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Give your child a little more encouragement.
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Hello, I think:
1. First of all, it is necessary to correct the parents' incorrect educational methods. If the child is disobedient, the parent should not be anxious, nor can he scold and accuse, let alone use ghosts to scare the child. It is necessary to guide patiently and educate positively.
Do not use coercive reprimands for timid children, remember, parents must not forcibly push a child who is afraid of water into the water, this will not work well. If you find that your child is standing very close to the water despite being afraid of water, then you should be patient, give your child time, and finally, he will definitely make up his mind to go into the water by himself.
2. Expand the circle of children's social life. For timid children, we should guide them patiently, encourage them to participate in more group activities, expand their social aspects, such as visiting at home, let children go to reception, send tea and water, welcome guests, encourage children to go to the store to buy things, ask prices, pay, etc.
3. Cultivate children's ability to take care of themselves. Encourage children to do what they can, such as dressing themselves, washing their faces, and tidying up their toys. In addition to telling him what to do, he should be encouraged to enhance his self-confidence to do well next time.
4 Parents should cultivate in their children the spirit of bravery. Parents should use various forms such as storytelling, playing games, watching movies, reading books, etc., to consciously exercise their children's courage and perseverance. Let children learn the bravery and strong spirit of the heroes in books, stories, and movies.
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Timidity means lack of self-confidence in doing things, and many times adults manage too much or take care of them too much. If you want to exercise your child, you need to let go of your hands and feet and let your child complete most of the problems independently.
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Children's personality problems often make many parents feel very distressed, such as children are not confident, timid, most parents want their children to be able, smart, bold, and sensible. If you are very timid, it will make many parents feel very distressed, many children dare not talk to strangers, do not dare to walk around casually in public, and others are bullied by others and dare not fight back. Many parents threaten their children, saying that if they are so timid, they will not take their children out, or they will scold their children for being stupid, which will make their children feel very inferior.
If the child is timid, he can also choose some correct methods to improve. <>
Children's personality has a certain relationship with heredity, first of all, parents must understand that sometimes children's personality is very timid, in fact, it is very closely related to parents. Because scientific studies have shown that a child's timid personality can be affected by heredity, which is an innate factor, and of course acquired is also important. If the child is very timid, the education of parents is very important, and parents should choose some scientific methods to educate their children, rather than intimidating, scolding and humiliating children.
First of all, if you want to cultivate your child's self-confident character, the family must be harmonious, the family members must get along well, and the family environment must be warm. This will give the child a free space, and at the same time respect the child, let the child express his opinion, and treat the child tolerantly.
Learning to praise your child can make your child more confident, so parents should never be stingy with your praise. At the same time, don't spoil your child too much, or let your child feel frustrated appropriately. Only in this way can children have the courage to face difficulties, there are many families are very doting on children, every day is coaxing children, so in this case the child grows up, if he encounters difficulties or setbacks, his ability to withstand setbacks is too weak, there is no way for children to be able to get better growth.
Parents should pay attention to the fact that they must first be themselves, set a good example for their children, create a harmonious family atmosphere, and then educate their children in this environment, and support and understand their children. At the same time, to take into account the child's self-esteem, parents must understand that children also have self-esteem, and they should give children enough respect.
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First of all, encourage your child more, secondly, avoid blaming your child excessively, and then help your child rebuild his self-confidence, so as to improve his timid personality.
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At this time, children should be encouraged, and in the face of everything, parents must not do everything, and then give children space for self-growth and self-improvement, take children to travel more outside, and participate in some group activities.
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Encourage your child to do something independently, and you can also invite other children to play at home, so that your child can take the initiative to contact.
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Parents have mastered the scientific concept of education and the methods are appropriate. Patient guidance will surely cultivate brave, confident, and lively children. Let you read in a relaxed way.
Learn to teach children the way to be brave. Parents should tolerate their children's shortcomings, encourage them to think independently, eliminate their fears, encourage them to express themselves boldly, educate their children about frustration appropriately, and don't let their children suppress their fears.
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If the child is timid, the first thing to consider is whether others are scaring the child, and then whether the parents are too strong. Parents should educate their children not to be too afraid of some things, and they can also take their children to some things that they are afraid of, and let them overcome difficulties in front of their children.
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Parents of timid children should take their children out for outdoor sports and exercise, parents should accompany their children more, and explain more parent-child picture books to their children, which will make their children more optimistic and emotionally stable.
It is necessary to rely on the correct guidance of parents, let the child get out of fear from some small chores and games in life, help him complete various things, gradually reduce his dependence on parents, make him realize his own strength, and then strengthen the training of his tolerance, such as being alone at home, staying alone in the room, going to the street to buy things by himself (parents should be protected, but do not let him find out), etc., the child will slowly come out of the timid world, need to be patient enough, not rough, of course, It is also necessary to let the child spend more time with his father. Some children are timid because they are rarely with their fathers. Is this satisfying?
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