I felt like I lacked fatherly love. My dad was like a big man at home, and he never cared about me

To understand your feelings, what you need is that kind and kind fatherly love. However, father's love is not only this way of expression, in fact, father's love is the most difficult love in the world, only when you become a father yourself, or encounter things in life, slowly reminiscent, will you experience the slightest warmth. For example, as a bystander and a passer-by, to see you describe your father's actions, on the one hand, to understand your feelings, and on the other hand, to fully see your father's deep love for you...

It's normal that you don't understand now, and I'm not going to persuade you. But in any case, don't blame your father, let alone say things that hurt your parents like this, you will realize it one day...

Understand how you feel, your parents didn't raise you very well. But your education level should not be small, tiger poison does not eat this you should be able to understand it, no parents in the world do not want their children to be good, it may be because of the different education levels of each person, each person's family environment is different, the experience is different and their children have adopted this or that education method, your parents use frustration education, not incentive education, (of course, I personally think that incentive education will be much better) so you will have a misunderstanding, when you encounter setbacks in the future, When you think of how you came through the setbacks, you have to thank your parents, in fact, they have good intentions! In the future, when you are also a parent, you will understand!

As long as you communicate more with your parents and express your thoughts, I believe you will soon understand your parents!

In fact, you should believe that your parents love you, there is no pair of parents in the world who do not love their children, but some parents are too strict, that is to hope that their children can live well without their protection, they hide from you because there are some things that you can bear and can't afford, so they don't want you to bear it, please understand their good intentions, otherwise what is the purpose of buying insurance? Don't look at the endowment insurance, and so they will return after a hundred years, it will also leave you a fortune, but when they are still capable, pay some insurance so as not to bring you unnecessary trouble in the future, although it is natural for children to support the elderly, but your parents in order to add less trouble to you are also for you to pay insurance, please believe that they love you, if you can't stand even the strictness of your family, then how can you deal with things in the face of society in the future, you take your parents as a case for the time being, Do your own case, think of ways and methods to integrate into their world, what can they do if they say more and say less? Believe it or not, if someone else bullies you like this, it is your parents who don't let it, but don't easily verify anything, because it is a very sad thing, please firmly believe that if you really love them enough, then use your care to infect them, and tell you to love them with your own actions, I believe that time will prove everything, and they will be moved because of you.

Children who lack fatherly love from an early age are insecure. Timid. In the eyes of children, the father is the role of the "protector", and with a father comes a sense of security.

Children who lack fatherly love from an early age have no self-confidence. Because children are not accompanied by their fathers, they appear lonely and have low self-esteem. I can't do anything.

Children who lack fatherly love from an early age have no masculinity. Following her mother for a long time, the weak character of women affects children, especially boys who are "girlish".

Children who lack father's love from an early age are not decisive. Men are decisive and indecisive, and they affect their children all the time. But a child without a father is very different.

Children who lack father's love from an early age are more willful. Because the child does not have the discipline of a strict father, only the pampering and doting of a loving mother, he is always more willful than a normal child.

Was it your parents who divorced when you were very young? Or does your father leave you alone? It is true that a person lacks father's love or a person lacks mother's love, in fact, there is no big difference, but in the psychological aspect, there will be more or less something wrong.

Especially when you're young, it's really hard to understand things like this until you become an adult.

How old are you girl, did your mother hand you over as a sissy?

Let's give you a few suggestions First, find more good friends to chat with, be cheerful, don't always think about these things, your father will always be your father, and your blood is thicker than water.

Second, try to write a letter to your father, tell him your thoughts and worries and your pain, and believe that he will find an opportunity to talk to you properly.

Three, I personally think you should be young, or you should be a girl, at least a sensitive person. In fact, you have to understand that the more you grow, the farther away you will be from them, and you will go out to study or work. More and more rely on yourself, and when you mature, you will find that your parents are the people who love you the most in the world, and they will not leave.