The relationship between the two parties broke down because of the bride price, and the relationship

If so, there is no need to continue.

The bride price is nothing more than money, so it is piled up with money, and this feeling is always not strong, and one day the money disappears, and the feeling does not exist.

The bride price does not determine the future of two people, it is just an idea, and the collapse for this shows that there are uncertainties in your relationship itself.

If you both fall out over the bride price, it is best to find a person in charge who can speak well at home, and it is also feasible to make peace in the middle. Times have changed, and now the standard of living is improving. Feelings still come first, and the bride price is not a big problem.

I'm sure there was a misunderstanding in this. It is okay to make a step forward with each other. Marriage is a lifelong event for both of you, as long as the two of you have feelings wholeheartedly, others can also solve it.

Because the bride price is scattered, it's a pity. Or think carefully and think twice.

You can continue to negotiate, if everyone is not willing to compromise, then you have to break up, the bride price should be done within your means, do not put forward the other party is difficult to achieve the number, otherwise everyone is bargaining for the bride price, even if you get married, it will cause hidden dangers for your future life, do not go to both sides to be calm, negotiate well, do not make both parties embarrassed, live with each other, the real good life still depends on the joint efforts of the husband and wife to create their own happy life.

It is necessary to go on and on, the bride price can be revisited. But the relationship between two people is the most important thing in love.

The two parties fell out because of the bride price, of course the relationship should not continue, because the bride price means that it is because of the relationship of money, since money is so important, then the relationship must not get along, so this must be thought out clearly, because marriage is a lifelong thing after all.

I don't think it's necessary, because the bride price collapse must be due to the emotional foundation is not very good, then a marriage without feelings has no practical meaning, and it is better to break up completely!

There's no need, calculations come and go, the days don't have to pass, there must be constant quarrels, and there may be fights

After reading your narrative, I think that if the relationship between the two of you is good, but the two parents are unhappy for the bride price, I think you can do the work of both parents for your happiness and don't ruin the relationship for the bride price, this is my opinion.

The bride price is something outside the body, if the relationship is good, don't break the relationship between the two for a little bride price!

Now that you've turned your face, why continue?

Let's start a new relationship again, and then, don't turn your face over money.

Regarding the bride price, I will tell you a fact that you have made up your mind. The two broke up with a bride price, and they were destined not to go together, and they had been in emotional counseling for many years. Because breaking up with the bride price is not a bad thing, as long as you break up in the marriage theory, it is a blessing.

To tell the truth, a friend of mine resolutely opposed the act of accepting gifts before marriage, and when he got married, he should not put gifts, houses, cars, and family members in harmony when he got married, and his mother-in-law praised his daughter-in-law for being really sensible, and her husband was also happy to set up the image of "Our Lady" in the man's house, but after marriage, her mother-in-law advised her husband to pay a salary card and want pure love, but marriage is different.

It can illuminate your true weight in his heart. But if you really don't want anything, he probably won't be grateful. And you'll take it for granted.

So it is not the bride price that destroys your relationship, but the illusion of love. Expect too much from each other. Everyone, many men hold a bride price over there, so high, why not mention the dowry?

Objectively speaking, a man's bride price and a woman's dowry are both start-up funds for building a new family. After all, the money was spent by itself. You think the bride price is too high.

You can ask a woman for the same dowry. People who want a bride price talk about marriage and say that they are not ready to give a direct bride price, what they don't want to give is to look at your flash, don't want a bride price, and the bride price should also be married.

The point is that I am afraid that I don't have any merit and don't want to marry my wife by just relying on ceremony. Do you think that the bride price is a test for your husband and her in-laws, do you think your husband did not score points when he fell in love at what economic level? It can be reasonably considered.

Blindly unwilling to have too many in-laws, there will be many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, and those who have no problems are destined not to say it. Because the affection for money is not destined to last. Both sides are always thinking about their own interests, always thinking about deficits, and they can't go.

If you get married, you will get married, others will do nothing, do not do things that are sorry for others, do not take money and run away, live well, and do not care about gains and losses, you will be happy. Girls don't have to talk about money when they fall in love.

Marriage must be discussed, otherwise you will get married and have children. You will find that love cannot compete with firewood, rice, oil and salt. Medical expenses cannot be reduced.

I think it's okay to get married. Can't be together. Can't be together.

