I was unemployed, and my husband treated me badly, saying that he was annoyed to see me

I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this problem My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you say that you are unemployed, and your husband treats you very badly, and says that he is annoyed when he sees you, and when I see your description of this problem, I see what you said, and I think that you must be very helpless, lonely, and very aggrieved now, because unemployment is not your business, and I think you can now be calm with your husband and play it with peace of mind Tell me that in fact, your feelings in your heart are also very uncomfortable, very aggrieved, because in the most difficult time, you want the people closest to you to be able to help you a lot, a lot to comfort you, I believe that after you finish talking to your husband like this, it may be better, if your husband is still like this to you, I think you have to think about it again.

Sorry to hear that you are out of work, this must be a very difficult and uncertain time. At the same time, your husband's attitude also makes you feel hurt. Here are some suggestions to hopefully help you cope with this situation:

1.Stay calm and sane: Even though you may feel very frustrated and disappointed, try to stay as calm and sane as possible. An emotional reaction can make you feel more frustrated, so think and deal with this calmly.

2.Look for a job: Even though you have lost your current job, don't give up looking for a new job opportunity.

Try to find the right job through a variety of avenues, including friends, networking, hiring**, etc. At the same time, you can use this time to improve your skills and experience, and increase your competitiveness in finding a job.

3.Communicate with your husband: If you feel that your relationship with your husband has become strained or bad, try to communicate openly with him.

4.Seek support: If you are feeling very distressed or unable to deal with this issue, do not hesitate to seek outside support and help. Talk to a family member, friend or professional counsellor about your feelings and needs, who can give you some substantive advice and support.

The most important thing is to remember that unemployment is only a temporary difficulty, and do not give up hope and effort. At the same time, you should also believe in your own value and ability, and believe that you can overcome this difficulty.

Dear, does your husband's attitude towards you depend on your work?

If this is the case, first, if you love your husband very much, it is recommended that you quickly find a way to find a good job;

Second, be separated from your husband for a while, I know it's a bit ugly, but if you think about it, your husband doesn't love you as much as you think;

Third, talk to your husband or think of other ways to see what is the reason why he annoys you, maybe it is not because you are unemployed but for other reasons.

Fourth, find a friend or family member around him to tell him what's on his mind, and it's best to let him know!

Good luck and get a good job soon!

Although there will be quarrels to be honest, the long-term pain is better than the short-term pain, because your partner will know about your job change sooner or later.

Everyone's ability is limited, people with high ability may earn more money, and people with low ability may make less money, so there is no need for your partner to quarrel with you because you earn less, your family has a partner and he earns more money.

I think you should be brave enough to tell your husband and discuss it together to find a good solution.

Just sit down for a while and think about why it's annoying and how to solve it. Remember the saying: "The life you loathe, many times is envied and pursued by many".

First of all, find out the reason why you are annoyed when you see your husband, and you can find a solution if you find the reason.

Love is the most insecure thing in the world, but all of us are looking for security in it.

Let go of those proud self-esteem, let go of all unnecessary worries, and there will not be so many barriers between us. Open our hearts and accept each other completely, and give our true selves to each other, and our love will reach another level. Don't always look for reasons for your own faults, be selfish, never be able to cleanse your soul, and never reach the noblest realm of love.

If you have love, you should cherish it, just like cherish your left hand and right hand, wear gloves when it's cold, wash away your troubles when it's hot, once you take love as your own thing, you won't lose it again, you will shrink your hand if it's too hot and cold, you will wipe your hands if it's too dirty and oily, and you will bandage it when you puncture and scratch, because you know the instinctive cherishing and care. It's not love that loses love easily, if it's really love, you will never be able to adapt to the future.

Normal, everyone has this time.

Think about the ups and downs you've been through together.

I don't know if you've seen a little story, it's similar to your situation, but the man is very careful and doesn't tell the woman about the pressure of unemployment, but bears it alone. "Go to work" on time, "get off work" on time, go to work. One day, when the woman sent the man on the bus again, she found that he was doing the bus in the opposite direction, and the woman knew the secret of the man's unemployment.

But the woman didn't tell the secret that both men knew. The man found a job on a construction site, and every day he had to suck in a lot of cement ash, and after work, he would wash himself at the construction site as before going home. The woman knows that she will cook a few dishes with fungus for the man to eat every day, and at the same time ask her friends to help keep an eye on whether there is a suitable job.

Finally, with the help of his friends, the man finally found a better job... The ending is perfect, and it's a story after all. I think the most important thing for a career man is self-esteem, whether he is needed as before, and whether he can't find a suitable job.

Don't talk about money at home, don't ask too much about his work, if you want to know, just ask softly if it's easy to find a job? Don't talk about how your job is; Use some things to guide him, so that he feels that although he can't earn money, other aspects of the family need him as well, and his wife also needs him; Let him rest more, don't blow him to find a job, and when he comes back, help him beat his back, prepare a hot bath, and cook some good dishes, because it is more difficult and stressful for men to find a job than work; It's hard to find a job, but you can find it slowly, as long as you work hard.

I don't know if it can help you after saying so much, I hope you can step through this little bend of life as soon as possible and live happily!

Is communication a good idea? A man's self-esteem is very strong and he can't afford to hurt it! In his temporary leisure time, communicate with him more and give him more help in life!

Tell him he can do it! You believe in Him! (It's pure advice, it may not help you, but I wish you happiness!) ）

The east is not bright, the west is bright, and Seong is not blessed.

Having a mouth, having a brain, and communicating is the most basic way.

Communication is still the most important thing, let him know what you think, encourage him a lot, etc

Four sentences, he thinks too much, you think too much, it's over.

It is normal to be unemployed, mainly because of adjusting your mentality to face the future.

Are you a powerful person?

Men feel this way, and the key is to see how you are.