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Anonymous users2024-02-13Acceptance: Introversion isn't entirely a bad thing, introversion has the advantages and benefits of being introverted:
1 Introverts tend to be more observant and think more deeply.
2 Introverts have a stable temperament, generally do not take the initiative to cause trouble, and are not easy to offend others.
3 Easier to focus. It is easier to take root in certain fields and make achievements and contributions.
4 Inner emotions and feelings are richer and more delicate. It is easier to experience and feel the inner thoughts of others, and to develop empathy and understanding.
Analysis: Introversion is neither scary nor shameful. A lot of good people are also introverts.
Introversion is just one of many personality traits, not all of you, and can't hide the rest of your aura. Everyone has so many shortcomings (and introversion is not a disadvantage), but to achieve success, it is enough to bring out the best in the world.
Social skills can be learned and cultivated, and they are not necessarily related to introversion and extroversion.
Attitude: Grow and gain in solitude, and enjoy yourself.
Allow yourself to be introverted.
While accepting yourself as an introvert, you gradually adapt to your interactions with others and increase the topics of communication.
Don't be afraid to owe favors. Don't be afraid to trouble others and feel that you can't get away. People are built up because of each other's troubles.
If you can't find a topic to talk to, then you can also be silent and smile. Even if you don't speak, it's enough to listen. Sometimes being a quiet listener can be reassuring and comfortable for the person who is talking.
Method: Learn more and learn about some knowledge, hot topics, and jokes to prepare for communicating with people.
Participate in group-type sports hobbies. In extroverted interest interactions, a person's social skills will slowly improve.
Participate in social activities, learn about social networking (see Getting along with others for details), and take the initiative to meet new people.
Try to cultivate a warm and sincere attitude and take the initiative to greet people, which will forget and ease your introversion in interpersonal interactions.
Pay attention to other people's world and focus less on yourself.
Get in touch with people with cheerful personalities.
Do sales, participate in debates, etc., and speak actively.
Children's education: 1. Actively encourage children to take the initiative to speak, communicate with children more often, and encourage and guide children to communicate with other children.
2 Encourage your child to try and not be afraid to fail.
3. Nurture your child's interests and hobbies, and encourage your child to take the initiative to participate in social activities.
4. Create a harmonious family atmosphere so that introverted children are more willing to express themselves.
5. Exercise your child's independence. Communicate more with the outside world, and parents create more conditions for children to accomplish something independently. Like buying something.
6 After the epidemic is over, take your children to visit relatives and friends, and socialize with children in the community.
1.Create a warm environment for communication.
When the child breaks the alarm clock at home, when the child scribbles on the wall at home, please take a deep breath, control the volume and pitch of your voice, sit down with the child, listen carefully to the child, and do not blame and educate at will. >>>More
Tell him that you want to talk to him, but of course you have to have a topic in mind. As for whether or not you are still on the subject later, it depends on your ability, but here I want to emphasize that if you talk for ten minutes or still talk about the same topic at the beginning, then you have failed, and if you have long since deviated from the original topic, and are still talking about something completely irrelevant with great interest, then you have succeeded. >>>More
1. Talk to your child as early as possible. As soon as the children are born, we talk to them, such as "let's eat mommy", "let's go change diapers", "mom dad hug" and so on. >>>More
Engage with the outside world. Do what you haven't tried. For example, when you take the train, don't be a sleeper, make a seat, and try to talk to all kinds of people. Read more books and be good at talking, and it is best to do sales and forge a superfluous person communication.
In fact. To raise a gregarious, optimistic, and sociable child, it is important to start by eliminating the factors that cause the child to be introverted. >>>More