What should I do if I am in love and want to study hard?

First of all, it's normal to have someone you like at this age. But now is a critical time in your life. Secondly, my opinion is to suppress this emotion, and the most important thing is to do well in the high school entrance examination.

Meet better girls in the future. For a lifetime of study, what is the love of youth?

Make it clear that your purpose is to get into high school, right? Then you might as well try to be good with her, and then promote each other, if you find that you are not suitable after getting along for a while, or it affects your studies, then you can propose to break up, after all, getting into high school is the long-term solution.

But in the middle, you have to put your studies first, otherwise, if you lose your studies, you may also lose her.

It's okay to fall in love, it's normal to think about her, but what you need to change is the result of thinking about her, you all have to work hard to go to the same good school, and you yourself must also be angry, only if you are admitted to a good school can you get her, you think like this, come on, little brother.

Love and studies are not in conflict, two people care about each other, encourage each other, and are they not good to be admitted to their favorite universities together?

Play together when you have time to buy time.

It's normal to deal with objects! I fell in love with my husband when I graduated from high school, but it didn't affect my study at all, on the contrary, it promoted my learning, I worked very hard in college, because he was an undergraduate, I was a junior college, so I studied very hard, and then I took the undergraduate exam, I think love and study are two different things, you are not together every day, if you learn to be distracted, blame yourself for not having strong self-control, you can't blame falling in love, if you are not focused, there is no object, should you study to be distracted or distracted.

I think that if two people can't study together and progress together, and they just flirt and scold every day, it's better not to talk about this kind of love, after all, college is a place to improve themselves, and learning skills is the most important thing. Although it can't be said that feelings are not important, it is certainly not possible to make mistakes with learning. Although sometimes it is beautiful to see others in and out of pairs, it is best to create a better self in this ** period and meet a better person in the future.

Some people even say that if you didn't fall in love in college, you would go to college for nothing, and I think that hindering your progress in order to fall in love is going to college for nothing. Therefore, you must not delay your studies when you are in love.

Personally, I think it's important to study. However, focusing on learning does not mean not falling in love. The two should be able to take care of both, after all, they are both college students, and they are free to fall in love, unlike in high school, when parents and teachers were not allowed to fall in love.

I think the key is to be aware and measured, and don't let falling in love delay your studies and future. Girls, you still have to be independent, have your own ideas, and be responsible for your own future.

You are an adult now, and there are some behaviors that are normal in the process of falling in love, how can it become "bad behavior" in your case? As you write this question, you're a college student and have a great resource. The university has a counseling center, and counseling is free of charge for students at the university.

You can talk to the psychologist there.

It's to put falling in love aside first, so that you can learn, and you won't waste your youth, youth needs such strength.

To be honest, it is very likely that falling in love will affect learning, and it may be okay at first, but after that, some small frictions between the two and some noisy quarrels will affect themselves and affect their mood. I can't do anything, so I can only say that, don't think about falling in love at the age of school, and if you want to fall in love after school, you will find that the better you are, the better the people around you, the better.

At this time, you can only choose 1 of 2, and the most important purpose at the moment is to study hard, improve your academic performance, and there are many days to fall in love in the future.

You should study hard. Because love is unreliable, only by studying hard can you have a brighter life.

It's normal for you to think this way, and probably everyone thinks so.

There are many things that we see other people doing, and many people will want to try it, fall in love, smoke, drink.

But these things, if they don't happen at the right time, are mistakes.

Only meeting the right person in the right place at the right time is a beautiful thing.

Maybe you enjoy seeing other people smoking, but you don't love it.

I also have people around me who are in love, but I have to say that falling in love is a thing that requires too much energy, you will be distracted by your every move, want to do something, and even involuntarily drift away during class, after all, you are a student in the second year of junior high school, and you will face the high school entrance examination in half a year.

Then there's your high school life, which is even more fast-paced, and you can't help but be distracted.

Maybe there are also good grades and can manage love and study very well, but after all, they are a minority.

Just as if you walk on the shore, it only takes one step to get into the mud, but how do you get out of the mud, this. It's too hard, and you can't do it yourself.

Study hard, and when you become an adult, you will naturally have the opportunity to take your time.

Life is step by step, if you use up all your future attempts now, what about the freshness that will come in the future?

Moreover, the discipline of love is not the higher the proficiency, the better, sometimes, more love, I am afraid that my heart has long been numb, but when true love comes, I don't know how to determine whether it is real.

Also, I hope you don't play any ambiguity, when you are in it, you think it's fun and irresponsible, but this will make you lose your belief in love, and when ambiguity is about to evolve into love, you can't take this step.

You only need to study now, and you say you want to fall in love, you don't say which one you like, if not, it's okay, after all, learning first, if there is, you will directly show your mind to the person you like, the result is not important, the process is the essence. Actually, I'm the same as you, I'm also in the second year of junior high school

In fact, if you have a good object, you can also try, but don't pay too much attention to love, learning is the most important thing at your stage!!

Personally, I think you should fall in love again when you are in the third year of junior high school!!

Even if you are envious, you can't help it, then you have to see if you have a favorite person or if others have a liking or a good impression of you!!

Actually, I'm the same as you, but although you want to, but after you fall in love, you won't be so envious, and many problems plague you, parents, teachers, and ......Regret it.

In fact, every child who is in love will have these psychology, but it is really unrealistic for junior high school students to fall in love, not to say that they are happy now, but to be responsible for themselves. It's false to say that falling in love doesn't affect your studies, besides, you're still young, aren't you? Don't say that if you don't talk about it now, you will be laughed at in the future, even if you are a college student, there are many people who have never been in a relationship.

Now it's time to study!

Campus love will not come to fruition. Of course, campus love is often the purest and most genuine. If you can guarantee that falling in love will not delay your studies, then fall in love. Of course, love is not the same as dedication

Hehe, it's normal, but let's go with the flow, after all, this kind of thing can't be forced, don't stop others, and it can't affect learning...

Find someone who is good at learning, can you cultivate feelings in the name of seeking advice, and make progress together? Studies have also been promoted, and love has been discussed. But it's not necessary to suggest the second year of junior high school, what is the basis of your relationship?

Is it fun? It is better to find a few blue faces and know it, and it is recommended to go to the starting point of Chinese online learning to learn this kind of thing!

Have you talked about it? If not, you will understand only after you have talked about it once, and then you will not be envious. Me too, I envied others before my first love, but after talking about it, I didn't think it was interesting, so I might as well concentrate on studying.

And I envy it, too, but the guy I like is far away in Inner Mongolia and I'm in Sichuan.

It's normal for you to think this way, and you're at a very conflicting time. You have to know that love and study are not necessarily opposites! As long as the man is sincere, in fact, falling in love will not delay your learning, and I believe he will understand.

I used to think about this question like you. I think you can try to fall in love, but remember, you'd rather not find it, not be in love, and don't just look for it, that would hurt you a lot. Find one that you like, like yourself, I think, not only will not delay learning, but will reduce your pressure on learning.

Find it yourself slowly, I hope my answer can help you...

Well, I'm supposed to be in the third year of junior high school, and I've been in love in the second year of junior high school

I don't think it's going to be fruitful if you don't have a child who grows up, and I'm studying hard now, so, hehe.

However, if you care about this kind of thing, you can try, but don't affect the mood, thank you for adopting.

It doesn't matter that the two can not be linked.

It can even promote each other and encourage each other!