraid of losing you! That's why I ask you what you're doing like this! What an enviable thing!

How to say, boyfriend and girlfriend should also respect each other as guests, since you are embarrassed, you should find a time to talk to your girlfriend. Otherwise, in the future, there will be a crisis in the relationship.

People's personalities are different, your girlfriend belongs to that kind of person, who is more strong, and wants to have the final say in everything, so it's okay, two people live together, so it's more worry-free, earn back the money and pay it, don't worry about the rest of the things, what do you need? As soon as he said that he would do it for you, and she would do it for you. You can be very worry-free, so why not.

Maybe your girlfriend is a more detail-oriented person. It requires you to communicate with him subtly about small things. Be clear about your starting point and the pros and cons.

It may be that everyone does things differently, your girlfriend said to do something in his way, so you can have a quick way to manage you, can you discuss it with them? Two people do things according to each other, who is right? Listen to whomever it is.

Your girlfriend is quite strong and a perfectionist, and it is tiring to get along with such a person, or you have to change yourself to adapt to him. If you have to stick to your own way, there will be a fight between two people, and you weigh it yourself.

This shows that you have a precursor to strict wifery, and I am really helping you look forward to adoption

That's a must, she is your future wife, and it will be like this after you get married, so you have to be prepared for this, every family is like this, whether it's your girlfriend, that's what you do.

Maybe because she loves you, so she wants to be able to show you what she thinks is the best way for you, she will always treat you in the way she thinks is good for you, just because she cares about you, you communicate with her well, take your time, don't rush, maybe she can't accept it for a while.

She ignores your discomfort and unhappiness so much, and she doesn't feel a little uncomfortable about your unhappiness and displeasure, only caring about her own happiness, but ignoring others, isn't this just a willful princess? With such a girlfriend, do you think you will be happy and happy? It's better to break up.

For lovers who really love each other, when you are unhappy, the other party will also be uncomfortable, and when you are unwilling to do something you don't like, the other party will not force or embarrass you. Two people who love each other should be happy with each other's happiness and sad with each other's sadness. And people who love each other should have the same three views and the same joy.

You are still lovers now, she is so strong, so willful, she only cares about her own happiness, regardless of other people's moods, and does not consider other people's feelings. Then if you get married in the future, can you stand her doing this every day? Can you endure it for a while, can you endure it for a lifetime?

Although people like to say that they hope that all lovers in the world can come together, I still want to say, in your case, it's better to break up as soon as possible, find a girl who will hurt yourself and don't do it, and the life of this life may be better.

You are a rational person, you know how to solve difficulties, I want to say, as long as the ability to withstand pressure in your heart is stronger, then no matter which side of the difficulty, you can get through, you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it, you use your persistence, change them, if you do, you are unhappy, why bother, stick to your own self, you will be a real free person.

It is your dearest person, at least it will not let you do bad things and will not lead you to a bad direction, these things are things you are not willing to do, but for the later stage, these things or the things that are most beneficial to you are conducive to your later development, even if you are helpless, you have to grit your teeth and persevere. The main thing is to look at things, and if these things are not beneficial to you, then it is okay to refuse.

If it is a pleasure to go against the grain, in fact, you can continue to enjoy it like this, and now you are helpless, then you have to learn to refuse. In fact, this is also a kind of dependence, but also a trust in you, your repeated refusal or resistance, may live up to everyone's expectations of you. The main thing is whether one direction of the matter is beneficial to you or whether the matter is not beneficial to you.

Happy breakup, happy to you! Of course it's a joke, but if you're not happy in love, then it's not your love in the end. Have you ever seen why she did this?

Is there a story in it? If you understand and communicate with each other and it still doesn't work, then brother, you can do it yourself. There are a few men who really understand women.

Boys are generally late bloomers! However, some girlfriends are very strong and always like to control their boyfriends, and they feel that their boyfriends are not doing well. That one is not well done either, although some men also enjoy the atmosphere and enjoy being directed!

But this kind of man is a minority after all, many Chinese men are traditional in their bones, they don't like their girlfriends being too strong, Hedong lion roars, and I hope that my girlfriend can act wisely, at least in public to maintain their manly dignity!

Of course this is not normal, how can a boyfriend let him command like this? And she looks down on her boyfriend and doesn't respect her boyfriend, such a girl is too ignorant, and with him, men will also feel depressed and abnormal.

After all, when you are with different people, you get along in different states, and if you want to maintain a good relationship, you have to put some effort into it. Sometimes it's not a good thing to get too close to someone.

