How can I maintain a relationship? How can I maintain a relationship?

The most important thing for two people is trust, tolerance, and love. Don't always doubt something. In addition, if you stick together for a long time, you will get tired, so you have to spend a day a week or half a month not contacting each other and doing your own thing, so that each other will feel that they can't live without each other.

It's good to keep things fresh all the time. Two people may not love at first, but later, they will slowly love each other very much, no matter what shortcomings the other party has, they will be unconditionally tolerant, to believe that it is the person they choose, no matter what happens, they can only bear it, every relationship, there is sweetness and pain. But either way, it's all happy.

This has to be experienced by yourself, and the other thing is, whether the other party knows it or not, don't do or say anything that is sorry for the other party. Because paper can't always keep fire, I've always believed in this sentence. I am sure that you will be very happy.

Treat each other sincerely, really care about each other, think more about each other, do not be strong and self-centered, be more considerate and help each other, maintain daily communication, especially when encountering problems and ambiguities, calmly communicate and coordinate in order to reach a unified opinion rather than a momentary anger. As long as you have a good attitude and love in your heart, your actions and details will naturally be in the right direction, and you don't need to be deliberate.

Maintain it with your heart, so that the other party can realize that you treat him with sincerity, don't be careless, don't be rigid, don't compare, don't do evil, learn to be tolerant, and help others when they need help.

Everything goes with the flow, forcing is just a burden, the relationship should become a habit, don't become a burden, don't always think about how to maintain, but form a habit, I don't know if you understand this.

More communication, more understanding, more tolerance and more trust.

What feelings? Family, love, or friendship?

Feelings should have "interaction".

In the relationship between the two, there must be a certain interaction. This interaction is not just about booing the cold and asking for warmth, now everyone is running their own social networking, sharing life through the circle of friends is one of the easiest ways to connect emotionally, couples can simply interact with each other to like and respond, instead of turning a blind eye. A friend once told me that her boyfriend was a straight man and would not prepare a small surprise on any anniversary, telling her:

You know I love you, don't engage in some pseudo-rituals. "At that time, I listened to it and it was a speechless incident. Isn't that making excuses for yourself?

In addition, there is also a need for ideological interaction, and couples can have an in-depth communication on a regular basis to understand each other's thoughts, pay attention to each other's emotions, understand each other, and change their thinking angles.

Relatively independent and grow with each other.

There is a saying that when a guy falls in love, he does subtraction, while a girl does addition. In terms of gender, it is undeniable that there are differences in the way of thinking between boys and girls, with boys thinking in a straight line and girls being more emotional and sensitive. This is also one of the reasons for the contradiction.

Girls want boys to maintain a high degree of care at all times and continue to output steadily, but often many boys do not have enough "endurance" for their partners, at this time the girl Gao Lu is always in a passive role, waiting to be protected, eager to be cared for, suffering from gains and losses, and gradually began to find the other half of the trouble, boys also began to appear bored, and the love experience of both parties plummeted. This can't be completely attributed to the unilateral "work" of girls, because the fact that "boys are meant to be like this" to escape from the fact that they have a very low "endurance" is a sign of shirking responsibility.

As a girl, you need to subtract from increasing dependence. After the love period, you should learn to be relatively independent, distract your attention into your personal life, turn your expectations for your other half into an improvement for yourself, and be able to understand proportions and love yourself. It is also very beneficial for personal growth and relationships.

For boys, they need to keep their original intention at all times, and while they are independent, they must make their beloved girls feel safe, respect each other's ideas, take care of girls' emotions, and give each other more tolerance and understanding. The thinking mode of a straight line can sometimes have an arc. Feelings are mutual, let alone partners with intimacy.