How can you tell if two people are really in love with each other or if they are testing each other?

In fact, people who really love each other, there will be a feeling of intimacy between them when outsiders see it, that is, that kind of happiness can be seen by others at a glance, and the two hearts are not very close to each other, even if they show that they love each other very much, but you can see that they have not gone that far.

If you love someone, you can feel whether the other party also loves you, you don't have so many problems getting along, I'll give you an example, if you and your object really love each other, then there will definitely be a quarrel, but after the quarrel, it will definitely be reconciled immediately, and even if there is a quarrel, the other party should still care, but the mouth is more rigid and does not admit it.

There are two couples around me, a couple didn't see how their boyfriends called ** during work hours, but you can feel that they will definitely enter into marriage, they give people the feeling that we are a family, there is no temptation between them, it is the kind of getting along like relatives, if you have something to say, never hide it, that is, if you don't say it to me, even if you scold me, I have to say it, quarrels are frequent, but after a while, it's okay.

And the other couple is playing ** every day, and they don't sleep at noon, but you can feel that there is a distance between them, because there is something wrong with girls, boys sometimes dare not say it, and they try to say it, but girls will be angry, and boys will not dare to say it, nor will they want to say it, so they feel that their happiness is not that real, or very false feeling.

Girls will also test the boy's temper, and will also test his bottom line, the two of them give people the feeling that they are not completely communicative, not completely surrendering themselves, even if it seems sweet, but I still don't want to tell you a lot of things. And if you've been in this situation before, it can only be said that you're also testing each other.

You can look at each other's usual words and deeds, and then you can also look at each other's usual dynamics, if two people love each other very much, they will tolerate each other at ordinary times, and they will also be honest with each other.

If two people want to be together often, even if they are willing to stay together even if they test each other, then it proves that two people love each other.

You can look at each other's eyes, and you can also see the other party's detailed performance of themselves. There are also small actions or whether the other party pays attention to their own life can be judged.

If both couples are testing each other's feelings, it may be because their attitude towards relationships is too perfunctory, and it is better to separate earlier than to live in such pain every day. Feelings are just a small episode in life, if you can find someone you really like, then two people can spend the rest of their lives together and enjoy a good life, but if the other party has not really giving, then the relationship will fall apart sooner or later, such a relationship can be maintained for a while, but not for a lifetime. <>

Both men are cautious in their relationship, because neither of them has enjoyed unique treatment. Some people have a better personality, and before they fall in love, they will lend a helping hand to the people around them, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, but after falling in love, they must pay attention to their behavior and do not get too close to the opposite sex, otherwise they will make their current incumbent feel insecure. And some people's relationship patterns with their partners are very similar to those of the opposite sex, so in this case, the current person will definitely feel that they have no value and meaning of existence, and they can't feel the other party's liking, so they won't give too much affection themselves.

It's best not to continue the relationship, because there is no need to continue to hold on to the relationship that makes everyone feel uneasy. Emotional life is for everyone to enjoy, not for everyone to suffer. However, before breaking up, two people can open their hearts and communicate with each other, if there is really no way to change it, then the two people should separate a little earlier and run towards their own future.

Once two people fall into a relationship, they will unconsciously consider each other and pay for each other, they will not feel wronged, but feel a very romantic embodiment. Only two people can work together to make this relationship better, and the relationship has a shelf life, so you must work hard to communicate within the validity period to maintain the relationship for a longer time.

Because neither of them is sure of the other person's heart for him, and he is not sure how the other person feels about him; Such feelings are not to be desired.

Each other is testing each other's feelings, indicating that both people are insecure people, afraid that the other party will not be sincere to them; I don't think it's okay to have such feelings.

may be because of the lack of trust in each other, such a relationship does not need to continue, because the two people themselves are not happy together.

I feel that two people who like each other do not need to test each other, they can take the initiative to communicate, to communicate, to go into each other's hearts, in fact, there will always be a relatively active and passive party in the relationship, a large part of the reason for this bias may be due to personality, but it depends more on personal choice.

People who take the initiative in the relationship may love more and be more tired. When they are quiet, they will try to find topics to ease the awkward atmosphere; will take the initiative to admit defeat and make concessions in quarrels; They will try their best to meet the other person's requirements, and they often choose to pay more because they are afraid of losing.

People who are passive in their relationships seem to get more, but in fact, most of them are not unwilling to give, but are afraid that they will not get the desired response after paying, which will put them in an extremely embarrassing situation. They are always cautious, do not hand over their true hearts easily, love very carefully, and have reservations. However, there is a saying that is true - "those who are favored have no fear", and it is true that passive people will have an easier time in their relationships.

Everyone must have watched a lot of palace fighting dramas, the women in the palace all have their own strengths, but they always revolve around a man, competing for beauty, and trying their best to please them, although they give and give a lot, they will never be the ones who have the last laugh. It's like "Yanxi Raiders".

, Wei Yingluo.

The last sentence to the queen, "You are always in love, but why should you tell him?" The one who speaks first has already lost. As a result, more and more people choose to be the passive person, everyone is waiting to be loved, and there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to take the initiative.

In fact, people who take the initiative at the beginning are often subconscious.

It is stipulated that everything should be done by the active side, and people who are passive at the beginning are easy to take the other party's initiative for granted, and then sit back and wait for the other party to give. If a person is in an active state in the relationship for a long time, then he will get tired one day; Similarly, a person who has been in a passive state for a long time, accustomed to what others give, can easily lose himself.