How old is my girlfriend's little boyfriend, who often directs her boyfriend to do things, and thinks that her boyfriend is naïve, doesn't understand anything, and is not motivated, is this normal?

Abnormal. Men and women should respect each other and not be picky.

You don't think that your boyfriend and girlfriend are being commanded together is naïve, in fact, many times he does this on purpose, he doesn't really think that his boyfriend is naïve, or he doesn't like him.

It's hard to say about this situation, after all, there is no description and I don't know if the man is naïve in doing things, or whether the woman is usually more do, and likes to pick bones in the egg. There should be some more detailed descriptions.

Is it normal for a girlfriend to think about how old her boyfriend is, and often only do things with her boyfriend, and feel that her boyfriend is naïve, doesn't understand anything, and is not motivated? This is certainly normal because a boyfriend must be very childish in front of his girlfriend.

It's normal, the psychological age of girls may be more mature than that of boys.

Boys in love can be naïve at times.

Normal, anyone wants to dominate anyone.

Dependent on you, the love you want to let be petted.

The girlfriend's starting point is good, but there must be a degree, almost on the line, if you take this dependence as a habit, and even the things that do the work of the boyfriend often have to be done, then for a long time, the boyfriend will definitely not be bothered, and even leave.

The first shows that your girlfriend is really lazy, the second is that your girlfriend is very dependent on you, and the third shows that your girlfriend is stingy through this incident, and this time she is really angry.

Because she depends on you and likes to feel pampered, and wanting you to help her do things is also a trust in you, when your relationship becomes more and more natural, it is when your relationship becomes closer and closer.

There is an emotion, not love, nor family affection. The ultimate of love will evolve into family affection, love is the feeling between men and women, sex is indispensable, the fiery love will either extinguish unilateral, or will extinguish unilateral feelings, ordinary people will not be able to bear it, because it is too simple. Only a faint love can evolve into a strong family affection.

And this emotion is not love but there is a lot of family affection, this emotion is a very wonderful feeling.

Do you have a job now? What is she doing now, if she works during the day and you don't work, it's normal for you to do these things. If you work during the day and she doesn't work, she shouldn't be like this, it's hopeless, if both of you work during the day, then you have to give in to each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, don't have conflicts for the details of life, it's not worth it.

Let's bear with each other for the sake of happiness and happiness!

The pampered person is not a self-reliant and brainy person. Some people are dedicated to commanding people in order to develop control, if you think it is good, and some people feel that it is a kind of happiness. If you don't adapt and can't change, then make another choice.

Girls, love to be coquettish, especially after having a male ticket, love to be coquettish and lazy, t t t is troublesome, you won't look for it.

Then you are still willing to help her, which proves that you still like her and love her.

She also cares about you very much, because she thinks about you all the time.

OMG, this kind of woman is terrible......I don't recommend that you break up, but I also don't recommend that you continue.

In fact, she misses you, I hope you understand as soon as possible, and always thinks of you accompanying her.

Hah, you think you can win souls, try to separate.

Love is like a spring, if you are diligent, she will be lazy, and if you are lazy, she will be diligent.

Your girlfriend asks you to do things and learn to use them is actually to prove that he loves you, and he wants to be with you for a long time before he treats you like this, otherwise, he won't manage it at all, just because her love for you is very deep, for such a boy, you should show him that doing this is very bad for your relationship, and since you chose to be with him, it means that you should have a certain understanding of the other party, and since you have made a choice, tolerate his shortcomings, After all, this two-person mode of getting along still requires the two of you to run in with each other.

I have such a friend around me, he is also a Leo boy, self-esteem is also very strong, not only his girlfriend dare not say, even those of us who are friends do not dare to say, as long as a little refute him will be angry, at least not talk to you for a few days, or will quarrel with you, we also know his shortcomings so everything let him.

But we as friends and girlfriends can let him, once he goes to the society, no one will let him go, you should talk to your boyfriend, many times as a boy should let go of his face, after all, the two of you are in love, the boy itself should also let the girl, although in a short period of time the girl can rely on her love for the boy to feel nothing, but after a long time, it will inevitably be sad and lost, followed by the breakup of the two of you, So if you really can't bear your boyfriend and don't want the relationship between the two of you to fall apart, you should still help him get rid of this bad problem.

A person's self-esteem is a good thing, but it should be used in the right place, such as at work, if your plan has not been, you should work harder to solve this problem, rather than putting it on arguing with your friends, which is still very incorrect, but it is also understandable that now the family is an only child, and boys will have a little stronger self-esteem.