Do newlyweds have to stay in the marital room for three days?

Under normal circumstances, it is necessary to rest in the marriage room for three days, and the marriage room cannot be empty after marriage, which is a traditional custom, and some places also say that three months is the best.

But now the society is more enlightened, more out of superstitious traditional customs, and more often many newlyweds go out on their honeymoon the second day after marriage, and they don't have to live in the marriage room for three days and three nights, or even three months. So you don't have to mind these things too much, just follow your heart.

Feelings are determined by the care of your mutual relationship, and it has nothing to do with these, fortune or something, I believe that you continue to improve yourself, and you will always grasp it for the first time in the face of opportunities, so success depends on people and not on heaven. You don't have to believe what you don't have.

Of course, if the elderly in the family mind, then let them be, there is nothing that you can't compromise, many times think more about the feelings of others, and life will be more harmonious.

Keeping the marriage room is a folk custom.

There is a big gap between the south and the north of this traditional custom, especially in the north, especially in Henan, Shandong and other places, and the new house for marriage needs to be lived in for about one month to three months. In the south, Jiangsu and Zhejiang are said to be married, and the new house needs to be lived in for about three days.

For example, in areas where ethnic minorities are concentrated, there are no similar habits.

The new house must be of great significance to the newcomer. When we arranged the wedding, we also spent a lot of effort on the decoration of the wedding room. But if something unexpected happens on the wedding day, the couple may no longer sleep in the marital room, and must they sleep in the new room on the wedding night?

At this time, it is important to understand the common customs and sayings.

Do I have to sleep in a new house on the night of my wedding?

Not required. According to the older generation, on the wedding night, it is best to have someone sleep in the wedding room. Nowadays, many young people are holding their weddings in hotels, and if there is no one living in the wedding room at home on the night of the wedding, you can also put a pair of your own slippers in the bedroom, which is equivalent to someone in this room.

As a result, we can also give the new house to someone else on the wedding day, and there is no big taboo.

Other things about the wedding room:

1. Wedding photos.

Many people like to use their wedding photos when decorating their wedding room. Wedding photos are very suitable for hanging on the wall at the end of the bed, or make small wedding photos and place them on the bedside table, which can be seen when you open your eyes after waking up before going to bed every day, which has the effect of enhancing the relationship between husband and wife. However, the wedding photo should not be hung above the head of the bed, which will invisibly increase the sense of instability and depression when the newlyweds sleep, but it is not beautiful; It is also not advisable to put the wedding photo in the corridor, or be directly rushed by the window or door, which means that the anger is straight and affects the relationship between the husband and wife.

2. Old things.

Some people seem to think that it is a good thing to miss the old love, but in love and marriage, thinking about the old love means that you cannot effectively cut off the past affairs, which will not only bring the previous bad feng shui into the newlywed cave room, but also plant a time bomb for the future couple's relationship, which has to be guarded against.

3. Decorative materials are contraindicated.

The glass is negative and cold, and the bedroom should not be placed with cold materials. Iron beds, wrought iron products, plastic carpets, plastic floor tiles, granite floor tiles, etc. are not suitable for use. Because iron is yin, plastic carpets and plastic floor tiles are insulators and cannot raise the earth's air.

Granite floor tiles produce radon gas, which is not good for the respiratory system.

4. Mirror placement.

From the perspective of Feng Shui, mirrors can be used to "dispel evil", but because of the reflection effect, there are many taboos, so the placement is extremely particular. First of all, the mirror in the bedroom should not be taken with the wedding dress. If the wedding photos of the couple are reflected in the mirror, it is equivalent to copying a couple, which may cause discord between the husband and wife!

Secondly, the mirror should not be placed on the bedside table, because placing the bedside can easily cause insomnia, headaches, and poor energy, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife and increase quarrels. Moreover, it is said that putting the mirror on the bedside table will affect the preparation for pregnancy, so the babies who are preparing for pregnancy must not step on the thunder. On the day of the wedding, it is best to cover the mirrors in the wedding room with a red cloth.

This is not necessarily, I didn't live in a new house when I got married, we did it in a hotel, and there was nothing particular about it at that time, as long as two people love each other in ** marriage is the same, but it is still recommended to live in a new house when getting married, after all, that place is the crystallization of the love of the two of you, and it is also very good to have a good memory.

Generally speaking, 15 days is fine, but generally you don't need to pay attention to those traditional customs, you can stay for a few more days if you like it, and stay a few days less if you don't like it.

In the new era and new society, there is no need to care too much about the customs of historical relics.

