Annoyance: Is there love without money?

<> Wuhan Psychological Counseling Center broadcast.

In the eyes of many people, it is a very vulgar thing to compare love and money, but as a social person, you must understand:

Maslow's theory divides needs into five categories: physiological needs, safety needs, social needs (love and belonging needs), respect needs, and self-actualization needs, from the lower level to the higher level.

Different people, strictly speaking, people with different conditions, have different understandings of love and hold different values.

Under the tide of market economy, material ability largely determines most people's outlook on love and values. Maslow's love needs can be transformed into each other, for example, if the economic conditions are better, then he (she) does not have to start from the first level, he or she can give priority to emotional factors, and then consider other factors, and directly enter the needs above the third level.

Understanding Maslow's theory of love needs can help you reorient your view of love. We don't have to despise those who worship money in love, 580 psychiatrists' broken thoughts].

What you are like Your love is what you look like.

Of course there is love! Love is selfless, and what can be bought with money is not love.

The key is to see how much two people love, if you love money more than lovers, then of course there will be.

At this time, it is time to test your love, and you have to convince your girlfriend that as long as the two of them have a heart, they will have a house and a car. If you don't even have confidence and hope for your future, how can you ask your girlfriend to have hope for your future?

If there is a real relationship between the two parties, money is not too much of an issue.

It will be very happy to earn money together with love.

It depends on your ability, at least you don't ask for it.

I don't know how old you are, as you grow older, you will face many problems, childhood troubles are nothing more than parents can not meet some of their reasonable or unreasonable requirements, crying or being beaten will pass, heartless, not involved in the social level, it is simple and worry-free. Slowly we grow up and want to go to school, at this time the troubles may come from learning, social problems, but the problem is still simple, after all, this is the beginning of the first involvement in personnel, and such problems with their own efforts, parental guidance, and teachers' help will also be quickly solved, because we do not have our own social experience, we do not have our own views on things, we are easy to accept, we will not be entangled because the opinions of parents and teachers are different from our own opinions, we will not be so confused. Later, we grew up, we learned love, we understood career, we knew how to manage our own life, we also accumulated a lot of views and experience on things, we from simple individuals into the complex environment of society, to deal with many problems that were once dealt with by parents and teachers alone, and at such times parents and teachers may not be at ease with us, they will give a lot of advice and suggestions, they have not yet adapted to us We have grown up We have our own ideas, So we began to contradict this disunity, we were sad, we were helpless, and even we rebelled against ......So we have a lot of troubles.

In a way, these troubles are the beginning of our growth and the joy of our lives, aren't they? When I grew up, I had something on my mind; On the other hand, when we have something on our minds and know how to trouble, we will grow up and mature. Optimistic face everything, bless you, sunny every day.

Annoyed? Troubles are right, comfort is reserved for the dead.