What are the three fake generosity that men who are selfish at heart?

He says some generous words, but never takes actual action, always draws a big pie, but although there are no specific measures, he usually gives some verbal promises, but never fulfills them. When it is profitable, there will be a time when it is truly "generous".

In front of women, they will say false and empty lies, and they will say very kind words in their mouths outside, and they will only be really generous once when they will really get benefits.

often draw a big pie for women and give women some promises, but they will never be fulfilled, and there will be false generosity in these three aspects.

Once a person is self-centered and evaluates others by their personal worth, he will become very proud and arrogant, which is one of the most striking characteristics of a "extremely selfish" man.

They often think that they are unique, that they cannot be surpassed, and that they cannot be criticized.

It's definitely a special picking.,And usually only think about your own feelings.,Special machismo.。

Self-centered, always feel that I am very powerful, and I am very capable.

For example, such a man will not buy you a diamond ring, and what he says will never come true, he is always proud and complacent, I have met him.

What about this? I think a generous person should sometimes know how to share. In fact, sometimes if you know how to share, you will be happier and happier.

Isn't there a saying that says? If it's happiness, you share it with others. Then happiness becomes the happiness of several people.

If it's pain, you share it with others. Then your pain is cut off by a few points. So I think if there's anything good.

But in our daily lives, it is often difficult for us to do so. Because we will always have ourselves. The hidden side.

Because we can't make everything public. So sometimes we think something is more important and we don't want to share it with others. Maybe this kind of thing may not be important to some people?

Something very valuable. But for some people, if they take this very seriously, then they may be reluctant to share these things.

So maybe for you, organize your own notes. It is through one's own wisdom. Then it comes down to some knowledge points.

You feel like this is passed. Worked hard and put in your sweat and toil, so you don't want to share it. This is also understandable.

You may feel that this note is very important to you, maybe in a certain exam, you stand on the same starting line with others to take the test, and others may not get your score without your note, so there is no more important competition with you, which may become some of your core competitiveness. I know that there are a lot of classmates in the university who listen to the lectures very carefully and then take notes very carefully. And then he took those notes again.

If you put it on the ** to sell it, he can also earn living expenses for himself. This may be the wisdom he deserves, but if you share it directly, maybe you won't be able to get some of the things I mentioned above.

Therefore, let's analyze the specific problems in detail, and you can't blindly say that you are selfish. But if you are able to be a particularly cheerful person. Maybe you'll be willing to share these things.

Of course, it could also be when you are not short of money. You might also be willing to share it.

When I was a student, I often made two sets of notes, one was made in class, the handwriting was relatively sloppy, and the other was redone at home, the handwriting was neat, and in that era when the mind map had no concept, I had already made detailed private notes.

Among my classmates, they generally think that I am more "generous", and in the matter of notes, the classmates around me can borrow them at will, which I am willing to give (of course, the exchange condition is that when I am on duty, I will help my "share" to do it), of course, there will be no classmates with the same grades as me to borrow books, everyone is a face-saving person.

But there are also a few good friends of mine, they know that I have another set of private notes, but I won't show them, I won't show anyone, that's my own pre-exam review, in my opinion, the relationship between classmates is not as important as the first test, so I don't want to share, in my opinion, this is my own careful arrangement, so I don't need to share.

So I think it's all completely reasonable, just like in the college dormitory, you spend 40 yuan to buy a pound of strawberries yourself, and you don't want to give them to others, then you don't have to share them, why do you have to feel guilty for others questioning your character is not generous enough? If the role of Kaipeng is changed, others may not be willing to share it with you!

If you think about everything, will others be like this or that, then don't go over it, and your heart will be tired to death.

The relationship between people is a game, whether it is a classmate, a friend, a colleague, or a lover, it is a game, once you agree, you will always agree, refuse at the beginning, as long as you do not break the law, others will not treat you well.

So notes are such a thing, don't worry about borrowing or not borrowing, you can find a reason casually: put it at home, didn't bring it out or didn't have time to shoot ** and send it to you, or the note hibernated, whatever you want, or just say: I don't want to borrow, my notes don't lend anyone.

Don't feel that you are selfish not to lend notes to others, and if others want to borrow notes for nothing, and say a few words "thank you, you are so nice" afterwards, isn't it selfish?

1.How to see what a man's character is like only needs to be reflected through some small things.

2.There is no unified standard for judging whether a man is stingy, but some people in life who are stingy should be attributed to the habit of frugality in life.

3.Some men you think are stingy and quite generous at critical times, the key is to see that he is stingy in that regard.

4.In real life, there are many men who seem to be very generous, but in fact they are very selfish and picky. It's just that you don't have a deep understanding, and selfishness and pettiness don't necessarily have to exist at the same time.

5.Some so-called generous men are still very stingy at critical moments, and in the eyes of this kind of person, they only have themselves, and everything such as parents, wives and children is floating clouds.

6.It is often the people who everyone thinks are stingy that they will be conscientious to their families and parents.

7.Especially those so-called generous people who can speak well, they will only say one thing and do another.

8.This kind of person exists in a large part of the current society, and after getting acquainted with it, it gives people the feeling that they are ruthless and disgusting.

Stingy people are not necessarily selfish, because stinginess is a habit of some people, and sometimes some stinginess is still quite cute At least stinginess in life should be attributed to frugality in life (although it is a virtue, but it is not praiseworthy), it may be the lack of economic margin There is no money in hand or anything I get used to it after a long time Some stingy people are still quite knowledgeable at critical times, and some stinginess in some subsections can still be forgiven, and excessive stinginess is selfishness, Selfishness is a kind of mentality that some people have encountered in an emergency, and they only have their own people in their eyes, and they feel ruthless and disgusted at any place and at any time.

Look at his attitude and performance towards others.

Let him buy you something a little more expensive!