How to get out of the dead corner of the heart and fall into the dead corner of the mind

Hello, you may have some anxiety problems You have to understand that it's not the question of graduation that causes you to be anxious, but the mentality that you think it's not normal to get nervous at the thought of graduating. In fact, it is normal for us to worry that we will not be able to find a job after graduation or that it is difficult to pass this kind of problem after graduation, there is no problem with worrying, the problem is that you think that your worry is abnormal, but you desperately suppress it, which is the essence of your current problem. I suggest that you take this worry about the future and devote yourself to your normal life and study, that is, when you have this anxiety, don't suppress it, and go with the flow and do what you should do.

God closes a door and will open another window for you.

In fact, another name for this dead end may be called the bottom line, that is, I don't say it, but I don't want others to touch it, everyone has a bottom line, we should all respect everyone's bottom line, this is very private, and it should be kept.

In fact, this is similar to what Haruki Murakami said, he said that everyone's heart is a lost forest, and those who are lost are lost, and those who meet will meet again.

I think what you said about the dead end is the same as what he said about the Lost Forest.

May everyone have their own piece of forest!

Well, there is always a difference in your own environmental experience, and that is your nucleus.

Sensitive hearts, to go out of the house, climb the mountain, let go of the mood, in the sweat to narrow the dead corners in the heart.

Impossible. If that were the case, not so many people would get divorced.

Yes, of course, there will be a place of its own.

Sort of, everyone's bottom line.

If you can't think about it, don't think about it, don't want what you can't get, people live in the world, and learn to be free and easy.

1. All marriages need to be operated by the joint efforts of both husband and wife, only by supporting each other, respecting, understanding and tolerating, caring and loving each other, and sharing weal and woe, and communicating more often, so that the feelings will become deeper and deeper, and they will always be happy.

If you fall into a dead end of your mind about a certain issue, you can take the other party of the problem as yourself, which is often referred to as "empathy".

Then, when you are in the other person's condition, how you, the "other party", will think and deal with this problem, you need to come up with a decision. In this case, your mind will definitely open up and you will suddenly open up.

I hope you will come out of the dead end of your mind as soon as possible.

Then you have to get out of your mind, the world outside is actually very exciting, only by throwing yourself into the arms of nature can we show our insignificance, a stone can still accompany us on the earth for hundreds of millions of years? We are not even dust, empty our minds, life is not very long, we don't have much time to worry about that!

What kind of dead end of your mind have you fallen into? Affection? Love?

Then adjust yourself as soon as possible and empathize more

Either kill yourself or face it bravely.

The original text should be: In fact, everyone has a dead end in their hearts, and they can't get out by themselves, and others can't get in.

Face the problem, face yourself, face the reality.

If you can't find someone to say it, and you don't want to say it to anyone else, you want to get a complete one.

Analyze find a blank piece of paper and a pen and write your first question on it.

And then add "why" to it as the second question to be honest yourself.

The Then you will find the answer.

If you feel that there is still a chance to solve the problem, use your brain to find a solution.

There are often many answers to a question, so think about it.

I couldn't persuade the leader, but it was best for him to make concessions. This not only saves you from the suspicion of flattery, but also makes him appear approachable and not put on a show. I'm sure you think so.

But since he can't do what you and I imagined, it's up to you to save your day. So what's more? "They are brothers, and they smile when they meet.

Have you ever heard of this phrase? Since they used to be like brothers, why should they care about the misunderstandings and other people's eyes? If your brotherhood is really worth saving, then take the initiative!

I think he must have regretted it a little bit now, if you really meant it at the time. Now it's just a layer of paper between you, dip your fingers in a little water, a little light, and you're good to go. You don't need to do anything, wave generously when you meet, smile a little, and it will be fine after a long time.

Find another opportunity to get together, apologize generously, and eliminate all misunderstandings. Don't look ahead and think about what face is a matter of face. The husband should act above board and uninhibitedly.

Daxing disregards the details, and Dali does not give up. "Whoever takes the initiative to break the deadlock first is the big husband I admire.

Learn to respect people you don't appreciate.

Learn to be sophisticated and tactful, so you may take fewer detours.

Be optimistic and cheerful.

If you want others to respect you, you must first respect others ...

Don't worry about it, you're going to get depression.

It doesn't matter, look away! If he doesn't kill you, then you should be silent!

Someday he'll talk to you!!

You're too weak! It's still fragile! Be brave!

If you don't die if you take a little blow, go and apologize to him, talk a few more times, and everything will be solved.

Wouldn't it be over if we talked about something?

If possible, you can create a small misunderstanding, like just meeting a girl and trying to get close to her, since I haven't said a word for so long, then I believe that just one sentence can break the deadlock.

In fact, to put it bluntly, it is a matter of face!

Find an opportunity to have a dinner

The big man makes him look like a, be straightforward!

If it's a man, go out and drink, get drunk, and everything will pass.

Trust me, alcohol is the best way to solve this kind of thing.

Hey, you men, you face is more important than life! Haven't you heard that phrase? To die is to save face and to suffer sin.

I don't think it matters except for the dignity of the person and the like that you can't lose face! I think you've probably watched "Mr. Bean", why do people like his comedies? It's because he's good at self-deprecation.

Take the initiative to say hello to him or something, and you can't drop a piece of meat. A person's greatest enemy is himself, and isn't it a great thing that you have overcome yourself by taking this step? It's a good deal to let go of a little bit of face and exchange for the friendship of the past!

You tell me?

You can take the initiative to talk to him, and you can ask a colleague for help, otherwise work hard and let him know.

Alas! It's all about saving face!

If you don't want to change jobs yet, find a way to solve this problem.

The best way to do this is to take a gradual approach: that is, start with a few hours and work your way up to ease the conflict. The specific way is to borrow the connection at work, when you have to speak, you can say more than usual, and say a few more words next time, and there will be a turnaround after a few times, after all, the leader also wants to deal with this relationship.

Also, keep a happy mood during work hours, don't always keep your face strained, and make it easier for others to approach you.

Listen to that big sister. Or ask that big sister to help you.

Take the initiative to say hello, how much confidence and courage does it take, don't be too feminine, the big man can stretch and bend, and it will not be enough to say hello with a thick skin. It's nothing compared to a few months of annoyance.

Don't communicate by texting and writing, it's too feminine. Saying hello will let everyone know that you're not hostile, and that's a good start. After a few more fights, invite guests to dinner again and slowly restore the relationship.

At least everyone can keep their faces, otherwise it will be unpleasant to work like this!

Entering the corner of life and death, there is a 270-degree field of vision in front of a corner!

Look a little away, it will always pass, keep a good attitude, persevere!

It depends on what your dead end is.

Isn't this supposed to be known when it appears? Everyone's potential is limitless, and what can be endured is also unlimited, and it depends on the specific situation.

In my heart, my heart can't be knotted and will be entangled for a lifetime.