It is not recommended for the couple to live in a new house before marriage, the new house symbolizes starting from a new beginning, and it is better to live in a lottery after marriage. If the newlyweds are not taboo with this statement, they can stay in advance. There are harmful gases in the newly renovated new house, and it is better to live in it after the gas is dissipated.

It is best to dress up the new house in advance, so that you can modify the dress style of the new house at any time.

It is not recommended for couples to live in a new house before getting married

The new house symbolizes that everything starts anew, and there is a saying that it is good to please the bride, hoping that the newlyweds can live happily and sweetly after marriage, so it is not recommended that the newlyweds live in the wedding room in advance. Many young people no longer taboo this statement, and the newlyweds will not have an impact on the newlyweds' life after marriage.

There may be formaldehyde or other harmful gases in the newly renovated new house, and it may not be good for your health if you live in the new house in advance, so it is best not to live in advance, and it is better to move in after the harmful gases in the room are dissipated.

It is best to dress up the new house in advance, which can add a festive atmosphere to the new house, and also leave enough space for the layout and decoration of the wedding room, so that the style of the dress can be modified at any time. The arrangement of the wedding room should not be too early, otherwise the balloon may leak.

The decoration of the wedding room is not only important, but also has requirements for the wedding room on the wedding day, such as the things that are placed, the people who go in and out, so which people can not enter the marriage room, naturally for some places, especially in the countryside, there are many taboos, although it is unnecessary, but the wedding day is still very noteworthy for some people, after all, not everyone wants to make the perfect a little flawed.

Who cannot enter the marriage room is probably the same in China, and there is not much difference between the north and the south in this regard. Marriage is a big event for both families of the newlyweds, and it is also a matter of congratulations for the relatives of both sides, so the relatives of both sides also know that they will not make some ugly things in such an auspicious matter, so both parties will more or less avoid it, and the traditional culture believes that the following three types of people cannot enter the new house, so as not to put pressure on the newlyweds; But in today's civilized society of the 21st century, everything is based on science, and there is basically no such thing anymore.

One: Widow. In many rural areas in China, there are some taboos about the presence of widows for many things, because there will still be some old feudal ideas in the countryside, they will think that widows are incomplete people, a couple of people become half people, although many people will still take care of the widow's feelings, but they will still politely refuse.

But in today's society, a widow is likewise a complete personality, a sound person. As long as the heart is blessed to the newlyweds, there should be no discrimination.

Two: A woman without a son. In the countryside, as we all know, some people's feudal thinking is still very serious, they think that not giving birth to a son is a representative of unfilial piety, as the so-called "unfilial piety has three, no queen is the greatest", because of this, many rural women especially hope that they can give birth to a son, if they do not give birth to a son but give birth to a daughter, so they will be held by some views of the in-laws, and they will also be treated very angrily.

Now it seems that this statement is completely unsupported by theory. Both men and women are equal, and as a bride is also the daughter of someone else's family, if women themselves discriminate against women, then marriage will not be truly fair.

Three: Divorced women. In many places, they are not very popular, even if they get married again, others will look at them in a strange light, so many people will not let divorced women enter the marriage room when they get married, even if this person is a person who is very close to them.

A wedding is a happy event, and everything related to it must not be sloppy. In today's society, there are still some areas that adhere to traditional culture, and we respect Chinese traditions, but we should also promote positive energy and treat everyone rationally and equally.

1.Pregnant women cannot enter the marriage room, there are 3 theories, the first is that it will collide with the fetal god, which will cause the newlyweds to be infertile. The second is because Xi Chongxi will affect the fortune of the newlyweds in the future.

Of course, there is no basis for these statements, and this column believes that the third statement is correct, because there will be a lot of people on the wedding day, in order to avoid pregnant women being bumped into.

2.People who have white things in the near future should not enter the wedding room of the newlyweds, and in most places in our country, when there are white things in the family, they generally do not participate in the happy event for a year. Even if you are invited, you will not be polite or politely refused.

3.In our traditional customs, there is such a saying that the joy of the newlyweds can be happy for the seriously ill, but in fact it consumes the joy of the newlyweds. Therefore, people who have just recovered from a serious illness are not suitable to enter the marriage room of the newlyweds.

4.People who have recently married should not enter the marriage room, because in our customs there is a saying that joy is joyful, and the meeting of two happy events will lead to the fortune of the weaker party.

For example, people who are pregnant, have hyperlipidemia and high blood pressure, or have children and diseases are not allowed to enter, because it is unlucky.

For example, some pregnant women and children, as well as the elderly over 90 years old, both parents are not allowed to enter the marriage room, otherwise they do not pay attention to etiquette.

In some places, no one is allowed to enter the wedding room, except for the bride and groom, and there are also places where the father-in-law and father-in-law are forbidden to enter the marriage room and so on.