Have you been hurt and no longer believe in how anyone should adjust themselves?

If you say that you don't trust anyone anymore, I think it should be that you haven't met someone who really loves you, and when you meet someone who really loves you, you will give up what you call it, believe it or not, so go with the flow until you meet the person you really love.

Make yourself strong enough not to give others the opportunity to hurt yourself, but this is not an opportunity for you to take the initiative to hurt others again, when is the time to repay the wrongs, it is worth complaining, but let you be a person with a normal heart and work hard to improve your ability, if he chooses to hurt you, it means that he is not enough to be your opponent.

The feeling of being deceived by others is indeed very angry and uncomfortable, but you can't get into the horns all of a sudden, which will only make you become withdrawn, and you know that surviving in society is not something that one person can do or you need to get along with others, and you will admit that you will not be looked down upon.

To maintain a good mentality, control your emotions, think carefully, there are always some difficulties in life that we need to face, this is just that we need to face various problems in life with a stable mind, and ask friends or relatives, teachers and classmates for some suggestions or methods for customer service problems, which always need to be faced by ourselves.

I think we still have to start by adjusting ourselves, because it's just one person who hurts yourself, and there is no need to lose all the friends around you for this one person, so I think everyone will be hurt in their lives, but it's not that they stay indifferent after being hurt, and no longer believe in other people, I believe that the world is still more beautiful.

First of all, I don't think I trust anyone, it's just that no one else is particularly good to you, because when you meet someone who is particularly good to you, you will naturally let go of the so-called disbelief, so you don't need to adjust anything, just go with the flow.

We still have to face the world with a positive attitude, we can't deny the world because we have been hurt by someone, there is still true truth, goodness and beauty in the world, and we still have to have expectations for life in this world.

We should forget about this past, it may be because of his hot-headedness that caused this mistake, if this is the reason, we should forgive, maintain our friendship, if not, we should cut off our relationship with him and start a new life for ourselves.

As I get older, I am much better now than I was before the hailstorm. After reflection, I came to the conclusion that the biggest mistake I have ever made has been to trust others too easily.

People in the world do not mean that everyone is bad, but they must always be vigilant, and they must not have the heart of harming others, and they must not have the heart of guarding against others.

People are separated from their bellies, each has a ghost, don't say everything you know, don't believe everything you see, this must be remembered.

Because they believed in the roadside beggars, they were given a few dollars to buy food; Because I believe in passing vehicles, I lend my mobile phone to call strangers; Because I think that person should be a good person, I have no scruples; Because I never doubted the people around me, I said everything. And many of these have become their own calamities. In fact, you didn't do anything wrong, the fault lies in what you believe, in fact, it is all ulterior motives.

Kindness can't be thrown, but life can't be too simple. Between people, it is nothing more than interests, even if you don't care about whether you want to fight for the sails or not, you are upright, it is difficult to avoid others coming to you to provoke you, so silence is golden.

There are too many cunning people, and if you want to survive in this complicated world, you must learn how to survive. It is not easy to be a human being, and it is even more difficult to be a good person, but you can't give up food because of choking, you still have to be a good person, but you must be selective. There is no absolute good or bad in the world, only people are different.

The honey of A, the arsenic of B. When you see people, you talk about people, and when you see ghosts, you talk nonsense.

For so long, I have been in a relatively simple world, so I haven't learned to be sleek. A straightforward person, this is what some people say about me, but he says that this evaluation is not good, a person who doesn't know how to turn, a person who has too obvious edges and corners, then others have to gnaw. So, don't explain yourself in the name of character, we have to learn to change ourselves.

Accept when you can't, change when you can't, and leave when you can't. I've found that the more stupid and crude I get, the more things I couldn't accept before, and now I'm slowly starting to accept them. Learn to understand, tolerate, and analyze, in fact, many things are not so difficult to understand.

Empathy, looking at things from someone else's point of view, rather than just your own, will make your life easier. Everyone has their own difficulties, don't embarrass others, but don't be bitter about yourself.

Time will test everything, and years will make people grow, this is absolutely true.

<>I have suffered a very serious emotional injury, there is no way, I can also think of some beautiful things by believing in other people's words, and there must be no misunderstanding after two people are together, and don't put the previous relationship into this relationship. Since two people have chosen to be together, they must treat each other in the most sincere way and never hide anything from each other. Don't attribute the mistakes of the previous party to this side, so that each other can better choose to be together.

If two people like to be together, they must continue this method, don't let there be misunderstandings between two people, and don't let two people always quarrel. Some girls have a hard time believing others after being hurt emotionally, so at this time they must learn to adjust their emotions and not let their emotions affect the people who are with them.

Some girls will always feel afraid of losing when they choose to be with others after being injured, so at this time, they must adjust their emotions appropriately, talk to each other well, tell each other their psychological thoughts, and don't let the other party guess. Some girls always like to let each other guess what they think in their hearts, and they will be very tired and don't want to guess. If two people choose to be together, they must be responsible for each other, two people must learn to communicate well, and two people must be together well, so that the thoughts of two people will also have a certain affirmation.

If two people really can't be together, if there is no way to make up for the damage in each other's hearts, they must choose to let go appropriately. If you feel that you can't face each other in a good state, you must tell each other what you think, so that each other can know what is in your heart. Don't impose the hurt you have suffered on others, it will make them feel very sad.

