Talking about feelings hurts money! The money lent out is affection, but what is it that is returned

If the other party can return the money to him on time, it means that the impression he left on himself is very good, and he can also trust him more.

When it comes to feelings and hurt money, I personally think that if the money is lent out, then what is taken back is friendship, because if we lend out the money, then we will definitely be able to gain some trust from other people.

What is lent out is the feelings, and what is taken back may be disappointment, and sometimes the money lent out kindly will not only not get the gratitude of the other party, but will eventually hurt the feelings between each other.

What is taken back is the real friendship, and if the money is lent out and can be recovered, it means that the two people are true feelings and can work together in the future.

I think it's because talking about feelings hurts money that will cause many people to be reluctant to talk about feelings with people in life.

In real life, we always say "talking about money hurts feelings", trying to make ourselves pay less money in this way. Although everyone always likes to say this, the truth is always the opposite, it is precisely because it hurts too much money to talk about feelings that everyone is unwilling to talk about feelings in life.

Talking about feelings really hurts money, and it's really hard for everyone to make money. I once helped a friend, and I agreed on the price and working hours. But when it came time to work, it wasn't like that, every day he extended his time intentionally or unintentionally, and I didn't say anything out of friendship.

But the people I worked with were not happy and went directly to him to ask for money. Because he is a friend with him, he always says "it hurts my feelings to mention money". But I care about this, some people don't care about this, people just say:

Don't mention any feelings or feelings, it's not easy for everyone to eat, I'll do it if I can get along, and forget it if I don't get along. “

The two of them had a lot of conflicts because of this, of course I was willing to add money, but I was embarrassed to take the initiative to mention it. From that time on, I never helped my friend, even if I said the price, I was afraid that he would say "talking about money hurts feelings" at the end.

In real life, it is really not easy for every ordinary person to make money, and I can understand that it is not easy for him to make money, but he tries to save money through the friendship between us. I think this is going to sour, and the two of us haven't had very much contact since that time to help him.

I don't want to get along with such people because I'm afraid of losing too much in life. People who always say "talking about money hurts feelings" always want to take advantage of you in life, which has to be said to be quite an ironic thing.

Talk about feelings when it's time to talk about feelings, and talk about money when it's time to talk about money, so that you won't suffer too much loss in life.

Among friends, talking about money hurts feelings; Between lovers, talking about feelings hurts money. Feelings, money, it's so realistic, and no one can avoid it.

So, everyone was hurting while talking. Calculate the gains and losses. If feelings and money were interchangeable. Then I think, you and I are probably worthless.

Talking about money hurts feelings, it really hurts ......Whether it is between friends, lovers, husbands and wives or even fathers and sons, once money is talked about, it is inevitable that there will be embarrassment, disputes, and resentment.

The relationship between people has become so sensitive, fragile, and vulnerable to ...... because of this thin layer of paper

I chatted with a netizen a while ago, and I heard her say that she had some misunderstandings with others about money recently, which really made me angry.

The netizen's mother was sick and urgently needed a sum of money, and the amount was not large, so the netizen proposed to turn over the money with the friends who usually care about her, but I didn't expect a few friends to reply that it was:

1. Don't answer it directly.

2. Do you fancy my money?

3. Is it worth making such a friend? Can you still get along?

No matter where you go, you can hear many times: "Don't mention money to me, how hurtful it hurts!" "Talking about money hurts feelings", this sentence has been with us for a long, long time, talking about money between friends hurts the righteousness of buddies; Talking about money between lovers seems to be a desecration of the sanctity of feelings.

However, as society becomes more and more progressive, people's thinking is also undergoing corresponding changes, especially the view of money is not much the same as in the past, so it is not surprising that some people scoff at the phrase "talking about money hurts feelings".

It's best not to have any money entanglements with your friends. Money means different things to everyone, maybe you don't care, but maybe people do? And because it's hard to say anything on the surface, you can only tie the knot in private, so why bother, I don't know how many friends in the world turn their faces for money every day!

So I rarely have money dealings with my friends, maybe everyone adheres to the principle of "talking about money hurts feelings". For example, if everyone eats together, etc., it is generally you invite this meal, and it is natural for him to invite the next meal, which belongs to the exchange of courtesy, and it has always been like this.

Occasionally, some friends can't borrow money from each other, and they will pay it back as soon as they turn around, but to be honest, if I don't pay it back, I'm really embarrassed to ask for it. If you open your mouth to ask for it, people will think that you don't regard him as a friend at all, and it will hurt each other's harmony.

Love can't talk about money, two people love each other, they don't distinguish each other, who spends a little more and spends a little less, what does it matter? If two people quarrel every day for some money, it would be a lie to say that they don't hurt their feelings.

I think that the premarital property notarization that is implemented now is a distrust of mutual love, and besides, if you think about divorce before you get married, can this be considered love?

Friends are like a bottle of mineral water, plain with a hint of sweetness, plain but indispensable, I think, friends talk about money is hurtful, friends and friends should talk about love and righteousness. Hehe, a little incoherent, nagging.

Money is a very real problem, you should be studying at a glance, still in school, not through the baptism of society, so you can't experience the hardships of life, not everyone can be content with poverty, people have desires, but the bottom line of everyone's desires is different... So to talk about money is to talk about reality, and the person who says this is escaping from reality, so there is no need to find out who said it.

When a friend borrows money from you, you'll understand why talking about money hurts feelings. You can see why talking about feelings hurts money... There are some things that can only be understood but not spoken. Take care, brother!!

Real feelings have nothing to do with money, rich and poor people should have some gaps in feelings, but in the face of people who are in love, people are the same, courage, and purpose are the same, the only difference is that you deal with a gentleman or a villain.

