I don t help my dad with farm work, and dozens of elders in my family are angry with me?

Parents are very hard at home farming, as children have the obligation to share the hard work of their parents, if you don't help your parents do farm work, the elders must be angry, thinking that you are ignorant and unfilial, in fact, you are just busy, no matter how much time you take out to help them, they will also be very happy, do you just watch them tired?

What a big family this is, and there are dozens of elders. If you're at home, it's right to help your parents with farm work. If you have a job, you can't help your parents with farm work. What others say is someone else's business.

I don't help me, I don't help my father's family with farm work, and dozens of elders in the family are angry with me. I think that's your fault, you must help your parents do more farm work. Alleviate parental fatigue.

If you don't help your parents, you are not filial, and your children are the support of your parents, so you should help them more and care for them in your daily life. If you don't help your parents, not only will your elders look down on you, everyone will look down on you, caring for your parents is the obligation and responsibility of your children, and you are a person with a future in the hearts of people.

You are really not good enough, the elders can't stand it, you should reflect on yourself, why don't you help your father do farm work, what is filial piety, what is care, what is family affection, it is not easy for parents to raise you, you must be grateful, you must have a grateful heart, try to help the family do some work within your ability, so that your parents are happy.

I think that's really what you're doing wrong, otherwise there wouldn't be so many elders angry with you, and if you have the ability to do farm work, you should help your father do more tiring work.

If you don't help your father's family with farm work, it's really not very filial. If you are busy with work, it doesn't matter, if you don't have anything to do, you just don't help your father's family with farm work, which is really unacceptable to the elders.

As a child, what you can definitely do when you become an adult, try to help your parents share some of it, and if you are lazy all day long, no one will look down on you.

If you don't have time to help with farm work at home. You can contribute some money and let them find someone to plow or harvest with a machine.

After all, you are already so old, you should help the family share a little, maybe the family is more difficult, if you don't help the family work, and you don't earn wages, then the family may be more realistic, and I don't want to support you in vain, you should go out and find a job by yourself.

Your family thinks you're too lazy and sends you to the south to exercise so that you can mature and find a job on your own.

At 19 years old, I think you should be able to tell the difference between what your parents are saying is true and false.

It's okay to deceive children with these words.

Isn't it useless to say to you?

No matter what your parents' intentions are, your attitude towards life is to change.

A person, no matter how good he is, needs to work hard.

I hope you can make a difference and give your parents peace of mind.

Your family sees that you don't work at home. Asking you to go out to work is to make you form the habit of living independently.

The family wants you to do some housework to ease the burden on your parents. It also allows you to grow your ability to live independently. It's actually helping you grow as a person.

Stop talking nonsense, your family is also for your good, go out and exercise yourself.

The golden wind is cool, and the osmanthus is fragrant. Farmers have no time to appreciate the magnificence and beauty of nature. The golden millet is ripe. Autumn is the harvest season for farmers. My ancestors were farmers.

Your father is working so hard, and he also wants to earn more money, one may be worry-free for his retirement, and the other is not to leave more for you.

It's just that his heart is a little big, but his ability is insufficient, and he can't do it alone, so he can only pull your whole family.

You can persuade him well, or ask relatives and friends to help persuade him to plant less land, after all, time is not forgiving.

is already a husband, still entrusted?

It depends on the situation, when you are doing farm work, is your family idle, and he is doing it alone?

Or did you suffer any grievances when you were doing farm work?

If you don't have any, and you're just angry with you because you did farm work, then you have to think about the scum, who can not work if Bi Wang quietly dismantles it?

Then it depends on why he is angry because he is angry because he does a little farm work, if he can't do a little farm work before renting, this kind of person generally can't endure hardship, after all, in the field facing the loess with his back to the sky, often going down to the field can be forgiven, so you can see whether the person can endure hardship, what is the person's character, what is the patience, if you really can't bear this bit of hardship, you think about it yourself, what kind of man you need, is it worth it.

I'm already in college, or I'll be able to find a job on my own in a few years, which is good, at least you can live alone or with the people you love As long as you follow what I say, graduate well, get a job well, and be able to support yourself, everything will be as beautiful as a rainy day! My family is not harmonious, so I am anxious to graduate and work and want to have my own life, my classmates may get along very well with their families, and they are willing to continue to go to graduate school, I really don't want to spend their money anymore, because they always say that they gave birth to me and raised me, and I am still disobedient to spend their money, which makes me very aggrieved, I think more than once, how good it would be if I grew up in a welfare home, without my parents to control me, all kinds of morals kidnap me. But think about it again, there are qualified parents who have children and raise them, but they have a bad temper and don't know how to love their children, they haven't read many books, and they can't learn the more civilized way of education in modern society.

If you can look at their childhood, you may be able to see that when they become parents, they treat their children much less brutally than their own parents treated them when they were children.

They are understandably wrong, we are not mature and stable adults, good parents should learn to take care of their children more, although your parents are not what you want (and so am I), but they are not the kind of bad parents that are often seen on the news.

At most, they don't know how to take into account the self-esteem of our generation of children, they don't know how to love us, and they don't know how to speak. Then we, in the future, work and live independently on their own, they need living expenses, give them enough living expenses, parents always say that we can't afford the money they spend on us, I think they underestimate our generation, our generation earns more money than them, they think we can't afford it, probably because of the hard life before, they raised us in the case of extreme lack of money to take out the money to pay for our tuition. As long as we can provide for them in the future, just like they pulled us up, when they are inconvenient, we can take care of them with our parents, just like when we were children, we can't eat, can't walk, and always wet the bed, we will live with a clear conscience, who doesn't want a good family?

