My girlfriend broke up with me! I want to redeem it

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hello landlord, after reading your text, I can understand your current mood very well, but you have to be clear, what do you love about her?

    Are you sure she's the person you're looking for in your life?

    If love comes to an end, remember to let love go for a way out

    Give yourself the opportunity to fall in love with others, and also give others the opportunity to give her happiness... Think about it, life is short, in our beautiful youth, don't you think it's enough to be able to fall in love like this for 2 years?

    Give each other a little time, think well, and wish you happiness...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's yourself who can really help you. Perseverance, intentions can impress a person! Keep working hard! She'll be back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What to redeem? Brother: You're not a frog sitting in a well, are you? When you jump out, you will find that the world is so big, and there are so many frogs waiting for you, give up on her, and there will be better ones in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Figure it out, who hurt whom, since she hurt you, and she said she was tired when you went to redeem it, so I don't understand who hurt whom, and where was the damage?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She said she was tired of being with you.

    Communicate more. Let's see if there's still a chance to redeem it.

    Otherwise, it is painful to be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find the crux of the problem and see if it can be solved.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You guys don't fit, let it go.

    Even if it can be redeemed this time, what will happen in the future?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    She hurt you.

    And then you want to redeem it?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Freeze properly after a breakup.

    Freezing, in fact, is also the best time for yourself to calmly reflect on the mistakes you have made during your relationship, such as whether you did not give a corresponding reaction when the other party needed you, but counted others? Is there any forced transformation of the other party? Do you chatter on the other side when the other person needs to be quiet?

    Many times everyone doesn't know the various mistakes they have made, but they are silently written down by the other party's heart, and when their patience reaches a certain critical point, they are about to break up, and the result is a quarrel and then a breakup. Think about it carefully first, if there are all kinds of mistakes, don't be in a hurry to entangle the other party, if you don't do it, you will end up with a resentful woman.

    2. Change yourself during the freezing period.

    Elevate your appearance. External change is the fastest and most effective way to change your negative image in his mind, many times, whether in the workplace or in love, your external image is very important, so the effect that can be achieved by changing the appearance should not be underestimated. Elevate yourself within.

    In emotion, inner and outer ascension are equally important. A person's love for another person often begins with appearance, loyal to character, only by steadily improving their own inside, can your charm endure.

    High demand cannot be shown in the message. In life, when many people get their ex-girlfriends back, they often tell themselves that they can't do without her, "I love you", "I can't do without you" and other statements, and even force the other party to return to you by hurting themselves. But such a high-demand performance will only increase the pressure on the other party, the contradiction point when you break up is higher, you show high-demand, low-value behavior, often make the other party feel that you are also low-value, so if you want to grasp the initiative of love, you had better start with a non-demand contact, for example, say "recently discovered a very interesting restaurant" and the like, arouse the other party's interest, but will not expose their own sense of need, so that the other party often wants to reply.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether you should redeem your girlfriend if you break up with him mainly depends on how deep your love for him is.

    If you have an average love for him, then I don't think there is any need to save the passers-by in your life, and there are many reasons why you have to keep everyone who walks by you.

    If you love him very deeply, then of course you have to do your best to redeem it, even if you can't get it back, at least you have worked hard, and when you look back on this past in the future, even if you have regrets, it will not be so serious.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    According to your description, it can be seen that you have a lot of affection for your girlfriend. I suggest you redeem it. If you want to redeem it, you have to make your girlfriend happy through words. You should also let your girlfriend see your sincerity through practical actions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not easy for two people to be together, and it is recommended that you go and redeem her.

    You need to reflect on what the reason for the breakup between you is, and see if you have done something wrong or made your girlfriend sad.

    Only when two people make changes can they truly get back together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you have broken up with your girlfriend and want to get it back, you can try to do something she likes, such as buying a bag she likes, gifts, celebrating her birthday, picking her up and taking her to and from work, and using some very heartwarming actions to warm him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You and your girlfriend have broken up, if you like her very much now and want to get back together with her, you should work hard, if you don't have any feelings for her, it's not that kind of unforgettable love, there is no need to redeem it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Now that you've broken up, do you think it's still necessary to make amends?

    There are two situations of breaking up, one is the breakup proposed by the woman, and the other is the breakup proposed by you, if the breakup proposed by the woman, it means that the woman believes that there is an insurmountable gap between the two of you, so she proposes to break up. What you're proposing is that you don't think the relationship can go on any longer.

