How can I help my brother? Should I help my brother?

Before your brother comes to you tomorrow to go with you to go through the withdrawal procedures, try to talk to your brother first. Although your brother is in a rebellious period right now and may not be able to listen carefully, you still need to talk to him! After all, the situation in your family is not very good, if your brother does not study well and does not cherish this good time of studying, then in case your mother dies in the future, your brother will not be very good, and it will be too late to work hard.

It's not too late to rein in the precipice, many young people may not have an understanding of their reality, not to mention that your brother is just a child now, many things are not very clear, although he also sees the situation at home, but he may not have a deep feeling, as a big brother, you should also talk to him well, communicate with the attitude of one adult to another, although it may not be effective, but always try. Also, learning cross talk is not a bad thing, but when the famous Master Hou Baolin educated his children, he not only taught them cross talk, but also taught them how to survive, such as cooking (** There is a host of the food column on the TV station is Master Hou's grandson), the reason why this is necessary is because Master Hou thinks that those who speak cross talk may not be able to speak cross talk for a lifetime, if they have at least survival skills, then at least they will not run out of food in the future. Your brother may not choose to study, but he must be allowed to learn a trade.

Of course, I'm not saying that cross talk is not a craft that can survive, but unless your younger brother can one day achieve today's status through his unremitting efforts like Guo Degang, it is better to choose cross talk than to study. You can ask your brother, have you ever thought about the reason for learning cross talk? Is it a hobby or to support a family as soon as possible?

If it is to support his family, then if he learns cross talk but there is no troupe to take him in, what he has learned cannot be used, and he can't guarantee three meals, can he still persevere? If you can't do it to the end, or give up as soon as possible! On the contrary, if it is just an interest, you can persuade him to focus on reading and use his spare time to learn cross talk.

Studying hard does not mean that there is a way out.

I'm sorry, I don't know what to do.

I hope that one day your brother will understand your good intentions.

I really bless you.

Going to school is not the only way out.

You're a good brother, just do your best, it's good to go to school, it's the right way, isn't going to school to transfer money, isn't it the same to do business.

First of all, there is no obligation or requirement for this matter, it is a duty to help, and it is a duty not to help. There can be no moral kidnapping.

If you have to help, I think it, 2 big principles:

1. There is a difference between intimacy and intimacy.

I have a younger brother who is almost 30 years old and has been working all the time. Of course, it's not idle. It's his job, he works overtime every day, advances money every day, but he doesn't see the money back, and he can't even pay his salary ...... the epidemicI am also busy working overtime every day.

Although the family has doubts about the authenticity of his work. But after all, the family felt that it was unreliable to let him go free. In the end, a little uncle of a business leader in the family asked someone to find a contract worker, and he should still need to take the exam later, but this is the master who leads the door, and the practice depends on the individual.

It's mainly the little uncle, I really can't stand it. So this is the difference between intimacy and alienation, within the scope of one's ability, you can help. My younger brother, the iphone and computer that were eliminated from his little uncle's house are all his, so the family has always helped him.

It is said that a child in the aunt's family was later involved in fraud. The little uncle's family was stunned and felt that the child could not have a bottom, and his life would be over. So all sorts of dredging went.

The little uncle's family is a typical example, and he feels that he has great ability and responsibility. In big things, they usually help out.

2. Rescue the emergency but not the poor.

This is better understood, we will definitely help if there is a real difficulty, but I think you have money, I am poor, you should help my ......Forget it, if you help this kind of person, you can't get out of the way yourself.