If you don t like people, what should you do, and what should you do if you don t like people.

Life is not easy, take a step back and open the sky. People are different from people, and the style and attitude of doing things are different (I want to ask, the premise is that your husband's friend is not doing things for the company, making money for the company, as long as it is, then you only have absolute obedience, it should be for him to be good for the company, good for the company's performance, and then you are also a shareholder, you only have to obey. On the contrary, as the manager of the company, you also have the right to interfere), whether it is as your husband or his friend, as long as it is for the benefit of the company, you not only can not interfere, but also encourage it, or that sentence, people are different from people, and the style of doing things is different, don't worry about this little hour.

Let your husband be annoyed, let most of you be unhappy, why bother to make money with anger, open your heart and be generous, don't hold back in the company all the time, the two families take advantage of the festival to go out together not only to enhance the relationship but also to increase trust, let yourself let everyone relax, how good, finally I wish you a prosperous business, I just said my opinion, if I don't say it well, I let out a fart, hehe.

I think it's better to take your husband's ideas, and your husband must be thoughtful if he can partner with a friend to do business. Women don't get along with their husband's friends, there are a lot of such cases, it's better in life, you have affected the business, I think you can use the word hatred for him. Whether you stay or go, others can't help you make up your mind, anyway, if you have to stay in the company, just find a time, 3 people sit down, spread your contradictions on the table and sort it out, they are all adults, and they are also your husband's friends, or business partners, there is really no need to be so stiff.

I think your husband's friend, a gentleman, will let you know a little.

If, you feel that it is not pleasing to look at someone.

Then, if you leave him, avoid associating with him and talk to him less. If you have to communicate, it's better to work or study. If that person is very popular, don't deliberately show that you don't want to be annoying, which will make your friends very difficult.

When you find out that your friend's other friend is someone with whom you have a relationship, you should be magnanimous, and if you don't have sand in your eyes and blame your friend, then your friend will be in a dilemma.

Second, don't limit your friend's social radius to your space. If you "tie" your friends to your side regardless of whether others are happy or not, whether they are objectively allowed or not, it can only backfire.

Because, even if you "bind" your friend's body, you can't "bind" your friend's heart, and most of your friends will hate you because of this resentment and leave you.

If that person's popularity is not good, and there are some problems in life, and others will say bad things about her behind her back, or simply ignore it, it will be much easier, then we will boycott him together.

Over time, she will also know that she is not popular with you, so she will stay away from you.

Whether you think it's pleasing to the eye or not, he exists;

Whether you are happy or not, he is happy.

Whether you feel pain or not, he sings.

Whether you are dead or alive, He lives.

Those who do not follow will prosper, and those who will not go against them will perish.

Your existence does not determine what others do.

You are who you are, it could be a fly, it could be an ant.

He turns a blind eye to you, sees you and doesn't take it seriously.

Why aren't you as dashing as he is?

Why do you feel that others are pleasing to the eye?

It's your business that you're unhappy.

The cities and people I don't like are Jinchengjiang in Hechi, Guangxi, Liu "teacher" who used to "go to the small class, go to the small class" in the kindergarten directly under the direct organ of Hechi City, and Qiu Moumou, a hooligan whose hair naturally curls and looks like an actor An Yi in Yizhou on a blind date, and their existence made me lose my appetite and ......... appetiteWhen I was in Jinchengjiang District Experimental Primary School, No. 2 Middle School, and Guangxi Hechi Industry and Trade School, which teacher was like Liu "teacher" who "went to the small class, went to the small class", I saw which student ate breakfast, noon, and evening and grinded slowly, "Go to the first grade, go to the first grade (go to the 20xx level, go to the 20xx level)" and push which student was in the first grade (20xx level), and the hooligan Qiu Moumou in Yizhou whose hair was naturally curly and looked like an actor An Yi, why did I come to see me in 2011, why did I come to see me, I look at the Jincheng River in Guangxi Hechi; The rogue whose hair is naturally curly and looks like that of Maccabius and actor Anyi; "Go to the small class, go to the small class" Liu "teacher" is always unpleasant, never pleasing to the eye, I also want my daughter to hate them, always and always look at them and Guangxi Hechi Jincheng River is not pleasing to the eye.

If you don't like others, you don't have enough self-cultivation.

When something goes wrong, there are emotional problems and practical problems. Most of us think that emotional problems are caused by practical problems, and as long as the actual problems are solved, emotional problems will be solved naturally. But it often backfires.

Because the actual problem is only the trigger or trigger of the emotional problem, our perception of the actual problem is the key to the real cause of our emotional problem. "Going badly" is the feeling or emotional state of an emotion. Therefore, when encountering problems, you must deal with emotions first, and then deal with practical problems.

Otherwise, dealing with practical problems with emotions is likely to be emotional, as the so-called "impulse is the devil", which will complicate the problem and cause a feeling of "unpleasantness".

When in a state of "unsatisfactory", it will lead people to look at problems or do things from a negative and pessimistic perspective, and to look at problems or do things from this perspective will either be interpreted with preconceived "unsatisfactory", or it will lead to.

not going well". This is called "prophecy fulfillment". Therefore, when people are in a "bad situation", they should pay more attention to their own perspective, change their mentality, and change negative pessimism to positive optimism.

Of course, we also know that this is easier said than done, but after all, if we do this, it is possible to change "unpleasant" to "smooth", and it is worth our effort, isn't it? 3、

Sometimes, some people attribute "bad luck" to bad luck, or other people or circumstances, and this is an external attribution, which relieves one's sense of responsibility and pain, and in this sense, this external attribution does have its benefits. However, such attribution also puts us in a position where we are passive victims, and we are not able to proactively solve problems, seek change, and achieve goals.