My girlfriend thinks I have a lot of shortcomings and wants to break up, I am going to graduate scho

It is necessary to analyze the shortcomings first, because due to different perspectives and concepts, some shortcomings are not necessarily shortcomings. Therefore, it is necessary to analyze first, if there are shortcomings that are indeed recognized shortcomings, they should be corrected, and if there are shortcomings that are just different concepts, then they should be weighed and then decided whether to correct them. Some people have more personality and may also be seen as a weakness.

If the positive one can be corrected, or the other party can tolerate a certain degree of shortcomings, then it will be retained. The process of retention is negotiation, which ones you can change, which ones she has to tolerate, find a balance point that both parties are satisfied with, change can continue, if you can't find it, either you endure it or break up.

When it comes to emotional issues, others can only give you advice, and if you teach practical methods, it is likely that you will not receive the expected effect due to different situations and circumstances, and even the opposite effect will occur.

If you really have a deep emotional foundation, then the so-called shortcomings actually don't need to be deliberately changed. Man is not complete without shortcomings. And even if you do change it, it may not be satisfying to the other person; More often than not, blaming the other party's shortcomings is simply because they want to overwhelm each other in language and momentum when they quarrel.

As a man, the appropriate tolerance of the kimono will make you more generous (of course, vexatious is no longer tolerated) The fight between the two is often a reflection of deep feelings.

If your girlfriend does decide to break up, then I suggest that you don't chase after you, if she still cares about you, a slight cooling may make her think of you more calmly; If she doesn't care about you, know that women are often more ruthless than men when they change their minds.

According to your description, it is likely that the way you speak is the main problem of the conflict between the two of you, and a little restraint may have a good effect (but please be careful to keep it up. Don't be hot-blooded for three minutes).

Retention is a palliative, not a cure. You should ask if she's been under any pressure lately, work, study or family.

If you really love her, treat her well, and she has 10,000 reasons to leave, but she only needs one reason to stay.

If it's really not suitable, don't be together again, just want to break up with you because of your shortcomings, and how will you live in the future.

There's no need, good men are afraid that they won't find good girls.

After being together, I found a lot of girlfriends' shortcomings, and I got a little bored, should I break up? In fact, everyone has shortcomings, everyone is not perfect, girlfriend's shortcomings are becoming more and more obvious, this is a very normal thing, in the early stage of love, both parties want to give each other a good feeling, a good experience, a good impression, everyone is showing their good side to each other.

After everyone is more and more familiar, other aspects are also shown, some of your small shortcomings, some of her small shortcomings, everyone finds out that everyone is not a perfect person, and they all have some shortcomings, so in the face of these shortcomings, what are your practices or ideas.

You may think that she is very real, you will think that she is quite cute with such a small problem, and you think that the happiness brought to you by being with her is not comparable to this small shortcoming.

You may find it annoying, you don't want to change your perspective or accept her little shortcomings directly, so you think of a way that you think is the easiest way for you, which is to separate, so that you don't see his shortcomings, she has nothing to do with you, and you don't care.

This is actually not a problem that will arise in love, this is a problem that will definitely arise as long as you get along with people and become friends.

No one is perfect, as long as you get along with a person, as you spend more time together, you will find more and more advantages in him, and you will find more and more problems in him, so what will you do at this time?

You can't just accept the good side of everyone, and the side that you see as the flaws makes you want to leave the person.

If that's the case, I think you're the one who will be felt by everyone that they don't agree with each other and have a lot of shortcomings, so shouldn't we be friends with you?

Regardless of your decision, simply choosing to leave or give up is not the best way to solve it.

However, it's your thing, other people's advice is just someone else's advice, and in the end, it's up to you to make your own decisions.

I don't think we should break up, everyone will have such thoughts about you, don't lose each other because there is no freshness, it is irresponsible to do so.

It's best to break up, because you're tired of it now, and you still have a chance to choose, wait until you're married, and then separating hurts both of you.