If you can't change them, then change yourself, at least we're good kids (I don't think it's necessary to treat them as badly as our parents treat us did).

My mother is all kinds of unpleasant words hit me, so that I once had low self-esteem, I want to maintain a cold attitude with her now, because in this way she has restrained a lot, the family because she is not noisy or noisy during this time has been a lot of harmony, I really think she is a child who does not grow up, immature and unstable I don't know what to say when getting along with people, maybe because she used to be a housewife).

By the way, I also went to college in 17 years, and I graduated in one year, and I finally survived, you have to look at the duck like me!!

You're in a similar situation to me! It's okay! I had a fight with my dad today!

Because my dad always drinks! He's not in good health! I told him not to drink!

My dad is very annoying when he has something! I said you can't drink like this every day! Hurt the body!

He said something was troublesome! My dad also said how I was! Say I don't fight for him!

How much it spent! Look at other people's children! What's going on!

I'm mad when I hear it! I don't even know what I'm doing when I lose my temper! No ideas!

Mess around! I also said I would pay you back! How much do you want!

My dad just said! You're not light! I didn't even know what my temper was coming about!

I'm God! In the future, you should find more people to communicate! Let the words of your heart speak!

It's better!

Money is not the main thing, home and everything is prosperous, these four typing should be a straight reference reference.

If you decisively divorce your parents, there will be no happiness in living with such a person.

Your mother is a good woman, and she actually wants to give you a complete home because she is so patient.

This is your mother's and your father's business, there is no way to interfere with children, maybe your mother loves your father in her heart, so she has repeatedly tolerated it, how he is making trouble, after all, there will be a day of peace, you just need to do your duty as a child.

Let your mom divorce him Such a man is not a human being.

Do you know, if I were Er, I would kill my father.

I. It's been many years since I left my hometown. I was 17 years old.

Children in the countryside. Very satisfying in life. At that time, I was able to endure hardships better than others.

I work with the boss who repairs the road every day. 10 quick money a day to eat and sleep in a shed on the edge of the construction site. Rainy or windy days were the hardest days of those two years.

Two years have passed since then. I'm already a 19-year-old lad. Later, my boss on the construction site came to Henan.

Continue to build a highway at a place called Wanggang in Xinyang City. Because of the recognition of the boss and my dedication for half a year, the boss asked me to help him look at the construction site. The salary reached more than 1000.

It's really the outside. But I feel very satisfied. Because compared to the pain and indifference that my own mother and father and my own brother brought to me, it really didn't mean much.

Since I was a child, my body has developed slower than others. When I was born, my mother had another illness. It took a long time to get better.

A few years later, my brother was born, and there was a lot of joy in the family, and I was also very happy and sad because of my brother's arrival, and my little love and love at home was taken away by my brother. I'm 7 years old and it's time for school. When I was in school, I was stupider than ordinary people, and I was often indifferent and ridiculed by teachers and classmates, as well as scolded by people at home.

I grew up with scolding and counting. I dropped out of school before I finished junior high school. People in the family said I was superfluous.

I knew I was stupid, so I worked with my parents at home and worked in the fields every day. This way to the age of 17. I haven't grown much taller either.

So I was still ridiculed by people my age for being a dwarf. Wu Dalang, in such a bad environment and all kinds of things that my family brought to me. I decided to leave my hometown.

I went down to a place in our province with a boss in the village and started building a road with him. And so on until the age of 19. It's also much more sensible.

I haven't given a ** to my family in the few years I've been outside. Fortunately, my vitality is strong, and I have never been sick on windy and rainy days. So I had a little savings, and then the boss went to Tianjin.

I didn't go along. I came to Xinyang alone. Keep looking for a job.

But it's really hard to find a job, because I don't have any skills or skills, and my height is not 1.6 meters, so I spent a few months. In the end, I worked with the owner of a hotel with the help of a fellow countryman. That is, cooking and guarding at night .

Until now.

In fact, you can just sit up from a small business. A small business will not have much investment, and even if it fails, it will not lose much, what do you say?

Hello, you are now a difficult time in life, whether it is life or emotionally, please believe in your family, they are also for your good will say you, be strong, take your time, nothing will succeed all at once, do it slowly, it will get better.

Do whatever you want to do, don't go forward.

Du is afraid of the tiger.

Zhi wolf's, in the end everything.

The DAO didn't do it. No wonder people in the family talk about you. Rong first of all, he has no confidence in himself, how can others respect you.

You already look like you're going to be scolded, and that person will be angry when he sees it, so it's strange if you don't say it. You have to be self-reliant first, and the help of others is only temporary.

Alas, you are better than me, I am 30 years old, I have no wife, no car, no house, no good job, I want to have a child but I don't, you have a child, you have a lover, you want to marry a wife but you don't want a watch, what do you say I do! Working outside is often looked down upon, and when I go home, my mother scolds me every day, I really don't want to live anymore!

The reproaches of family and friends around you are all concerned about you, and the key is that you want to.

You can afford to look down on yourself, don't close yourself back. Your emotions and actions will affect the child's personality and temperament, and he will learn from you about your strength and vulnerability. I hope you can make more friends, communicate with people more, change your concept and change your way of life, and welcome a better day!