The child is very timid and cowardly, what should parents do?

Every child's personality is different, some are very outgoing and some are very introverted and timid. Most children's personality formation is not innate, but the parent's parenting style is problematic or the child's environment is problematic. If there is a problem with the way parents usually educate their children, it may cause the child to become particularly timid, sensitive, and often lose concentration.

So what should parents do when they see their children being very timid and cowardly?

In the process of raising children, if parents find that their children's personalities are particularly timid and cowardly, they must consciously create opportunities for their children to contact with the outside world, whether it is family friends, relatives or strangers, they must let their children have appropriate contact, which can also increase the opportunities for children to contact with others. Regardless of whether this opportunity to interact with people is useful or not, the cumulative impact on the child's personality will definitely be there. Parents should not always let their children at home, if the children's ability to communicate with others or courage is not exercised, they will still be very timid and cowardly in the future, and there will be a lot of trouble after entering the society.

We often say in our daily life that everything is difficult at the beginning, and the same is true for children, parents must encourage children to take the first step bravely when encouraging their children to change their timid and driven personality, and when the child takes the first step, the future will be much smoother. In this process, we must encourage children to interact with others, actively interact with others, and overcome obstacles in children's hearts. When children encounter some things, they should also solve them independently with themselves, instead of panicking all the time, standing in place with fear, parents should teach their children how to get along with others, and teach children how to interact with people correctly.

For this kind of timid and trustworthy children, parents should not always spoil and get used to their children, let alone spoil their children, otherwise they will make their children pampered and will be particularly dependent on their parents. If parents don't let their children do anything, they are reluctant to let go, which will only harm their children in the end, so we must learn to let go properly and let the children go out to hone and practice their courage.

Children are very timid and cowardly, and parents should find out the reasons behind this and how to deal with it. If it is overprotective on the part of the parents, then it is appropriate to let go and let the child do what he can. If the parents are too strong, then it is appropriate to show weakness so that the child feels needed.

If it's caused by a lack of muscle strength in your child's body, exercise with your child.

Parents should not beat and scold their children in front of their children, but also encourage their children to affirm their children, praise their children more, take their children to participate in more meaningful activities, and also take their children to contact with other children, so as to change their children's courage.

Parents should take their children to contact the outside world, take their children to travel, or let their children have more contact with others, and cultivate their children's mental state.

Parents must encourage their children more, and then they must let their children be brave, cultivate their children's ability to resist frustration, and love their children more.

1. Parents should not be too strong: strong parents will create a cowardly character of children, when parents and children get along, do not be too strict with children, and try to liberate their children's quiet argumentative nature.

2. Socialize with other children: contact with other children more to improve children's self-confidence and let children get more happiness in playing, which is of great help to children's timidity and cowardice. Vacancies.

3. Encourage children more: children's timidity and cowardice are mostly related to the external environment due to perusin, parents can not characterize their children, but should care more about their children, give them a healthy and warm family environment, encourage their children more, and don't let their children feel that they are cowardly. When the child becomes confident, these signs of cowardice will be solved.

Children should be encouraged to express their ideas, improve their self-confidence, and let children play with other children. It may be because parents often hit their children, or parents put too much pressure on their children.

Children are timid and cowardly, mostly because parents control their children too much and do not give them the opportunity to express their wishes.

Change is needed. Children may be influenced by their parents, and children may have low self-esteem in their own hearts.

Timidity is actually a child's insecurity.

There are many reasons for children's timidity, mainly the influence of environment and education. For example, parents excessively restrict their children's activities, do not allow their children to go out alone, and do not allow their children to have more contact with peers, resulting in children who are not social and lack certain communication skills; Parents spoil their children too much and replace everything, so that children lose the opportunity to exercise; Or the parents are too strict, and the children are trembling all day long.

For timid children, parents should not rush to correct them, and they should not complain, count the children, or show worry in front of the children, which will only make the children more timid or think that they are timid and lose confidence.

What we need to do is to conform to the child's nature at the same time, according to the requirements of the society for the child, to give the child a relaxed and positive family environment, so that the child has the confidence to adapt to the requirements of the society calmly in such an environment.

A child's cowardice is a "by-product" of home education. Many parents are afraid that their children will suffer hardships and are not allowed to do this or that, which is the main reason for children to form a cowardly mentality.

To change children's cowardice, we must first get rid of the excessive protection of adults, and we should consciously create opportunities for children to go out and interact with others. In particular, children raised by the elderly need to be liberated from the "small world" of home, so that they can get in touch with and understand the wider world.

Purposefully giving children some time-limited tasks that can be completed independently is to let children experience the process of life in practice, and if they encounter difficulties, parents' encouragement, guidance and help can make children experience fun and increase life experience. When the task is completed, the child wins not only the praise of the parents, but also the self-confidence.

Friend. Each child has his or her own character, characteristics. Courage can be exercised, and cowardice must find its own reasons. Usually there is a lack of self-confidence, and you can take him to learn a martial art or taekwondo or something.

In fact, the influence of genetic factors on the issue of guts is very small, and it is mainly established through acquired training and cultivation. We call it courage quotient, which can be established through the conscious guidance and cultivation of parents. But many parents don't know how to nurture, and some wrong views and ideas are often counterproductive.

We generally use the guidance of children's game training and borrow the games that children like as carriers to cultivate children's self-confidence, courage quotient and emotional intelligence in a targeted manner. Generally, after a few trainings, there will be a more obvious effect.

Parents need to reflect on themselves and see what they are lacking compared to other parents.

Let your child participate in group activities more, and then gradually let him go from not daring to speak to daring to communicate with others.

This process requires very good cooperation from parents, first of all, to learn to encourage children.

Let him do small things and then give him confidence by complimenting him.

And then gradually let him take charge of some things.

In fact, many children are cowardly and not good at communication because of lack of self-confidence, and it is necessary to cultivate enough self-confidence for children to have the courage to communicate and communicate with others.