What does the saying doors and doors will hurt people, and walls and walls will suffer ?

In the past, the houses built in the countryside were basically built according to the topography and terrain. There are many rural areas that do not have a unified plan, and there are many situations where the doors are opposite each other and the courtyard walls are next to each other. So what does the rural saying "the door will hurt people, and the walls will suffer if they are built together"?

How to understand?

In the past, in our village, there were many neighbors who were relative to each other, and there were often conflicts between the two neighbors because of the running water and stacking of items in front of the door. I remember that there are two families in our village who are uncles and brothers, although they are not brothers.

But it's also a member of the family, and the relationship should be very close. However, because of the dirty water at the door, this one dislikes the other house because the water is too close to their own house, which stinks in summer and is easy to freeze in winter. In addition, the neighbor has a lot of firewood and grass, which is piled up at the door, occupying a certain amount of road, which makes it inconvenient for another family to enter and exit.

The two families did not give in to each other, and the adults in charge of the family did not negotiate well, and the two families not only had no family contacts. Instead, he became an enemy, and in the end he actually made a move. There is a boy in the family who injured the other family, was arrested by the police station and detained for half a month, and he has to compensate for economic losses.

The walls of the neighbors are bound to suffer, which means that the neighbors' adjacent walls should not be too close to each other or built together, and it is better to leave a certain amount of space, which will inevitably suffer. Because in the past, when houses were built in rural areas, they were all next to each other, and the courtyard wall was often a courtyard wall where the individual was an individual. If it is too close and there is not enough space in the middle, then due to different terrain, sometimes because of the sinking of the foundation or the erosion of too much rain, or the poor strength of the neighbor's courtyard wall, etc., it is often the wall of this house that collapses, and it will directly knock down the courtyard wall of another house.

Now the new countryside is being built.

The village has carried out a unified planning, basically sitting in the north and facing south, there is no door to sit opposite each other, and the courtyard wall between the two families has also appeared that the two families share a courtyard wall, so that the two families have to care for and protect the courtyard wall, and the neighbors have become harmonious.

It means that if two families face each other, there will be conflicts, and if the walls are piled together, it may cause both families to suffer. Because then there will be dirty stuff.

It means that the houses of the two families cannot be too close to each other, and the walls of the two families cannot be leaning against one wall, otherwise, it will definitely hurt the relationship, just like people should give each other a certain amount of space when they get along with each other, and they can't be forced too tightly, otherwise there will definitely be contradictions.

It's just that if the neighbors are door-to-door, there will definitely be problems because of the size of the aisle, and if the neighbors are building a wall with each other, then it proves that the relationship between the two neighbors is not good.

Walls, walls, and people suffer.

Door to door, must **.

This sentence means that the door of one's own house and the door of the neighbor's house should not be directly opposed, otherwise it may lead to family members**. There is a lot of exaggeration and superstition in this sentence, and it sounds scary.

For some common sayings, we must understand correctly, it contains some of the life experience of the predecessors, but there may also be exaggeration, superstition and false rumors, we must learn to take the truth from the false, not only to learn from experience, but also not to be misled by the dross contained in it.

It means that the two are the same as each other, there must be a person**, there is a person over, if it is a fairy fight, then it will affect the fish pond, this is the meaning.

As the saying goes, "on the wall, people suffer, door to door, must **" means that the construction of the house is exquisite, that is, the wall can not be connected to another wall, and it is easy to have potential safety hazards. It can't be directly opposite the door of the neighbor's house, and it is said to be unlucky.

It means that when building a house, if you add more walls, people will suffer, and if the gate you build is directly opposite the door of another house, it will also bring bad consequences.

The entrance should not be directly facing the bedroom door, which is unlucky, and some unfortunate things may happen to the people who live inside, so be more careful when making the house.

There are many common sayings in China that are very reasonable, the wall wall says that the old house is built on top of the old house, and then the wall is built, which is unsafe and unstrong, and it will easily collapse. Door to door said between the two households, don't leave the door to the door, think about it, the gate in the past is very simple, if the door to the door, you have no intention of saying anything bad to the door neighbor at home, after being heard, it will cause a big conflict.

The wall is said that if you build another wall on top of the wall that has already been built, it will cause the family to suffer. Door to door, the literal meaning of the sentence must ** is that the door of your own house and the door of your neighbor's house should not be directly opposite, otherwise it may lead to family **.

"On the wall" here has two meanings, the first is to add another layer of wall to the perimeter of the wallBecause in ancient times, due to the limitations of various conditions, the quality of the houses built by people at that time was also relatively poor, usually made of adobe and stone, and the adhesives used in the past were basically mud, so compared with the current houses, the quality can be said to be very poorTherefore, if you want to add another wall to the wall, then it is easy to become a dangerous building, and there is a great safety hazard for people to live in it, so this is very bad.

The second meaning is to build a house directly up, because some people want to rebuild the house, so naturally they are reluctant to re-lay the foundation, because the cost of laying the foundation is relatively high, and they want to rebuild it in this way, but they must know that the bearing capacity of the foundation is limitedHow deep the foundation is often only how high the house can be built, once it exceeds the boundary, then it will undoubtedly lead to potential safety hazards in the house, once it is windy and rainy, it is often very dangerous, so the house should pay attention to the foundation when building.

Door-to-door" The ancestors thought that whether it was the bedroom door at home, or the door between oneself and the neighbor opposite, it was best not to face each otherBecause from the perspective of feng shui, it is very bad, for example, if you are facing the opposite neighbor, the other party's wealth is stronger than yours, it will suck you away, and if the other party's life is harder, it will be restrained to you, which can be said to be very badTherefore, when people build houses, they often choose to stagger each other, and even if they can't do it, they will put a mirror on the door to block each other's evil spirits.

