My husband borrowed money from my relatives and friends, is such a man reliable?

Of course it's not reliable. The most important thing is to have the ability to make money. If you don't have any money, you have to work hard to earn it, instead of borrowing money from everywhere, let alone borrowing from your relatives and friends. Your relatives and friends should borrow money to see your face, if you can't pay it back, you should be asked for money, and your relationship with relatives and friends will be more awkward in the future.

I feel that I can't do much if I have the ability. If you don't have money, you should rely on your own ability to earn it, instead of borrowing money from everywhere.

If you borrow money from your relatives and friends, such a man is not a trustworthy person at all unless he encounters great difficulties.

Of course, such a man is unreliable, what kind of man is a man who borrows money to live, he should be responsible for making money to support his family, but he borrowed money outside and borrowed it all over again.

Such a man is really unreliable, he must not be able to work hard to make money, and always think about pies in the sky. So he would borrow money from relatives and friends everywhere. As his woman, you should take care of him.

Unreliable! It's completely scum, cheating money through feelings, how can you pay it back after borrowing money?

What is the purpose of borrowing money?

It's totally a**!

It mainly depends on what kind of use the other party uses, so at this time, if it is a normal living expense or a must, then there is nothing, but if it is not used for living expenses, then it will definitely not work.

Borrowing money from your friend, you should borrow it, if he can't live independently and is not motivated, it is worth considering.

A man who only knows how to borrow money, do you still have hope for him? Or borrow money from your relatives and friends, and if you can't pay it back, they will ask you for it.

I think this is still a specific issue, let's analyze it specifically, and see what he wants to do with his money.

What is he borrowing money for? Is it for family life? Is it entrepreneurship or scientific research? Is it gambling or drug use? Be different!

My husband borrowed money from my relatives and friends, and he explained that he was not a responsible person, so such a man was unreliable.

Both husband and wife are a whole, both of them are responsible for the family, and when borrowing money, they must communicate with each other. If a man doesn't communicate with you, then you should pay attention to whether it is unreasonable in some practices, so let's take a look at how to effectively communicate with your husband about borrowing money.

First, don't be one-size-fits-all when it comes to borrowing money, and be considerate of your husband.

If every time someone borrows money, regardless of the reason and purpose, as long as the husband says that he wants to borrow money, you have to quarrel with your husband, then there is a high probability that the next time your husband borrows money, he will hide it from you, do not discuss with you, and you will not agree to discuss it anyway, and you will quarrel, so it is better to do it quietly. Therefore, when encountering the problem of borrowing money, you must analyze it with your husband in accordance with the above principles, whether you should borrow or not, don't be reluctant to borrow, and don't be reluctant to borrow what you shouldn't borrow. Of course, I also have to lead by example, I can't say it, otherwise my husband borrows money, but when I encounter something about my mother's family, I have no position.

Second, be a shield for your husband.

When the husband is borrowed by relatives and friends, it is difficult for him to refuse, and he is afraid of hurting the relationship, at this time, some things are not as good as being a wife, even if others know that it is an excuse, it is not good to say anything.

Third, figure out the family's financial situation.

It is said that the husband is the rake that makes money, and the woman is the box that saves money. Of course, the vast majority of women now have their own jobs, and even earn more than their husbands. But a woman must do a systematic and standardized financial sorting, see how much money she has in her family, the current income and expenditure, and the budget for large expenditures in the future for a period of time, so that she knows it in her heart, and analyzes it to her husband, so that the two have a clear understanding, so that they will not feel that there is a daily income now, even if they lend some money, it doesn't matter.

I hope that I can learn to borrow money rationally, not hurt people's feelings, and protect the family's small treasury.