    Therefore, no matter who proposed the breakup, since it is broken, there is no need to redeem it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, since they have broken up, it means that the two people are not suitable, and there is no need to continue.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you still like each other very much, you should redeem it, because it is not easy for two people to be together, and you should cherish your feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If there is no relationship between you anymore and the fate is over, then I don't think there is any need to redeem it. If it's impulsive, then you can give it a try.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Then it depends on whether your child likes your girlfriend or not? If you are still thinking about him and still loving him, you should work hard to save this relationship, and it is recommended that you try to communicate with your girlfriend first to see if he is still single? If so, pursue her hard.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether or not to keep a girlfriend who has broken up with you depends on yourself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    has already broken up with his girlfriend, so there is no need to redeem him, after all, the fate between you has ended, so you will choose to break up, and it will not make any sense to redeem it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, you must find the reason for such a problem first, if the fault is yourself, and you love that woman, I think it is still necessary to redeem it, on the contrary, let her go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You broke up with your girlfriend, and if the relationship between the two of you hasn't faded, then I think it's necessary for you to talk to him and try to get him back.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't think it should be reversed, after all, the two have broken up, and I think it will be very embarrassing to redeem it, and there must be an estrangement between the two people.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hello, if you still have her in your heart, you can't let go of her, and you are willing to change all kinds of bad things before, then you should save her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In your case, you first need to understand what caused you. Then you can know the cause to prescribe the right medicine.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think if you still have love for her and don't want to lose her, then you should get her back.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Since you have broken up, it is natural for the woman to have contact with other friends of the opposite sex, which belongs to the free behavior of women, and you have no right to interfere, and it is impossible to set up a dragon gate for you. That means you don't need to worry about people anymore.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If your girlfriend wants to break up with you, you must say some things in your mind when you want to get back, which is the best.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This is really hard to analyze. It's been half a month since then, haven't you contacted her again? Since you want to redeem, you should contact him, if you don't have contact, how can you talk about redemption?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you want to redeem it, you have to go out in person, talk to her well, set a goal to strive for, understand the life that the woman wants, find out the reason for your breakup, as for the things in her house, you don't care too much, maybe it's her brother's things, as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron rod is sharpened into a needle, I wish you a broken mirror reunion, and a positive result as soon as possible.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I know it's painful to get out of a relationship, but love is never the whole of life, don't force it anymore when the relationship comes to an end, and choosing to separate is also a way to start over, people need to work hard to get out, let go of the pain of the past, and meet a new life, there will always be all kinds of injuries and different people in your life, start your own new life, if there is still a knot in your heart that can't be untied, and you can't get over, then find the source to untie the knot, and you can use the power of family and friends to use the power of time The more important thing is to convince yourself to let go.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    If you really love him, you have to work hard to make amends, after all, the breakup time is very short. It doesn't necessarily mean that there is a new love. Maybe he can't let go of you in his heart and is deliberately angry with you. If you have it in your heart and can't let it go, then you have to be brave enough to redeem it and don't leave regrets.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    can't have a new love, it's only been half a month since you broke up, and she lives with someone, which is too casual. It is impossible to develop so fast. It must be that she made a gesture and was angry with you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I want to redeem after my girlfriend broke up with me. Yes, as long as the girlfriend doesn't have another boyfriend. Still in touch with you. Prove that he still has you in his heart, and you can redeem it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you want to redeem it, try it, go to see her, of course, it depends on her attitude, and you will know if she has a new love after the breakup. I don't regret trying it if I want to redeem it. To redeem the fruitless, you can also let yourself go completely.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't speculate, so that you are in a trance, just ask her directly, like, together, don't like, there is a new love, bye-bye, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to go all the way, what you can lose is not the person who loves you, and the person who loves you will never give up on you.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Hello, generally there is a reason for a breakup, since you broke up, then reflect on it, whose reason is it? Then what irreconcilable contradictions led to the breakup, and see if these contradictions will affect you later? Even if you can be together, the contradiction still exists, so you have to reflect on it clearly.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If you are really lucky and meet someone who loves you very much, please cherish it. If you're unlucky and never meet a love, live well. Whether you're single, in love, or out of love.

    May you understand that the goal of life is not love, but happiness.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If she still has feelings for you, then she won't put men at home, and it's not like deliberately angry with you, no one will be so boring, I think she has a new love, forget about this relationship.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Who mentioned the breakup, if she has a new boyfriend, you should ask her personally, if you still love her, be brave, even if you are rejected, you know the reason, don't think nonsense here, it affects your normal life, hesitation will only make you miss it.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    There is no need for such a woman, there are already other men, who will have nothing to do with men's things to attract your attention.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    No one will guess that you will go back, eighty percent of them really have a new relationship, in this case, it is better to return the key to the other party, generous blessings.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    There must be a new love, you just forget about this relationship, hurry up and throw away the key, don't go back in the future, it's not good to be caught.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If I love you, I won't break up with you, and now that I've broken up, don't dwell on it, or find a woman who truly loves you to be happy.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    You can ask her directly, there is no need to guess like this, no one else can guess his mind! So it's better for you to ask her directly!

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    You have a child who broke up with you and you want to get it back, this is very difficult, but you broke up with him like this.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You are all sick. When you don't cherish what you have, you lose it and want to get it back. What is this? Do children pretend to marry?

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    You break up with you, Xiaobao, stick to Hong Kong, I'll consult again and know what's going on.

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