I have a lot to say but I don t know how to say it

Personally, I think it depends on who you want to say these words to, if it is addressed to someone who you think is more important, you can write these words first, because once a person writes foul words, some people are better at using words to express, you will find that the words you write will be more organized, the context is clearer, if you feel that you will actually write it will be afraid. You just think about what you are afraid of, what is afraid that he will change his attitude towards you when he hears this sentence, or whether he thinks that you are not what he thinks, in fact, there is no difference between the two, because what he knows you may only be the image in his mind, and the real you only know that we don't have to live so tired, and the real self is shown. The best state for two people to get along with each other is the state where they feel comfortable with each other.

If you think twice and still want to say it, either say it, otherwise you will feel that you regret life is no regrets, but if you say it to make others uncomfortable, for example, to belittle others, it is recommended that you don't say that you can only say how you feel about others and what he does to you, don't label others, because what you see is just a piece of his life and a micromolecular dance, and people will change.

Everyone has a thought process when speaking, and if there is a lot to say, they must learn to communicate, say what is in their hearts in communication, speak with a clue, highlight the theme, and don't deviate from the theme.

Therefore, learn to express more in ordinary times, don't talk in a hurry, and say everything in your heart, this is the process of expression.

Maybe you have a desire to talk to people, but you don't know what to say, or you find it difficult to speak, you may feel that others may not understand when you say it, maybe this is the reason why everyone has a secret!

People will always think more or less about what to say when doing things in many cases, how to do how to say better, at this time you have to think for a long time, often at this time you have to refine the key points, think about what is the most important, and then what is the second most important, what is not so important. Quickly settle down after the distinction, and then don't think about it anymore, so that the decision is basically no big deal.

If you like someone, try to take a few steps towards her. But if she sees you coming, she never wants to greet you. Then you stop and stop trying to get close to her and impress her.

Many things can be achieved by struggle, but love cannot. Love depends on two people attracting each other, not one person's efforts.

That's because you're not looking for the right person. If you find the right person, you can say it all.

First of all, think about how to say it, where to start, and who to talk to, these are all things to consider, otherwise it will be very embarrassing.

I don't know if you have this feeling: when facing your parents, you always have a lot to say, but you always dig at the moment of opening, your mouth is tightly closed, you can't say anything, you know what you want to say in your heart, but you can't say anything.

I recently went home and thought I hadn't been back for a long time. I simply packed my luggage and went home, thinking that I could talk to my parents when I got home, and spend more time with my elderly parents, however, when I sat face to face, my parents were asking, and I was playing with my mobile phone.

I always feel that I don't talk as much as when I was a child, and I even feel that my parents have become cautious when facing us, and they talk about irrelevant topics, so I am afraid that I will say the wrong thing carefully.

I still remember a few years ago, when I came out to look for a job, my parents were always worried that I would not eat well outside, and every time I went out, they would pack up a lot of food for me. With the passage of time, my parents gradually got old, and they had little ability to work, and the things they packed up to eat gradually disappeared in the reduced chance of going home again and again.

Since I was a child, I have been reporting good news and not bad news, and I don't like to talk to my family very much, and with the busy work, I go home less and less, and before I know it, my parents have learned to look at my face and say.

For a few days at home, I was like a stranger, polite at dinner, and there was not much communication between going in and out, and gradually I found that my parents became the most familiar strangers in our lives.

In the past, they would call a ** when there was a small thing, saying what was wrong, but now they have learned to solve the problem by themselves, unless they really can't solve it, they will call ** to tell me, and they won't say anything else.

After discovering this phenomenon, I began to wonder if I was really working so hard just to have a better future for myself or because I was afraid that my parents would not be able to help me when they were in trouble.

And then every day from college to now, I don't know what I did before? Looking at the classmates who were with me, they had such a rich life in their own school. I made an appointment to come out to play, but I shouted that I was too busy and didn't have time.

Watching them have their own business, and me? At that time, I thought I was an idler. Gradually, I became less motivated than before, and I just stayed in my dorm room every day and watched TV series to pass the boring time.

I read so many inspirational articles, so many things to do in college, and examples of how to make college rich, but I missed the years when I could make good memories. There was no planning at the beginning, no effort at the beginning, no performance at the beginning.

I don't think I'm bad, but it's not you.

Some people say that if you don't fall in love in college, you will regret it in the future.

Maybe because of his personality, he won't easily express his liking to others, but he will care about him in the little things in life. He was my high school classmate, but we're friends now. He will tell me everything, I will tell him everything, and the people around him think that we are suitable, that we have the right personality, that we are the right person.

After graduating from high school, I had a lot of fate with him, and my first and second choices were the same school. And it's even more coincidental that we were transferred to the same school together. He is the kind of person who has strength and skills, so he flourished in school, joined the student union and added clubs to start college life.

More than half a year later, we are still friends. But others say we're becoming more and more like a couple.

I don't know if he likes me.

Is it because the inner drama is too much, and I finished a scene in my heart.

It may be that the gentleness and movements he gave were thought of as liking.

I also blamed myself for being too timid to boldly express my thoughts.

Maybe he's too bright to hug.

People who like to be motivated, but feel that they are too humble.

He once told me that he had a crush on girls, but they weren't together.

Isn't there a game that's very popular right now?

He took a screenshot to show me.

It's a little bad in my heart. It's all cold to him today. Because I'm afraid that I won't be able to hold back my words as soon as I open my mouth.

Why do you like a distant person, because he shines?

As soon as you appear, others are just like that.

Knowing the purpose of the conversation is a prerequisite for a successful conversation. Only when the purpose is clear, can we know what topics and materials should be prepared, what conversation style to adopt, and what skills to use, so as to achieve a targeted and on-the-spot response. If the purpose of the conversation is unclear and rambling, it is not only a waste of time, but also a faux pas.

Therefore, before the conversation, think about the desired effect in advance and work hard for it, and make adequate preparations is a necessary condition for a successful conversation.

2.Logical, pay attention to levels, and have clear ideas. Question ......Be clear, don't mess up into a pot of porridge, don't know what to do.

Everyone has to be logical when they speak. Speaking logically and methodically, the receiver can clearly extract the meaning you want to convey, so that it is easy to communicate and will not be misunderstood. The logic of speaking is not innate, but needs to be cultivated through learning and continuous training.

3.Be vivid, use vivid and simple language to explain your own views, and avoid empty words and clichés. The language of daily speech and communication does not need any flowery rhetoric, beautiful rhetoric or anything, as long as you can express your thoughts very accurately and clearly, the more easy to understand the language, the better, so that the recipient can understand the meaning of what he wants to express.

4.mentality, make the necessary preparations in advance, and not rush into battle. The mindset of the conversation is very important, and it is normal to be nervous and reserved during important conversations.

However, when talking in general, there is no need to be nervous and reserved, and it is necessary to communicate with people with a relaxed mind, and your thinking will be relaxed. But relaxation is not the same as not caring and being aggressive, but communicating with others with an attitude of equality, sincerity and respect. The mindset of a conversation varies greatly depending on who you are talking to, the atmosphere of the conversation, and what you are talking about.

Observe and say hello first, and if you don't know how to speak, ask how you are doing, what you need help to do for you, and contact you often.