You should change your mentality, and then trust others again, and then trust others while protecting yourself, and you should observe whether the other party is really good to you.

You should correct your mentality, you should make yourself more cheerful, you should still believe in love, and you should also find someone who is more worthy of your liking.

I don't think you should think of all people as particularly bad, and when you trust others, you must first understand them.

We always say that to be a human being is to be magnanimous, and to forgive others is to forgive yourself.

As everyone knows, there are too many things in this world that we can let go, but it doesn't mean that we can forget. There are also too many people who we can forgive, but no longer trust.

It's just because of him that he has hurt you.

Recently, Ming Yiyue received a very special letter, in which Mr. Q told him about what happened to him in the workplace. Colleagues who have been getting along for many years, once like buddies, 1 year ago because of the promotion, the two had a competition, Mr. Q, who had a great advantage, because he listened to his colleagues, "This supervisor position must be yours, let's have a drink in advance in the evening, when I celebrate for you." In fact, Mr. Q can't drink, he gets drunk when he drinks, and his colleagues also know it, but the other party is very gracious, and he pulls him to drink, until the next day Mr. Q is drunk and unconscious, and at the critical moment of the competition, because of being late and drinking, he lost his position as a supervisor, and the person who got this position happened to be the colleague who invited him to drink.

Mr. Q said, "I also suspected that he had a heart, but he was obviously very enthusiastic, and later he was promoted, and he also gave me a few big customers, so I didn't think badly and believed him." However, what he didn't expect was that not long ago, this colleague hurt himself again.

In order to cover up his mistakes, he cried and begged Mr. Q to "help me block it, just say that you came up with this idea, and when the boss is angry, I will give you a few more big customers......Mr. Q was still wondering whether to help with the bag, but he didn't expect that the other party was just informing him, and he had already reported these mistakes to his boss, and the boss's favor towards Mr. Q was instantly lost, and he even talked to him, "If you continue like this, I see that you are not far from leaving!" This time, Mr. Q let his colleague frame him "without a complete body", and he didn't understand: I treat him wholeheartedly, how can he do this to me?

Can such a person forgive him again?

The person who hurts us, if easily forgiven, will not know how deep his mistakes are.

Because what he has lost is a heart that he once trusted.

Of course, you can't fall on the same person twice, people are more emotional creatures, and once they are hurt, they will definitely feel uncomfortable, and of course they won't trust anymore.

You are the one who has been hurt, maybe you have been betrayed, maybe you have been abandoned, you have experienced failure, maybe you hate others why you hurt yourself, why do you hate yourself for hurting me, will you trust others after doubting? Do you still believe in yourself after doubting? Do you want to ask yourself if you can still believe in yourself, follow your heart, believe in others, believe in the world, and there are people you can trust?

Maybe the person who hurts you is very evil, if you think that the whole world of people other than the person who hurt you is malicious and suspicious, then I think if you do that, your whole world will become gray, you will become unhappy, and others will also guard themselves against telling themselves not to believe others and telling themselves not to believe in themselves, the hatred and sorrow that you will live every day.

You haven't been hurt yet, that's good, I hope you keep going like this, maybe you haven't been hurt, because, you know a lot of truths, and you're used to seeing the hypocrisy and hypocrisy between people, you may often be relatively high, you may be protected by others very well, please keep believing it, because the person who protects you very well, I hope that your world will always be full of sunshine, and you have always been smiling like a flower.

People who have been hurt will still believe in others, but if they are hurt by feelings, they will basically not believe in love, and there will be some shadows.

Among the people I know, there is a person named Xiaomei, she is a kind and innocent girl, but she is also a confused girl, so many times she doesn't know what she really wants, especially emotionally, she is really confused. After graduating, Xiaomei directly found a local job, and a colleague in one unit began to pursue her from her first day on the job. A girl like Xiaomei is relatively simple, and she can't help the crazy pursuit and hard bubbles of this male colleague, and finally chooses to be together.

It's just that everyone didn't expect this man to be a scumbag, although the salary is not low, but he still can't make ends meet, the most important thing is that he is still eating, drinking, and having fun, of course, the most incredible thing is to spend women's money and have a bad attitude. Xiaomei originally planned to marry him, after all, Xiaomei's most precious thing was given to him, but he was really too uncompetitive and unmotivated. Xiaomei had no choice, and finally broke up with him under the persuasion of family and friends.

Of course, this man is still soft and hard, this time Xiaomei is very resolute and doesn't pay attention to him anymore, but she doesn't want to believe in love anymore, and she always feels a little cold about the friendliness and help of others, maybe it's really hard for a person who has been hurt to trust others anymore. Later, I also asked Xiaomei separately, if there are still people pursuing you in the future, will you accept it? Xiaomei said lightly, "I will accept it, but it will take time, and it needs to be tested, and I will test the other party."

This is the person who has been hurt, and may still believe in others, but not in love.

Yes, although it is said that once a snake bite for ten years is afraid of the well rope, but people are different, sometimes a pit will fall into it twice.

I was once framed by a classmate for stealing money, although the problem was solved in the end, it was all a misunderstanding, but it still caused me harm, although I will continue to believe in others, but I must choose to believe him after a long time together.

Yes, although I have been hurt, I still won't easily lose my trust in people.