The bride price and the like can only tell stories, break up if it doesn't make sense, don't dwell on this kind of meaningless thing, love yourself a little more. Do you want to continue to talk about the relationship of the breakdown of the bride price? Look at the woman more gifts you can't give me.

It's your right, and if you don't get a gift, I can't marry you. This is not much free money, what is the concept of this money for your family, can collapse because the man does not think that the couple is a family in his heart, but because the man and his mother-in-law are a family, they think that their fiancée is an outsider.

There is no need to go on, because two people can't agree before marriage, and they can't even handle something as simple as the bride price, so there is no need to continue to be together.

Of course, there is no need to go on, because mentioning money is particularly hurtful, and the two have already made such an embarrassing quarrel, even if they continue to be together, they are not as sweet as before.

In fact, it doesn't matter who pays, you can invite friends to dinner, you can also accept friends to treat, you can AA system, you can make a part. As long as everyone can talk, they can have a good time.

However, if you are stiff and fall out because of the problem of paying the bill, is it still necessary to eat this meal?

Marriage is the same, the bride price is not necessary, but it is not the original sin, as long as the two parties can negotiate, how much bride price to give or not to give the bride price is not a question at all, but if the negotiation collapses for money, the marriage is not concluded. Don't argue about right and wrong, there is no right or wrong!

So material continues? Because the end of the money is a stop loss, she doesn't love you she loves money more.

There is no need for this relationship to go any further, because the two of you can't agree on the bride price, and you've already broken up, and even if you barely get back together, the relationship is not as good as it used to be.

There is no need for this relationship to go on, even if it is a marriage after the end of the mistake, because of the bride price, there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage.

If the talk collapses, break up.

When many girls talk about marriage, they talk about the bride price with the man, the small one is tens of thousands, and the big one is one or two hundred thousand. Many marriages are also disagreed when talking about the bride price, and the feelings are discussed out of hatred, the man suspects the woman more, the woman suspects the man less, and the marriage collapses. The woman said that the bride price is a heart, a process, given to the woman, and the woman still marries.

The man said that the bride price was his parents' money and had to be repaid. If you don't give it, life won't be easy. Why do you need this bride price to fall on the resentment of your mother-in-law?

There is also a kind of non-marriage, and the in-laws are also all kinds of scolding, saying that you wanted a lot of dowry, which is embarrassing for the in-laws. If the dowry is not taken out, there will be no happiness in this marriage, and the bride price has become a stalk between the two families.

The two young people who have just started a family and do not have much savings. In modern society, women also have to work to earn money to support their families, so why do men have to buy houses? If the man buys the house in full, and there is no share of the woman, even if you add your name, you still have no property rights in law, so why quarrel and hurt feelings.

Some men only pay a down payment for a house, but after marriage, the woman has to bear the burden of family life or the mortgage, which is also unfair to the woman. Or it is unreasonable for the man to go out of the house and ask the woman to decorate and buy a car. The value of the house will appreciate, the decoration and the car will depreciate, and the woman's efforts will be at a loss.

The best model of marriage is partnership:When getting married, it is best for both men and women to contribute half of each in the house and car, and it is best to pay the full amount, that is, parents reduce the burden on their children, and children are responsible for living a good life; If you can't afford to pay in full, everyone will make a down payment, decorate it and let the children live by themselves, and they will bear the mortgage by themselves, which is also a responsibility in life. Parents are really incapable, so both sides struggle on their own.

Either way, men and women pay half, and both parties share it, and no one loses. If possible, the man gives a bride price of tens of thousands of yuan to express his gratitude to the woman's parents for their nurturing grace, and the girl's family is also grateful, after all, the children born in the future will first take the man's surname.

In the matter of bride price, I am most afraid that the man will endlessly comply with the woman, and in the end, his family will work very hard to exchange the bride price, and he is also the most taboo to slap a swollen face and become fat.

According to the actual situation, if the family is rich, there will be more, and if the family is ordinary, discuss and strive to be within the range that the family can afford. Judging from the various things of buying a house and decorating, the woman has no responsibility to pay or take on it. Marriage is reciprocal, it is a joint effort, a common burden, and a joint operation, and it is an equal balance between the two parties.

