Pursuing a girl fails, why does pursuing a girl always fail?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, there are many kinds of love in time, and there are no regrets after love, the girl you like doesn't like yourself, and the girl who likes you doesn't like yourself. After all, love at first sight in life is a minority, and love is more noble because of your lovesickness and affection. As we grow, you will feel more and more how happy and simple you were at the beginning.

    At that time, after love, we have no regrets. By the way, I recommend you the movie "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", a work with nine knives that is very beautiful. Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not a big deal!

    You should be glad that you didn't break up because you were in love.

    If he rejects you, that means she's not the person you were meant to be.

    You'd better go and find the person who will love you and you love too!If you put it down, there will be nothing left.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not that you're not good, it's just that two people need a lot of factors to be together. For example, there must be an eye, there must be a common language, and the external conditions of both parties, etc., this is normal, failure does not mean anything, you like her so much, but she doesn't know how to cherish it, it is also a loss. Come on.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    When you meet another girl who catches your crush, you forget about her completely. Hehe, the two love each other, after working hard, it still depends on chance!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, it's your own that you can never run away, you can't get it if it's not your own, and sometimes it's good to let go, in order to get better and better love.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It doesn't matter, after a long time, you get used to it, and when you get used to it, you forget it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Failure is the success of the mother, the child who is fine, in the past. Good luck finding the perfect girlfriend soon.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are more women in the world Why bother to love a flower Don't just look at sesame seeds!There's nothing a man can't let go!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love someone you shouldn't love, and get rid of it early.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The reason may be that you don't know much about girls. So if you pursue him in this case, you and the other person may not have so many topics in common. So it's easy to fail. If you want to pursue a girl, you need to know her well in advance.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you haven't found the right way, or the right person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you failed to chase girls, and I feel like you can feel it yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Pursuing a girl has always been a troubling issue, and sometimes even if you try your best, nothing will come of it, and some poignant experiences can happen in this case.

    The story of a male friend I heard was poignant. He is very close to a girl and often chats and parties together. He began to develop a crush and tried to express his feelings to the girl.

    However, his confession was directly rejected by the girl. The reason given by the girl was that she didn't want to fall in love, let alone break up and get married, because her family background was complicated and she wanted to stay single. But Mu Yuan shouted yes, she still wanted to stay friends with this boy.

    The boy didn't give up, he still insisted on keeping friends with the girl, hoping to change her mind one day. He is very attentive to girls, often considers her and helps her solve some problems, and girls also trust and rely on him very much. However, the boy has never been able to change the girl's mind, and he keeps giving without anything in return.

    Finally, the girl tells him at one of their parties that she has started dating and that her boyfriend is very nice to her. She hopes that the boy will also be able to find a better girlfriend and stop hoping for her. The boy was very disappointed and sad, but he still insisted on keeping friends with the girl and blessed her.

    Although this story is very sad, it also makes us understand some truth. First of all, chasing girls is not a simple thing for Xunye, it requires real dedication and patience. Second, even if you do try your best, you won't necessarily be able to get the results you want.

    Finally, we should also learn to accept failure and respect the choices of others.

    In short, in the process of pursuing girls, we need to learn to persevere and respect, but also learn to accept the results and move on.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's certain that you're uncomfortable, it's human nature.

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