Shouldn't! No one in the world is perfect, and instead of tolerating other girls, why can't they tolerate the people in front of them? Don't forget the original intention, you have to always.

Divide it. If she can't understand you, forgive you, and play a tantrum, then she doesn't really love you.

Don't take the test, go home and go home to the students.

Buddy! Spend more time with her.

With all due respect, she didn't take your feelings very seriously at all.

Although feelings are only a part of life, we should not spend all our time and energy on children's affection, but learning is only a part of life, and the two need to coordinate with each other to find a balanced state.

If you say that because you didn't get into the graduate school entrance examination, you are in a bad mood and don't have the heart to fall in love, then what does she think of you? A pastime in your spare time?

To put it mildly, wouldn't she be able to be admitted to graduate school if she didn't fall in love? To put it another ugly way, even if she is admitted to graduate school, won't there be more worrying things in her future life than the graduate school entrance examination?

Could it be that after surviving this graduate school entrance examination, will you break up next time because of something else? Is this the right attitude towards feelings?

Like is like, and you should never be together because of loneliness, emptiness, and coldness. If you don't like it, you don't like it, and you shouldn't make excuses for other external reasons.

In other words, she may really not like you that much. It's just that I took advantage of this juncture to find an excuse to break up with you.

At this time, even if you still have feelings for her and still like her, I'm afraid you can't get it back, right? She didn't face up to your feelings from the beginning and didn't give you enough respect.

I've always embraced the idea that all breakups make way for true love. Don't get too hung up, either. Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower? Maybe fate will make you miss her, and you will meet a better half.

All the turning points of experience are just an opportunity for life to give you a new beginning. I hope you can seize this opportunity to find the true love that truly belongs to you.

I'm in my senior year now, and there are a lot of people around me who are preparing for graduate school, and they are really emotionally unstable every day, and the pressure of first-year students and their busy study tasks make them almost break down.

If your girlfriend is preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, or the road to the graduate school entrance examination, and the result is not smooth, I hope you can understand his feelings and accompany him more. At present, if he wants to break up with you, he must be angry for a while, or he has no way to vent his unhappiness but to you.

At this time, if he breaks up with you, you should not be too excited to refute her, or want to theorize, which will make him more energetic, and you will not get any good results. What you have to do is to talk to him carefully, tell him that you are emotionally unstable now, let's not talk about this issue first, you must come to me at any time if you need anything, I am still your boyfriend, and my shoulder will always be leaning on you.

No girl will speak ill of such warm words and care, so you still have to try to tell her that you can give her enough security.

Even if the graduate school entrance examination does not go well and it is difficult to find a job, you are willing to keep him and accompany him.

If both of you are in a better mood, you can take him to relax a little, go to the places he wants to go, and help him relieve the huge pressure in his heart, which will also be good for your future path, and it will also be beneficial to his own physical and mental development.

There will always be stumbling times when men and women get along, if there is a little bit of breaking up, and the other party can't accommodate it, so they will be separated in a daze, then there won't be so many legendary and sincere love stories. There is no time when the tongue does not touch the teeth, and it is in the critical period of finding a job and going to graduate school, everyone's mood may not be so smooth, and understanding each other and understanding these little things will pass.

There may be two reasons why your girlfriend wants to break up with you, one is that she is not going well in the graduate school entrance examination, the pressure is too great, and she feels that she is with you and is not worthy, so she wants to bring it up with you.

The second situation may be that you two are together, and you affect him to go to graduate school, so you let him go to graduate school, and he has repeatedly gone wrong. In other words, all the faults for failing the test are attributed to you. <>

I don't know how you and your girlfriend are on a good relationship.

If the relationship between the two of you is very good, then he feels that he has repeatedly failed to be admitted to graduate school, and he feels that he is under a lot of pressure with you, and he is not worthy of you.