Your husband often lends money to others, which shows that your husband is very caring and can help others selflessly, which is very worthy of respect. But on the other hand, if he often and endlessly lends money to others, it means that either your husband himself has a problem, or someone else has a problem. If your husband has no bottom line, as long as others ask him to borrow money, he will agree, which means that your husband may be too face-loving, and others may take advantage of your husband's face-loving point, often asking him to borrow money, if this is the case, you can point out his mistakes in a righteous and strict manner, move with affection, know with reason, and resolutely oppose lending money to others.

Hello, I am Master, I have seen your problem, I will help you as soon as possible, please be patient.

Ask questions often lend credit cards to brothers and friends, I found it through his mobile phone, every time he will admit his mistakes, and then repeatedly ** this kind of thing, an average of two times a month to borrow others, and he has no money, originally I knew him before he borrowed credit cards to friends, there are 5 years of not repaid, there are lessons from the past, but now he is around as long as he borrows money, he will still take credit card money to lend to brothers and friends.

How to solve this problem, already married, no children, no license, trouble to give a good idea.

Hello, glad to be able to answer this question for you. In this case, you still have to do a good job of his ideological work. For example, we are now married, we will have children in the future, and the cost will be high, and we don't earn much money, so we must give out some savings for later use.

If you can't borrow it, don't borrow it. Let him first recognize this problem mentally.

The question is completely repeated, I don't know what to do? Repeatedly lending money to my brother behind my back.

In addition, tell him from the opposite side, a lot of money is lent, it seems that it is enough for the buddy to be angry, but the other party does not pay you back, and it is yourself who suffers in the end.

If that doesn't work, it's mainly because you're under too little pressure right now. It is necessary to put pressure appropriately, such as buying a house or a car, so that if he is under pressure, he will not be casual and borrow others.

When he asked questions, he was behind my back, and he never consulted me, and he was disgusted that I was looking through his phone.

Now it seems that preaching is not working, you have to use reality to force him. Also, you said you got married, but why didn't you get a license? There is no legal protection if you don't get a certificate!

Ask him like this, in this situation, I am still afraid to argue with him.

What do you mean? Don't you want to get a license with him? Is he inseparable from you?

In that case, you should use some threatening methods. If it goes on like this, it's not called living, you just pretend to leave him. Force him to stop lending money to others casually.

Either you have to have a child, and if you have a child, the cost is big, and he will pay attention.

Questioned, he said that he had no money for the time being, and he didn't want children.

Hello! Then you can persuade him: I want to have a child, we have to save some money, otherwise, how to raise children in the future.

Therefore, let's not just lend money to others anymore, of course we need to borrow what we should borrow, but don't be too casual. After all, we are both married, and we have to make long-term plans for the future.

First of all, it depends on whether you have economic dominance, if your husband listens to you, it will be easy to do, if you don't listen to you, then you have to talk to your husband well, find out the reason why your husband always lends money to others, if they are all good relationships borrowed and repaid, then it is not impossible, if you don't pay back, then it will definitely not work!

If you fall in love with someone, you can never be together. Please don't be upset, don't pester him, don't hurt him. No matter how much you miss it, how reluctant you are.

You see, to love someone is not to possess him, but to fulfill him. There will always be someone who will come to you across thousands of mountains and rivers to make you believe in love again.

Lending money to others often shows that you have the financial ability, but at the same time, you must also pay attention to whether all the money lent out can be recovered, and you must cherish your hard-earned money.

Explain that your husband has a mutual lover, otherwise he will not lend money to others, and the best way is for you to take the financial power into your own hands.

You can talk to him about this current person, it is the uncle who borrowed money, and if you don't come back then, you will cry without tears.

Communicate with him and make him understand the importance of money.

He must be stopped immediately from doing such stupid acts.

If you borrow money again, you will divorce him.

Prove that your husband is a rich man, a man who cares about face, and a good man who likes to help others!

Summary. Hello! Husband's friend borrowed money. Dear, what does he want to borrow money for?

Hello! Husband's friend borrowed money. Dear, what does he want to borrow money for?

If he borrows money, he plays cards and plays people. Do not borrow.

I'd rather not have this friend.