The man can't always be a licking dog and indulge the woman, otherwise the marriage will not last long. Rights and obligations must be reciprocal. The dowry is equal to the bride price.

The contribution is equal to the signature of the house. Generally speaking, when the other party feels that they have made a big concession and they still find it difficult to cope, it is already irreversible.

Finally, it is recommended that you meet and have a deep talk, control yourself, do not make noise, do not make trouble, lay out facts, talk about love, and don't try to reason, especially don't reason with women. It is best to talk about it, and if it is not good, I personally persuade you to break up. To say that it is ugly, think the woman to the extreme.

First of all, it is the decision of the two of you to get married.

Then they each informed their own families that they could do as much as they could. You are like this, to be honest, your mind is immature, and your parents' pension money has to be hollowed out for your own marriage? Is it too selfish to be a son, the woman's behavior is not right or wrong for the time being, after all, there are many people like this.

The obvious question that can be discussed has been turned into a multiple-choice question. With this kind of black-and-white thinking, there is no way to negotiate or come up with a solution. Those things that happen in the middle of the relationship, can only say that one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer.

Brother, I hope you can see the reality clearly and turn back as soon as possible.

Judging from the current social situation, marriage has slowly become a "bride price", which also exerts more pressure on the man, and in this regard, there are many couples in daily life who do not get their own love because of the bride price problem. What if the relationship between the two is in a very bad mood because of the bride price?

1. Do something you love to do.

The relationship between the two is hindered by the relationship that cannot be obtained because of the collapse of the bride price, which is indeed a very headache and sad thing. If you are in a sad mood, then you need to let our emotions be released accordingly, and at this time, you can do something you like to relieve your emotions. For example:

Listening, visiting shopping malls, traveling, playing basketball, etc. are all very good choices, and I believe they can also relieve their emotions.

2. Maintain the relationship between the two.

If the relationship between the two people does not fluctuate in any way because of financial resources, then we must maintain the relationship between the two people, so as to avoid making ourselves more sad and sad. After all, marriage is the biggest thing in life, and the premise that there can be changes in the bride price is that the relationship between the two is unbreakable. I believe that my parents must be for my own good, and I don't have to blame my parents when I encounter such a situation, I should find a suitable opportunity to discuss with my parents, and I believe that the feelings between two people will definitely impress my parents, and eventually usher in the married life between the two.

The above points are my personal opinion, and I hope it will be of some help to you to a greater or lesser extent. In marriage, the bride price is also a more important part, it is a very good guarantee in marriage, but we must not affect the relationship between the two because of the bride price, so as to usher in the happiness that truly belongs to usher.

First of all, we must actively communicate with our parents, do not stick to the rules, and put forward another set of plans, which has a certain degree of reasonableness, but it is not that we cannot make concessions, and we do not come up with some alternatives flexibly, so that Dayou is more acceptable and not too stubborn.

But on the issue of marriage, the woman should also have her own opinion, after all, marriage is a matter for your young couple, and the opinions of your parents are just a reference, marriage is not for your parents, and you have to make up your own mind for your own life. The bride price is not the parents' pension money, and both men and women should have their own plans on the issue of honoring their parents, and discuss the pension plan before marriage instead of discussing how to use the bride price money to support their parents. Parents take their daughter's bride price money personally despised, ** there is a little bit of parents' love for their daughter.

Marriage is for both people to have a better life. Neither party should get married if the standard of living has dropped significantly because of the marriage. In order to get married, the man will give everything he has and even go into debt, what hope is there for life after marriage.

Men and women should be as equal as possible. Biological differences or social factors make the responsibilities of men and women different, so equality here does not mean that men and women must do the same thing, and both sides should think about their own views from the perspective of the other and whether the demands are reasonable.

When the woman tests the man with the bride price, the man is also testing the woman, and the woman feels that the bride price is not enough to pay attention to the woman, and the man will also feel that the bride price is too high and is inconsiderate to the woman. It is even more unacceptable for a man to get married, bankrupt his family, and a woman to get married.

The ability to face problems objectively. Whether it is love or family affection, in the face of specific problems, especially big problems, you still have to be objective and rational, and you can't think hysterically about the benefits just because you are boyfriend and girlfriend or relatives, resulting in problems that cannot be treated objectively, and will eventually leave hidden dangers or the breakdown of a relationship. Better a finger off than always aching.