Then at this time, you should make your girlfriend feel that there is not much pressure to be with you, because, if you are admitted or not admitted to graduate school, you will not dislike her, if he is willing to continue to take the exam, then you will be him, a solid backing, and you will always encourage him and help him in the back.

That way, your girlfriend's heart won't be too stressful.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy for two people to meet, know each other, and fall in love, a fate that not everyone will have, so since they have met, then cherish it well, encourage your girlfriend a lot, let him be admitted to graduate school as soon as possible, and you should also achieve positive results as soon as possible.

If it's your girlfriend, I don't usually like you very much, and the relationship with you is not good.

Then it is possible that he is trying to dump you on the pretext that he will not be admitted to graduate school this time.

At this time, there is no need for you to be nostalgic for this relationship, because it is not suitable for the two of you to be together at all. It's better to end the inappropriate relationship as soon as possible, otherwise both of them will be very painful.

We all know that life is based on comfort, if two people are very uncomfortable together, then the future will definitely not be good.

I don't think we should break up, the graduate school entrance examination is a very rational activity, and you need to concentrate on it. It's a long time to go on and it's very draining, and she doesn't have time to play or go shopping with you.

You may not be able to handle the pressure, but you can't break up because of this. After all, your girlfriend is working hard for your future, and she is a very enterprising girl. Such a girl is still very good, after all, she strives for the future herself, and does not count on others.

You have to endure loneliness. Although many couples break up because of different goals, they are determined to work together with her.

Since you want to accompany her to graduate school, you don't have to accompany her to self-study every day, or give up your own things to accompany her, but she can always ask you for comfort when she is in a bad mood.

What is the cause of repression? Is it because your girlfriend doesn't have time to spend with you every day? In fact, after surviving this time, you will be greeted with a better future.

Why do you feel depressed? If you don't want to support each other, in fact, I think everyone has their own pursuits, and supporting them is the most correct way, and if it's a relationship problem, you can consider it.

If you find this way of getting along very oppressive, you can choose to communicate with your girlfriend first, try to change the status quo, and if you can't reach a consensus, you can choose to break up.

Well, let's break up first. If you feel depressed, maybe the other person feels this way too, and it will not be good for both of you in the long run. She can't concentrate on the graduate school entrance examination, and you can't find true love.

Your girlfriend's graduate school entrance examination shows that she is motivated, you can accept it temporarily, and if you really can't accept it, then choose to break up with her.

There should be no breakup. At this time, you should vigorously support her, instead of saying that you will run away because of depression.

You shouldn't break up, if you love her, you have to tolerate her, and you can go out together for a walk.

It is not recommended to break up, your girlfriend's graduate school entrance examination is for a better future for both of you, and you should not mention breaking up at this time. Feeling depressed can communicate.

Where is it depressed, if it is really depressed, let's be separated for a while to calm down.

Falling in love is a happy thing in itself, and when you feel depressed, that's when the relationship cracks.

First of all, I don't think you're doing it properly. I have heard a saying that everyone will stipulate the image of an ideal other half in their hearts before falling in love, and use this as the standard for choosing a spouse in the future, however, most people often do not think the same as they imagined when they meet their true love, and leave the previous standards behind.

And in my opinion, even if a girl changes a little before and after falling in love, it does not lead to a complete change in personality, so if you don't really like her when you leave her at the beginning, in that case, you shouldn't agree to her at that time.

Since you don't want to hurt others, just stay together, abandon those bad thoughts, and find more advantages in your girlfriend on weekdays, she doesn't want to break up with you, which means that she likes you very much, and if you can live like this, it's also very good.

Either you just break up neatly, if you feel that there is no possibility between you, you are determined to break up with her, it is better to have a long pain than a short pain, find a suitable time and place, make it clear to her, it is best to break up peacefully, after all, it is better to break up simply than if you break up every once in a while to torture her, and don't delay people to clean up their mood again and find someone who really loves them.

This is my opinion on the question you raised, maybe the words are a little inappropriate, forgive me, and I hope you can handle this matter properly.