And true love should not care about who is active and who is passive, everything is caused by feelings, not rational arrangements. When you like someone, you should take the initiative to confess, don't feel that the price is dropped, and you don't have to worry about being rejected, you won't regret it if you try it, but you will regret it if you miss it. Of course, if two people are in love, it is best to take the initiative with each other, so that the love will not be unbalanced.

Personally, I think that one of the most important prerequisites of feelings is mutual respect and trust between each other, if two people like each other in the relationship, but they still need to test each other, then this kind of relationship is a lack of enough sincerity, which can only make two people more entangled with each other, and even have certain doubts and shakes about this feeling.

Of course, at the beginning of two people's acquaintance, they don't know each other very well or they don't confirm whether the other party really likes themselves in their hearts, and it is indeed necessary to test moderately and understand each other's attitudes and intentions, after all, so that they can make correct judgments and decisions.

But the relationship between two people has been stable, in this case mutual temptation, the other party is just a kind of distrust and disrespect for each other, which is of no significance to maintain the relationship between two people, if there is any doubt between two people, or should be as far as possible face-to-face communication and exchange, this way is far better than the way to test each other, but also to resolve the problems and contradictions between two people in a timely manner, It is more conducive to the long-term maintenance of the relationship between two people.

Like is shallow love, love is deep like, "In love, some people will take liking as love, but in fact, there is a difference between liking and love.

Women are mostly sensual, and under such sweetness, they will regard liking as true love, give all their sincerity, and in the end, they will find that they love the wrong person.

If you want to judge like and love, there is one of the simplest criteria, whether he will have an affair with you, whether he will have other members of the opposite sex besides you, because true love is exclusive, and you are the only one who really loves you.

Like and love, as long as you distinguish carefully, you will know, when you know that he just likes you, don't fool yourself, go find the person who really loves you.

Like is for a while, love is for a lifetime.

Is love eternal, not necessarily, but if it is someone who truly loves you, he will expect love to be eternal and look forward to being with you all the time.

This is different from the person who likes you, if he just likes you, he won't think about things for a lifetime, and he won't think about what your future will be, and even if you ask to meet your parents or something, he will refuse, in his heart, the relationship between the two people is only temporary, and it is not certain how long it will last, and he doesn't want to talk about things related to the future.

And most women want to get a promise, hoping to hear his plans for the future, which is very important to her, although it can't be completely absolute to say that not talking about the future is not to love you at all, but at least it shows that he really doesn't love you that much, so he will think about backing down.

Like is unscrupulous, love is careful.

If a person just likes you, he can't do this, the first thing he thinks of is himself, and he only thinks about his own feelings when he does anything, and he can't take into account the other party at all, because he is not afraid of losing you, he is not afraid of losing this relationship, he will be unscrupulous if he doesn't care, and he won't care about the other party's thoughts.

People who like you will be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex and don't know how to keep a distance from you; And the person who loves you will automatically draw a line with other members of the opposite sex, he is only afraid that you will misunderstand;

The person who likes you may only love for a short time, just the freshness of the beginning; And the person who loves you will always like you, will like it for a lifetime, and will always be good to you;

The person who likes you will be unscrupulous, only caring about his own feelings and not caring about the other party; And the person who loves you will be cautious, restrained, and will cherish this feeling.

The people who like you and the people who love you are really different, in this life, you must know how to cherish the person who loves you, and stay away from those who just like you, so that you can reap happiness.

Many women, once they fall in love with a man, they can't tell the difference between the southeast and the northwest, no matter whether the man loves themselves or not, anyway, they love him, and they think that he is 100% good to him, because the love is too full, so many women are easily hurt in the relationship.

Women are mostly emotional animals, they want to be loved and cared for, especially for the man they love, women often have high expectations, hoping that the people they care about will also care about themselves. But the reality may backfire, and the higher a woman's expectations, the greater the disappointment.

In fact, if you want to know whether a man likes it or not, whether he cares about you or not, there is really no need to test it repeatedly, whether he loves or not is hidden in the details, and whether he loves or not is in a man's attitude towards you.

A man who doesn't like you won't take your feelings into account. Take WeChat as an example, a man who really likes you is happy to take the initiative to chat with you and give you greetings. Because he likes you, he will always find various topics to talk to you, and he will never get bored of chatting for a long time.

And if you take the initiative to chat with him, he will definitely reply in seconds and will never make you wait.

And the man who doesn't like you, he will think of you when he is bored and come to tease you, but most of the time, it is difficult for you to find him, for example, you have something happy to share with him, when you send a message full of joy to tell him, he shows a cold look, in his eyes, the things you feel interesting have nothing to do with him, because he doesn't like you.

If a man doesn't like you, he won't take the initiative to contact you and care about you, and even if you take the initiative to find him, he will either turn a blind eye to your information, or just casually end the conversation early.

I met a girl who liked a man very much, so she always took the initiative to send a message to the man, and the man would reply in time. But after a long time, when a woman feels that she has fallen in love with that man deeply, she begins to want to stick to the man, and when she sees a man posting on Moments, she immediately sends a message to the past, but time passes minute by minute, an hour and two hours pass, and the man does not reply, but the man keeps posting Moments.

You think, if a man really likes you, how can he be willing to snub you, a man who likes you will definitely take care of your feelings and reply to you in a timely manner, and those who clearly see the information should also turn a blind eye, indicating that he does not have you in his heart at all.