My husband has three good friends who play well.

One borrowed 10,000 and did not borrow.

It's been a long time since I ceased.

My husband's good friend asked him to borrow 2,000 yuan, and said that he had said several times, but I didn't agree to borrow it, because I knew that the money was given to him, and I would not return it. But my husband also wants to borrow it, and for this matter, he also tells me that he is selling key explosive power.

Borrow one and never pay it back.

Look at the character. It's been more than ten years, and I haven't interacted with each other anymore.

Husband friend, there is a working person. It is impossible to send two thousand people.

Character trust, borrow. Poor character, borrowed but not returned.

In this way, if your husband has to borrow. If this friend doesn't pay it back, let your husband see him clearly.

Summary. If your husband lends you money from a friend, it proves that he really loves you.

If your husband lends you money from a friend, it proves that he really loves you.

But what exactly is the situation? Need to lend you money from a friend?

My husband went out with his friend at 9 o'clock and asked him when he would be back.

He transferred 2,000 to me and asked him where he came from, and he said to ask his friend for the <> he had borrowed

That's a little weird...

But it's also a good thing to have red envelopes.

Why is it strange?

It's just that I transferred 2,000 yuan to you for some reason, although it's good, but don't you think it's a little strange? Why give you money?

We haven't been in classes lately, and he used to have a very good relationship with his friends, is it possible that my husband lent it to him, or they partnered to do business and dividends.

Then it's okay, then take the red envelope and buy yourself something delicious.

So what do you understand?

Actually, I think it's weird too.

I don't know what's going on between you at the moment, so I won't praise it, but as long as there are no other abnormalities, I'll take it anyway if I have money.

Isn't it a fool if you don't take the money yourself? You tell me? Right? <>

Of course, if there are other details, you can also provide them, and I will help you analyze and judge others.

Of course, if there are other details, or what you think is wrong, you can provide it, and I can help you analyze and judge it more accurately.

In fact, the most important thing for a family is to understand each other, in fact, you also have your own mistakes at this point, that is, you did not explain the situation with your wife before, in fact, everyone has their own opposite, but I think that since we are already together, there should be nothing to hide, since you choose to lend yourself a friend before you lose money, then you should have your own ideas and reasons, so I think you can convince your wife, I think the main thing that has arisen between you is communication. <>

In fact, communication is the solution to all problems, many family conflicts are because of the lack of communication between the couple, resulting in a lot of contradictions are difficult to eliminate, in fact, if you want to lend your friend money if it is not too much, I think your wife will definitely agree, even if she does not agree because of her own reasons, and must remember that he must be for your good and for the good of the family, so he chose not to agree, because after all, you are a family, It is impossible to help an outsider, and this must be made clear. <>

I think a lot of things are more and more contradictory because of deception, no matter who has their own temper, since you don't tell her, he will definitely think that his face is still not high, so you should think of some ways to make them think that their status is still there, such as inviting him to a meal, or buying him a small gift, in fact, girls are very easy to coax, as long as they don't cross his bottom line, And you should assure him that if you don't hide it from him in the future, the matter will be well resolved. <>

As long as we talk together as a couple, all the contradictions will be exposed, so that you both know each other's temper, in fact, it will be of great help to get along together in the future, and it is not necessary to convince each other, which will only backfire.

It's already been loaned, so don't make any noise and ask your husband to come back soon.

My husband borrows money everywhere, how can I get my relatives and friends not to borrow.

Hello, first of all, you can try not to let your relatives and friends know about your husband's borrowing of money, you can consider lending money to your husband yourself, so that he does not lend money to others. Secondly, you can try to let your husband know that borrowing money has a price, such as borrowing money for a reasonable purpose and returning it on time after borrowing, so as to remind him not to borrow money often. Finally, you can consider offering your husband some better financial management options, such as setting up a family budget and planning for family income and expenses so that your husband doesn't need to borrow money due to overspending.