However, if you usually put a mirror on the door, there will undoubtedly be trouble, because the neighbor on the opposite side will also follow suit, so it is easy to have a verbal disputeTherefore, it is best to choose to stagger it, otherwise it will undoubtedly cause a lot of problems and affect the harmony of the neighbors.

This proverb describes the characteristics of rural dwellings, and warns future generations not to build their own doors against other people's doors when building houses, and not to build high-rise buildings outside the scope of the foundation。For the sayings, I believe that everyone can often hear them in daily life, don't underestimate the sayings, it is not only the excellent culture of our country, but also the short it has profound knowledge. What is certain is that the proverb is the essence of Chinese culture and the crystallization of the wisdom of working people for thousands of years.

01. The door is bound to hurt people Literally, this sentence means that the rural gate will inevitably produce contradictions, thus hurting each other. You must know that this proverb did not arise for no reason, it is precisely because the residents of the countryside often quarrel over the problem of the house. If we look closely at the buildings in the countryside, we can see that the distance between the houses is basically more than one meter, and the purpose of this is to make the house "door to door".

There is no doubt that everyone wants to build their own house as big as possible, but remember not to go door-to-door with someone else's house.

02. Walls and walls will suffer No matter what material in the world has a certain lifespan, the same is true for the house we live in. For rural houses, most of them are built by the locals themselves, but ordinary people lack certain professional knowledge in building houses, and often add floors beyond the bearing range of the house foundation. Although this practice expands the size of the house, it also puts a lot of pressure on the foundation and walls, which makes the house easy to collapse.

From this, it can be seen that the proverb is not a language full of cheesiness, but a life experience full of wisdom. For the proverb, we must not only respect it, but also know how to protect and inherit it。There is no doubt that there must be wrong thoughts in the proverbs, and for the inheritance of proverbs, we must face them with the attitude of "removing the bad and taking the essence".

As the saying goes: The door will hurt people, and the walls will suffer from each other, what does it mean? The exquisiteness of building a house.

It is that the gate of the two families is facing each other, and sooner or later there will be friction because of some trivial things, and the previous foundation is very shallow, and it may collapse if it is covered again.

That is to say, neighbors should not face each other, otherwise it will be unlucky. Also, the distance between the walls should not be too close, otherwise it will be unlucky.

Many people like to pile up some household utensils and other sundries at the door or on the side of the road, and even firewood. In this case, there will be some contradictions between the two families, and the wall may lead to the change of the load-bearing wall, which will make the foundation unstable and sinking, and even cause the wall to crack, which will bring certain safety hazards to people's residences.

As the saying goes, "Door to door hurts, walls and walls suffer", I think it is the wisdom of the ancients. Although the content of this sentence is no longer practical, it can be extended to other philosophies。The literal meaning of this phrase is that the construction of door-to-door is to destroy Feng Shui, and if the wall is built against the wall, it will collapse.

Extending here, it is necessary to know how to avoid risks, pay attention to the privacy of the other party, and at the same time have a view of the overall situation.

In the past, there were mud houses in the countryside, but when building houses, there was a lot of special attention. The previous sentence "door-to-door hurts" actually means that when choosing to build a house, you must avoid door-to-door situations, which will destroy the feng shui of the two families. So be sure to avoid door-to-door, it is likely that there will be quarrels between the two families.

In fact, the deeper meaning is that door-to-door will make the two families have no privacy, and what they are doing at home, the neighbors can see. So it will make people feel awkward and uncomfortable. After a long time, you will feel aggrieved and uncomfortable, and eventually conflicts between neighbors will erupt.

So there is a saying that "door-to-door hurts".

And the second half of the sentence "the wall is in trouble" means that if the wall is built on the wall, it is very dangerous, and if the earthen house is damaged, the wall must be repaired continuously. In fact, this is very dangerous, because the foundation of the wall is not stable, and it can be dangerous in the case of high pressure.

These two sentences are ostensibly talking about some superstitious things, but in fact, they contain a lot of truth. For example, the latter sentence is not only used on the wall, but also in life. If a person's foundation is unstable, no matter how much decoration he makes, no matter how many false things he has, then this person will not have a good development.

Whether it is a house or a person, the foundation must be stable, only when the foundation is stable, planting or stacking anything on it will be more stable. Although there are few earthen houses now, this principle and philosophy of life is worthy of continuous comprehension by future generations.

Door-to-door hurts people, this is really not the superstition it says, and there are some scientific truths, because some natural phenomena such as air convection formed by door-to-door have been confirmed in our current science that they are not good for people.

The so-called "door-to-door" can actually be extended to understand "avoiding suspicion": don't give people the suspicion that they know the other party's privacy, so as not to hurt and anger; The term "wall" can be understood as having the big picture: don't just think about how to make the wall higher and higher, and ignore the basics.

There is a certain reason, the former is very bad if the things in the house are known by others, especially when quarreling, and the latter is prone to danger if you don't grasp the quality when building a house and building a wall.

In the past, Feng Shui masters explained that "door to door" destroys Feng Shui because this layout is called "Tooth Gritting Gate", which means moving qi, and moving qi means hurting and qi, which can cause fights and quarrels. Sometimes, when the house is being renovated, the walls are constantly being heightened. This is the so-called "walled wall".

Some walls belong to the earthen wall, the quality of the earthen wall itself is relatively fragile, in the process of "phase barrier", the wall at the base, is likely to collapse because it cannot bear the newly increased high pressure, and eventually cause an accident.

I think it's the wisdom of the ancients, generally door-to-door, both sides will be more embarrassed, go out and look up, and it's easier to know the daily trivial things of both sides, and it's easy to get hurt.