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Communicate with him, let him stop playing, let him pay more for the family, give him some pressure, and then encourage him and give him some motivation, so that you can control him.
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You have to improve your charm, master his heart, master his wallet, find other hobbies to divert his attention, you can put some pressure on him, and you can also let his parents take care of him.
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Restrain the other party's behavior, you can play more wildly than him, control the other party's money into your own hands, have a sense of separation from the other party, and improve your own ability, so that you can control the other party.
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has a very playful husband, what methods can be used to control him? It's what you're used to. The head of the family doesn't care about the good, healthy and stable development of the family, you are working hard to maintain the family, do you think you have the ability?
You should all calm down and have a good chat, be clear about the topic, and don't talk about trivial old accounts, which will only get worse and worse. The past can not be mentioned, but the future life must be planned, the shortcomings of both parties must be corrected, and both people must have the confidence to restart a better future life.
For example, the direction of the future development of this home, setting short, medium and long-term goals, and what to accomplish in a year...What are you going to do in two years....What kind of transcript should be submitted in three years, etc. If you don't even have the opportunity to sit down and talk, then I advise you to drop everything and leave for a while. Calm each other down and think about your emotional issues.
During this period of thinking, if the other person has not changed or changed, he is determined to start over...Then there's no need to go on.
The child may not be so hurt in this regard, in fact, he can also fulfill the responsibility of his parents, so that the harm to the child is smaller. Maybe the damage from your endless quarrels will come even deeper!
Life is short for a few decades, and there is no way to seek all grievances, only more painful waiting. If I really can't get by...Then you have to cut through the mess quickly, dragging mud and water until the end is seriously injured, and children are no exception. Then it's harder to get out.
If you don't have common interests and hobbies, your living habits are different, but you can cultivate and run in. If you can't cultivate, don't force it, life is just a few decades, it's not easy, on the premise of not affecting and hurting others, whoever wants to live can do it. Don't try to transform your husband, that's thankless, it's better to change yourself.
Another point, you said carefully, I also quarreled for a few days, and it didn't work after a few days. Life is not easy, and when a woman is in front of her husband, she should not think of herself as a teacher or a warrior.
Life is hard, but try to live every day happily! May you get out of this situation soon!
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First of all, you need to understand the game your husband plays, he is so addicted to the game that it is estimated that there is already a wife, or there is a big organization of the family or something to attract him, my husband and I play online games, usually hang voice chat, while playing a chat again, to be honest, I am more addicted to games than my husband, I personally recommend that you also learn to play, reduce his game.
Why do you want to be a full-time wife, so that your own feminine charm will no longer exist, and it will be smoothed out by life.
After a man gets married, he will leave home, and sometimes the expression of a woman is different, you don't tie him too tightly but will get half the result, you have to let him take your mother and daughter away, sometimes be cold to him, but don't go too far, grasp it yourself, I hope you are happy.
must be able to control him, and there is a woman he can fight for for her to put her heart down.
The landlord is also a teenager, and the heart of play is something that every teenager has, like I am also very playful. Here are a few things you can try
First: Find someone who can control yourself and supervise yourself To be honest, few teenagers can manage themselves (including myself). Sad) So. It would be much better to have someone to supervise and control it.
Second: write a plan for yourself The most important thing is to tell the plan and tell the people around you (if you don't do it, you will feel ashamed and will work hard to complete it, I have tried it myself, it is quite effective) Don't be afraid of being embarrassed, if you are afraid that you can't complete it, then lower your requirements.
Third: If you want to play, play crazy, stay up all night every day until you are exhausted, and when you feel guilty, you will tremble and read a book by yourself.
Fourth: Try to restrain yourself and think more about how you should live your life in the future, whether it will be mediocre for a lifetime or.
In short, the main thing is to grasp the problem yourself. Self-restraint is king, and people are always growing.
The above is a personal opinion, thank you.
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