You're wrong, feelings are a very money-hurting thing, as long as you talk about it, it's better, what is the purpose of part-time work? Earn money, or find a wife? Think clearly!

People often say that for the sake of money, the family can turn their faces, and if you want to not hurt your feelings, don't always talk about money, just understand it in your heart. What does the world want now, you don't know, there is no money like that, do you think this world has free feelings and lunch? Feelings can't be used as food, can't be used as card swipe, and can't be used as RMB, if you can, you don't have to do anything to talk about love that day.

Talking about feelings doesn't have to hurt money....That's up to the woman....And most of the current men, especially college students, have walked into the misunderstanding, thinking that they have to buy a lot of things, and then they have to play a lot of **, which is also a place to spend money.

Not necessarily, the key is to see if the other party really likes you, if you really like you, you will not be asked to spend money on him, but let you buy more good ones for yourself.

"Talking about money hurts feelings, talking about feelings hurts money", I believe many people have heard this sentence, so where does it come from, there must be a certain truth to be known.

This is a material world, you can do a lot of things with money, and you can't move an inch without money, this is so realistic for this world. For the sake of money, not to mention friends, many couples and brothers will turn against each other, not only in modern times, since ancient times there is a saying that "there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests", so is money really worth being so valued? In my opinion, it shouldn't be.

What is the difference between humans and other animals? I think it lies in the spirit, and it is precisely because of the detachment from animals that man has his own mind that he can no longer be governed by his desires. Compared to the instinctive behavior of animals that hunt when they are hungry and mate during the breeding season, the human mind can control itself and have its own spiritual realm, so what is the difference between people who abandon their friends and relatives in order to satisfy their material desires and animals?

If it's just for the money, it's better to talk about nothing.

Of course, money is the foundation of modern social survival, and it must be talked about, but it should not be linked to feelings, and we should not label our friends and relatives as **. Friends should be gentlemen's friends, real friends will not ask you to borrow money when you are living in poverty, and will not be willing to lend you money when you are rich, this kind of friends are worthy of treating each other sincerely, the same is true between relatives, the connected blood can not be measured by money, and the two people who love each other should be even more so, since two people can love each other, they should not distinguish each other, how can they use money to measure love.

To do this, it is necessary for people to understand each other, and it may be a difficult thing to do, but it will be realized one day. When people can understand each other, there will be no more disputes, and the world will be a better place if they can treat each other with sincerity.

For women, there is money to be made by talking about feelings.

It's people who have no money and no love who are making excuses for themselves.

Nowadays people are afraid:

Borrowing money while standing, asking for debt on his knees.

Money, when lent out, is affection, and when it is taken back, it is an enemy!

In these years, when you are short of money, what is the hardest?

Borrowing money is the hardest! The person who is willing to lend you money must be your nobleman;

Nowadays, there are not many such nobles, and when they meet, they must be cherished for a lifetime.

The person who helps you has only one purpose, and that is to hope that you can live a better life!!

Cherish the person who is willing to spend money on you, whether this person is a relative, a lover, a blushing face, or a friend, because money is not enough for anyone......

The person who is willing to spend money on you is not because he has a lot of money, nor because he is stupid, but because at that moment he thinks you are more important than money......

There are not many friends, but you are walking through the wind and rain.

No matter how long the love is, the emphasis is on responding to requests, the so-called true love:

As long as you want, as long as I have;

As long as you need it, as long as I can serve you.

The so-called righteousness: not the rhetoric when you are proud, but the hand that pulls you at the critical moment!

Don't show off your money, it's just waste paper when you're dead;

Don't show off your room, you go, that's someone else's nest;

Don't show off your car, you leave and the car keys are in someone else's hands!

Money can never be earned, but life is limited, you can earn money desperately, but you can't earn your life if you work hard!

The biggest mistake in life is to trade health for something outside the body.

Nothing beats a good body!

In this life: someone is willing to spend money on you, that is called happiness, you must be content!

Someone is willing to lend you money, that's called funding, don't forget!

The money that you can earn,

Money and feelings are not completely opposites, only valuing money will fall into the eyes of money, only valuing feelings, such feelings are very cheap.

It is said that talking about money hurts feelings, but all aspects of daily life need to be spent. And when it's time to talk about feelings, you care about money, which will also make people feel like a miser.

To be honest, this sentence is the truth, but this sentence appears more often between brothers, sisters, friends, and husband and wife, feelings are very important, everyone cherishes them, but money is also very important, everyone cherishes them more, and you can't have both.

Feelings and money are one and the same in many cases.

As a layman living in the city, I have always disliked to talk about feelings with people, the reason is very simple, I am also afraid of hurting money, I go to the small restaurant downstairs to eat, and occasionally chat with the boss, but it will never rise to the point of calling brothers and brothers, because I am afraid of hurting money, for example, the relationship is good, and the fraction of the meal is naturally wiped off, otherwise where will the boss put his face, but the boss is really willing to wipe this fraction? In the final analysis, it hurts the boss's money and hurts the boss's feelings; Or, I don't want to go to a restaurant to eat today, go somewhere else, and then come back a few days later, and the boss asks, "I haven't been here for a few days", how embarrassed and sad I feel.

People like to say, "Talking about money hurts feelings, and talking about feelings hurts money." ”

But in fact, the feelings that hurt when you talk about money are not real feelings, and a strong relationship should stand the test of money.

In a man's attitude towards your money, you can also see whether he really wants to live with you for the rest of his life.

Maybe he is frugal and saves his salary just to give you a lipstick and make you smile, and with such a generous man to himself, even if he lives a poor life, he will be happy every day; If he is with you, he is always careful, and every money he spends when he goes out is recorded in the account with you; As soon as you mention the money, he immediately starts crying poor, like an iron rooster who never pulls out a hair. Will you be happy if you marry such a man?