In your eyes, what does a 30 year old man do that can be considered successful?

Having a stable job and income, starting a family, getting married, having children, being the breadwinner of the family, having a responsible husband, a loving father, a filial son, and a capable boss are enough to prove that he is very successful.

A 30-year-old man should be an executive in a company or have his own career and plan for the future. There is a certain economic foundation, stable and peaceful love and family affection. Have your own hobbies, such as liking to cook, etc. Have your own analysis and views on world affairs, and have a tolerant heart.

A 30-year-old man who has just faded away from the naivety and impulsiveness of a young man, but has not yet had the stability and composure of a middle-aged man, is thinking and wandering between the two. Then if he can have a stable job and a good income, he will already be very successful.

I think the success is that he has become proficient in socializing with all kinds of society, but he still has a simple friendship and inherent kindness to friends and lovers. Men who join the WTO but are not utilitarian are successful.

For me, success is to earn 500w at the age of thirty, starting from 0, I am still 499w away from 500w, I will work hard. ‍‍

If you don't have to be reminded what to do, you'll be successful, and you'll be able to stand alone against a wall! That's success. ‍‍

An average of between 5 and 6 hours of sleep per day can be considered successful. Pretty specific, right? The reason is best known to the people around the so-called successful people. ‍‍

A 30-year-old man is not required to have a car or a house, at least a stable job or a stable income, and the income cannot be too low. If you don't have a stable income, you must at least master a craft that can earn money to support your family, so as not to starve yourself and your family to death.

A 30-year-old man should have a warm and happy family, have good results in his career, and be able to treat people and things with a peaceful mind.

Doing your own career, having your own feelings, and being able to make decisions about your own life, this is success.

Know your dreams, know how to achieve them, not live a life as a gangster, be self-motivated, and have confidence and momentum for the future. ‍‍

Have a stable or predictable stable life and family, have a career or have a predictable career, and have healthy hobbies that you are passionate about. ‍‍

Men should focus on their careers, and I believe that careers are the foundation for all future developments.

The level of career achievement can directly reflect your career development, economic income, social status ......and other comprehensive conditions, to put it mildly, is whether this person has any potential and how well he mixes.

From a narrow point of view, a career is about how many long-term benefits can be obtained in a career, including the points listed above, a stable income, a planable development direction, or a certain social reputation, etc.

Careers can also be multi-dimensional, but we must distinguish priorities. Suppose there is a coffee shop owner, and he is also a well-known singer, then his main business should be how to continue to operate the coffee shop, and singing can continue to develop as his second career, the two can be unrelated, or related, but the coffee shop is his main business, it is not good to mess up the main and secondary, and people's energy is limited after all, and the main business is well run and then carry out other side businesses, this reason is quite easy to understand.

I am also just over 30 years old, and the last batch of post-80s generation. My mother has always advocated the theory of "starting a family", saying that a family and career will go smoothly, but I don't think so. My opinion is:

In this increasingly cruel society, people are becoming more and more realistic, if a man does not have a reliable career as a pillar, how can you support a family?

Only through continuous learning and evolution can we increase our competitiveness in grabbing resources in advance, which is the law of survival in today's society.

Women of every age like different things, and they look at things and people differently. When they were young, many Lu Nai girls liked good-looking men, and as their minds became cautious, women's thoughts and visions would change a lot.

Answer: Before the age of 30, you value a man's independence, courage to shoulder heavy burdens, and work hard to improve the character.

What I value most is: perseverance, perseverance, honesty and reliability.

No matter what age a man is, the most important character is kindness, simplicity, and sincerity.

Before the age of 30, a man's character, thinking and eloquence potential are valued.

Conventional thinking to bai

The pressure on myself is too much

As the old saying goes, zhi stands in thirty.

And in this social dao now, it is very difficult.

I am in my twenties after leaving school, and I have begun to understand society through answers, experienced difficulties and setbacks, and the pressure of starting a family.

When everything is a little bit clear, it has entered the age of thirty, and even many people are still in a state of inaction.

And the pressure of conventional thinking tells me that by the age of 30 I have to reach a height.

Personally, I believe that before the age of forty, or even forty-five, it is more in line with modern society to have a clear goal and a certain social status and economic foundation.

At the age of thirty, when you tell the state of cognitive society, you will find that you have different changes every year, and your views on things are becoming more and more mature, and with the growth of experience, your mind gradually matures and matures.

So don't push yourself to reach a certain height at the age of 30 or have psychological insecurity.

Thirty years old is the age of transition from youth to middle age, everything has not yet taken shape, but you must calm down, put away the mentality of playing, and be responsible for the family in the future, because the pressure will follow, the family, the wife and children, the parents, and the pillar of the family are you.

The Chinese say that 30 years old is the year of establishment, and we should move towards a stable attitude.

It depends on what you ask, and it has an impact on that aspect such as marriage, career, and family income.