Ode to Joy Fan Shengmei s longing for the golden beetle son in law, why did Qiu Yingying get it so

Because the more deliberately you get, the more you can't get it, and Qiu Yingying and Fan Shengmei are completely different, Qiu Yingying doesn't care about money, so in the face of rich people, she won't seem particularly deliberate, so she can be liked by rich people more.

Qiu Yingying also first experienced the deception of a white scumbag, and later stopped relying on men. And he devoted himself to working in a coffee shop, and achieved the position of store manager with his own efforts, attracting others by improving himself.

It is said that every man may forget his wife, but he will not forget his first love. Because first love is very beautiful for men and is a good memory, they should feel that this kind of innocent girl makes them feel more like first love.

Life is a lot of asking but can't, when the more you ask, the more you can't get, but calmly, after looking down, it will naturally come to fruition.

Ying Qin, the scumbag, the little earthworm will suffer in the future, and it is estimated that she will have to take out her non-trivial things when she quarrels.

Sometimes life is like this, the more you want to get what you want, the more you can't get it, and those who don't have any big pursuits and live positively and optimistically can easily get a happy life.

Because she is relatively simple, she has her own ideas about many things, and she likes to pursue them hard, and the most important thing is action.

Because stupid people have stupid blessings, and Qiu Yingying, it doesn't have that requirement, even if he meets an ordinary person, I believe he is willing to accept it.

Because Qiu Yingying is very cute and gentle, and those golden beetle sons-in-law like this kind of person, he is relatively easy to get.

Even if Fan Shengmei can attract some rich children with her beauty, when they see Fan Shengmei's family situation, they will generally choose to leave.

Fan Shengmei has always felt miserable because of her background, she is very inferior in her heart, in fact, she has no self-confidence. How can such a person make some rich people like her?

It's because he doesn't have a clear understanding of his own situation, and he always wants to change his situation through men.

Several years have passed since the drama "Ode to Joy", and when I revisit this TV series, I will still have some inspiration for some of the characters in the play, in fact, the more typical one is Fan Shengmei!

1: The family of origin is a bottomless pit.

The original family is something that each of us has no way to choose, but under such a native family, what you have to do is to do your best to help your family members and be filial to them within the scope of the economy! And the golden beetle son-in-law she missed, after seeing her original family, she also dodged again and again, after all, no one wants to fill this hole in hers! After all, people nowadays are realistic, not only girls have to look at the boy's family conditions, boys will also find fault with the girl's family background, who wants to find a family with a lot of trouble, there is a major burden, the most important thing is that there is a pair of patriarchal, unlimited parents, every boy encounters this kind of family girls will avoid it.

2: Fan Shengmei is too vain and can't control ambition.

Everyone will be vain, but vanity should also be moderate, a moderate amount of vanity can make you very refined, but too much vanity will easily make you fall into some traps! If you want to find a really powerful high-quality man, then first of all, you should change your vain personality, at least let yourself have a correct view of right and wrong, when you have a correct concept of right and wrong, you can get everything you want!

3: Sophistication, love to play smart.

She doesn't want to rely on herself, she just wants to live a good life through others, but it is this kind of thinking that makes him live a miserable life! Many women don't have the ability to marry into a wealthy family, such an idea is unrealistic, Fan Shengmei belongs to this kind!

In the final analysis, your ability is the criterion for your mate selection, and when your ability improves, the circle you contact is different! Different circles and different people you know, and in these circles, you can choose the one that suits you at will!

In this world, the backers will fall, and the most reliable is yourself!

Because everything must be done properly, and the rich golden beetle son-in-law also wants to find a rich wife, so even if Fan Shengmei's appearance conditions are okay, there is no way to catch the golden beetle son-in-law.

This actually has a lot to do with his family, and no one is willing to marry this kind of woman, because her family burden is particularly heavy, and she has to live her own life well, and she also has to take care of his parents and younger brother.

Maybe it's her personality problem, she has always relied on the man, and she has always relied on his money.

I think this is because Qiu Yingying is clever and good-looking.

For such a thing, it is mainly related to many aspects of him.

This is because he is not so attractive to the opposite sex.

This may have something to do with Qiao Yangyang's personal charm.